Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CW_1991]

28 with a job but no car and driving 3 hours for a hang out…….

Right. Instead of video chatting or sending me some kind of a live clip she's insisting on my IG handle...

She lives in Washington DC, she says, but is in Atlanta atm visiting. I forget if it's for work or just to see some of family. I just know she said she'll use her brother's car to come this way...

 

[Data-Hawk]

Got a serious question for y'all. I'm a little hesitant but maybe y'all can give me your thoughts.

So on Facebook I'm in this black nerd kind of group where people talk about nerdy type shyt and this one chick messaged me in my messenger and got to talking with me about myself and what she does and what not, eventually spoke on the phone, and she travels for work as some sort of interior designer/decorator or something for Airbnb properties or something. Anyway, she's in Atlanta and I'm somewhere near Savannah and she now wants to kind of come and chill in person rather than talking on the phone and stuff. Before she has to leave again. Moving pretty fast and very unusual to me, but I mean who knows? What do y'all think? Based off her Facebook she's pretty cute. Ethiopian chick. 28, no kids, into anime shyt like that.

she says she's going to use her brother's car or something to come see me, and again it's like 3 hours+ away or something. So if you were to drive that distance surely it's not some kind of underhanded tactic going on I would think. But who knows. What do y'all think.

She basically said she just wants to chill and vibe and maybe watch some TV or something before she has to leave back to the next state or whatever she got to do. Basically sound like maybe she wants some dikk

Edit:

She's asking for my address, and I wasn't going to give it to her until she gave me her personal cell, but she says that she normally uses IG and Facebook for communicating because her phone is her work phone with a bunch of clients and things of that nature...

Non work related calls get forwarded she says.


Ended up giving her the address to a gas station near my spot and not my spot exactly. Just in case. If she's trying to pull up I'll meet her there and peep out the vibe. If she even really is going to come.

Setup.........Come on man. A female that messages you *first*, willing to drive 3hrs to come see you.

Naw.

 

[CW_1991]

Setup.........Come on man. A female that messages you *first*, willing to drive 3hrs to come see you.

Naw.

I'm thinking something is up. Probably right. It don't work like that in the real world.

 

[The ADD]

Setup.........Come on man. A female that messages you *first*, willing to drive 3hrs to come see you.

Naw.

^^^

 

[Mazino]

It really is. I went on to her main Facebook page and went down the timeline. A lot of activity and pictures and things that are pretty consistent with the kind of female I perceived her to be. Nerdy square type chick. But the back of my mind tells me to just be extra cautious.

I wasn't born yesterday.

Trying to video chat with her or have her send me a snap or something of her at this very moment. Just to put me at ease

Multiple red flags chief pump the damn breaks

 

[Ahadi]

Right. Instead of video chatting or sending me some kind of a live clip she's insisting on my IG handle...

She lives in Washington DC, she says, but is in Atlanta atm visiting. I forget if it's for work or just to see some of family. I just know she said she'll use her brother's car to come this way...

Cause her brothers coming to see you



Ain’t no Ethiopian joints messaging first. You got ppl in that nerd group who are opps looking for prey.

Put her IG down and spoiler it

 

[Data-Hawk]

I'm thinking something is up. Probably right. It don't work like that in the real world.

Yeah man. Please don't do it. I've come across plenty of scammers from dating apps, facebook, and even listening to podcasts and how they trick people out of their money.

They want you to act off impulse( Must do something ASAP , hinting at sex etc. ) and want to remove you thinking as much as possible.

If it's to good to be true. It is.

 

[CW_1991]

Asked why couldn't we just videochat on messenger she talking about it's too grainy.




I'm going to fukk around and wake up in a bathtub full of ice with my guts hanging out.


Definitely full of shyt

 

[CW_1991]

Cause her brothers coming to see you



Ain’t no Ethiopian joints messaging first. You got ppl in that nerd group who are opps looking for prey.

Put her IG down and spoiler it

She just gave it to me but it's private.

1,200 followers, but like 10 posts...

 

[Ahadi]

She just gave it to me but it's private.

1,200 followers, but like 10 posts...

I can crack that lol

 

[Data-Hawk]

Asked why couldn't we just videochat on messenger she talking about it's too grainy.




I'm going to fukk around and wake up in a bathtub full of ice with my guts hanging out.


Definitely full of shyt

Most likely what she'll or should I say the guy behind her do is . She'll front like she's coming to your place , Say she's near and then say can you Cashapp her some money for something( need help with rent, phone bill anything ) and then she'll say " If you really want to chill, you'll do it" . She's counting on you being horny enough to do it.

I've read so many stories like damn maybe I should give this a try. But I don't' have the heart for it. I'd feel bad lol

 

[CW_1991]

I can crack that lol

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Have at it. I already blocked her on facebook. I'm not getting got

 

[re'up]

Is that really a reasonable scenario? Like are you in the dope game or flashing money, to think an intricate romance scam to get some minor amount of money is likely? Given all the nerd, anime stuff, I am thinking not

What is more reasonable is that she is a little needy, a little desperate, looking for something maybe too soon

not saying meet, but that scenario sounds extremely paranoid to me.

 

[The ADD]

Is that really a reasonable scenario? Like are you in the dope game or flashing money, to think an intricate romance scam to get some minor amount of money is likely? Given all the nerd, anime stuff, I am thinking not

What is more reasonable is that she is a little needy, a little desperate, looking for something maybe too soon

not saying meet, but that scenario sounds extremely paranoid to me.

People will rob you for the smallest amount

 

[CW_1991]

Is that really a reasonable scenario? Like are you in the dope game or flashing money, to think an intricate romance scam to get some minor amount of money is likely? Given all the nerd, anime stuff, I am thinking not

What is more reasonable is that she is a little needy, a little desperate, looking for something maybe too soon

not saying meet, but that scenario sounds extremely paranoid to me.

I leaned on the side of common sense and caution and deaded the whole thing. Too many red flags.