Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Was going to meet this Filipino chick this Friday in my hood, but my gut is telling me to bush.

Matched with her on Tinder last Sunday.

The chat has been pedestrian so far, she was talking a big game about how she was "an experience like no other"

so I rolled the dice and gave her my number earlier today. Told her to text me.

She didn't even acknowledge that when she replied. but asked what I had planned for tomorrow. I told her and still no reply.

I can already see an evening of trying to force conversation on the cards. I had another invite with a chick I already see. May take that up instead as I know she's a lot of fun.

I've adopted a new thing now, I don't give chicks my number till after I meet em.
We can message and call in the app

 

[MikelArteta]

Chick cancelled on me tonight, "Can we reschedule for another day, something came up"

Yeah sure no problem - delete

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

Chick cancelled on me tonight, "Can we reschedule for another day, something came up"

Yeah sure no problem - delete

No offer to reschedule from her? How rude

 

[MikelArteta]

No offer to reschedule from her? How rude

Nope none I know the game

Will ask someone else

 

[International Playa]

Chick cancelled on me tonight, "Can we reschedule for another day, something came up"

Yeah sure no problem - delete

Friday night lol. Her ex or some other dude hit her up.

 

[MikelArteta]

Friday night lol. Her ex or some other dude hit her up.

Lol yup I know how the game is. These chicks think I'm stupid, went from I'm off work for the next week any day is fine to can we reschedule.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Lol i matched woth pinay yesterday
On tinder as well
Suppose to meet up sunday
Cute but def not my type
Hella tats on her arms and chest

And told she gets bored easy
Red flag
Then asked to go on a tattoo date to pay for new tat
Said usally has situaltioships

Overall a bird brain not gonna pursre any more

She sounds hideous personality-wise.

Definitely don't be messing with that chick.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I've adopted a new thing now, I don't give chicks my number till after I meet em.
We can message and call in the app

Tbh I knew this chick would probably not message me. The energy was already off-key.

I've unmatched her now anyway.



Going to spend Friday night with my Hapa chick

 

[WIA20XX]

Chick cancelled on me tonight, "Can we reschedule for another day, something came up"

Yeah sure no problem - delete

Missing an opportunity to pump and dump.

Also

Missing a chance on possible fire gunch that will enslave you.

Also

Missing an opportunity to bring pump and dump drama into your life.

Good move, I say.

 

[MikelArteta]

Missing an opportunity to pump and dump.

Also

Missing a chance on possible fire gunch that will enslave you.

Also

Missing an opportunity to bring pump and dump drama into your life.

Good move, I say.

I always treat it like a job interview. If you have job interview scheduled for today at a big time firm and if you called them and tell them sorry I'm unable to attend can we reschedule for another day?


1. it shows you don't really care about that job

2. That job will toss your resume in the trash and go with another candidate

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Tbh I knew this chick would probably not message me. The energy was already off-key.

I've unmatched her now anyway.



Going to spend Friday night with my Hapa chick

Compatibility is very important

Looks can take a woman far but personality and attitude makes or break the situation

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Dating in your 30s is far different than in your 20s. In fact, it gets easier

What I notice

- Less time for mind games, attention whores and emotional scammers
- Finances to take girls out. Beware of gold diggers though, they got sugar daddy syndrome
- Most women in their 20s are looking for older men. They’re looking for experience, leadership and dominance
- We understand female nature holistically, therefore, we don’t simp

I just wish these Gen Z was less socially awkward

 

[WIA20XX]

One of the problems of dating when older - is that a man typically cares a lot less about the girl, about the relationship. Especially if you got more than few under your belt. (caring can drive more engagement from her side to get you interested, paradoxically)

I wish I felt the way about these good looking broads (25+) today, like I felt about average broads at 19.

If Zendaya/Lori Harvey/a freshly divorced Nicki Minaj were to drop into my life right now...wouldn't match how I felt about that shorty I served some french fries to back in the day.

 

[Astroslik]

No offer to reschedule from her? How rude

Sit back and learn from the big dogs, breh…

 

[re'up]

Regarding anxiety and social anxiety, struggled with heavily abusing cocaine and alcohol as a teenager, and as a result, plus cause of that, had severe anxiety for a long time, especially after getting clean and sober. Felt like my skin was crawling all the time, just every minute, no matter where I was, or what I did, but year by year, I worked at it, and it's in control now, or not nearly as severe.

All that to say, a lot of women and just people late 20's, up to mid 30's, observing up close, have such pronounced anxiety and just like excessively neurotic behavior, it's intense. Between phones/social media, there is a real undercurrent of extremely anxious behavior. and I think it's like encouraged almost, no one really wants to work on it, they just want to deal with it. Don't have much engagement with young women, like 20, to seem but I imagine it's even worse. Like they can't order a coffee without having a near breakdown.