Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

Posted in the thread but briffaults law be tearing dudes out the frame.. Read it, understand it, accept it. You will be better for it.

The funny thing about referencing Briffault - is that Tyrese is objectively - tall, dark, handsome, famous, rich.

The RP teaches that if you max the stats on your RPG character, she should stick around. (See MBJ...)

But what we know as Black Men, to quote the poet, "When a woman's fed up, ain't nothing you can do about it".

A lot of the "science-ification" of The Game be it Briffault, Sexual Market Place Value, Evolutionary Psychology - is great at explaining stuff in the statistics of the population. But it tends to fail to help folks actually handle situations that come up.

At least he got off easy, only paying 10K a month.

 

[skyrunner1]

The funny thing about referencing Briffault - is that Tyrese is objectively - tall, dark, handsome, famous, rich.

The RP teaches that if you max the stats on your RPG character, she should stick around. (See MBJ...)

But what we know as Black Men, to quote the poet, "When a woman's fed up, ain't nothing you can do about it".

A lot of the "science-ification" of The Game be it Briffault, Sexual Market Place Value, Evolutionary Psychology - is great at explaining stuff in the statistics of the population. But it tends to fail to help folks actually handle situations that come up.

At least he got off easy, only paying 10K a month.

To cite where I heard it from (Dante Nero/beige phillips).. "Everybody. Gets. Got." No one who plays the game gets out clean. Like I always say I like to take what I read/hear and press it up against my life and its true..

Grew up and my best friend was the Ultra select type, Girls love him, dudes want to be him, great athlete, picked first on team type, optimist legend, yada yada.. talking in elementary school teachers telling him he gonna be trouble (we didnt really understand at time or atleast I didnt, lol but I remember), we get to middle school 6th grade and the 8th grader girls want to talk to him! Like this shyt doesnt happen to normal people, these are the girls we all got crushes on, they about to be in high school, lol.. We get to high school and same thing Senior girls choosing HEAVY on the kid.. He gets a senior girl from another school, bad little cheerleader, This is business as usual for him but we always used to ask him wassup, living vicariously thru the kid.. Found out he was just a side dude for her older man, lol.. Turned my boy demon time for a bit, and he had the tools to run thru any and every But for me personally it exposed me to dam if my dawg can get torn out the frame.. it can happen to ANYBODY. So certain aspects were just like explanations to things I saw in real life thats why I love this shyt for all men..


Now with these celebrity lives everywhere, we see it with Will Smith, Brad Pitt, Tom Brady, MBJ, Tyrese.. These are the TOP dudes in their respective fields, There is no alpha you way thru it, lol.. When I hear dudes like muthafukkin Tyson Beckford talk about these things, and a regular breh is sitting there like howwwwwwww and whyyyyyyyyyyyy?! Like breh, we all get got.. Tighten up..

 

[Wargames]

El Trasho! That app is whack man. All their apps are imo.

They destoryed Hinge, Blk fell off, Tinder is whack now and so is upward their christian dating app.


I couldn't even tell you man, I get most matches from answers to prompts then my own ever since that app changed lol. I brought up 90s rnb music being the best music, what I'm looking for/green flags and all I ask is that you are adventerous and have an open mind. Something along those lines.

I didn’t know Match owned Hinge and Tinder! No wonder they both became trash. That fukking company ruins every app where you can actually meet women. They had to go out of their way to make both Tinder and Hinge worthless because you use to be able to feast on them.

It’s literally a countdown from a dating app actually working to them buying it and monetizing wasting your time online.

 

[Guvnor]

I didn’t know Match owned Hinge and Tinder! No wonder they both became trash. That fukking company ruins every app where you can actually meet women. They had to go out of their way to make both Tinder and Hinge worthless because you use to be able to feast on them.

It’s literally a countdown from a dating app actually working to them buying it and monetizing wasting your time online.

I find all their apps just straight up suck. They fukk with the algorithims and make it almost impossible to meet women on their apps. They prioritize monetization and keeping you on their apps so they can make more money. Hinge was like a goldmine and now even that shyt is trash.

It fukking sucks but that's the game, capitalism and business is going to ruin some things. Got to just move forward, either find other apps or start hollering in person.

 

[RealAssanova]

Real shyt. Unfortunately at the end you gotta have a poker face and act like you were never invested. Even the slow fade might give them a little closure.

Like you gotta walk COLD. No response to texting, phone calls, social media. Like a ghost. Like you suddenly got abducted. It’s something shocking to the conscience to just suddenly “lose contact” with someone there was a connection with even if THEY wanted the breakup

Its always funny seeing how women get when you go cold on them.

Had 1 woman at work (she works for another company) be real cool and tight wit me all throughout last summer up until new years. Basically told me its mine whenever i’m ready and want it. Didn’t want it. Anyways, she started bein short and lame thru texts 1 night when we was working. I peeped it and said aii that’s it.

Whenever we crossed paths, i kept walkin away from her as i was talking and it shocked her.

Anyways, nowadays (ie. today) whenever she sees me its like she wants to burn me alive

That’s how i be though. Length of the relationship/situationship/friendship or history/chemistry i may have had with a woman doesn’t matter. It gets buried the minute i detect the slightest form of disrespect.

They don’t know how to react/deal with that.

 

[Ahadi]

I hate bytches with hive mentalities.



Could’ve scoops this one joint, but the friend was making everything awkward

 

[Balla]

I know men aren’t allowed to admit they’re hurt or messed up over a breakup but Tyrese just said 5 minutes of real shyt

Women are cold and ruthless when they’re ready to leave. They can give a fukk. My last breakup (which has been documented in this thread and in other threads) opened my eyes WIDE OPEN. That’s why now, when I’m ready to leave and I start feeling sorry for a girl or mercy when she begs me not to leave her I sit back and think…would she have the same consideration for me when she’s ready to move on, would my begging and pleading make her stay, would she be worried about me after she hops on the new guy. I’ve become more mechanical, icy even. I just cut off a girl 2 weeks ago who basically begged me not to stop dealing with her and the whole time inside I was like

Sad part is I wasn’t like that before but there’s something shocking to the consciousness when a woman treats you the same way Tyrese just described after so much time, emotions, and memories shared. You go from talking EVERYDAY all day to zero nothing perfect strangers type shyt. It can change you permanently

When you care you lose.

 

[Apollo Creed]

My MARRIED ex girlfriend texted me today asking has she negatively impacted my life. Husband must not be giving her attention.

Hope yoh left her on read

 

[re'up]

Avoidance is a big part of what I see and hear, it's a natural thing to want to avoid pain/hurt/embarrassment, but if you start training yourself to always avoid those things, that comes at a cost. Dating/sex/intimacy/relationships, the harder you play, the more you will end up bruised up emotionally, from time to time, but you just factor that in, rather that try to avoid feelings/intimacy/participation.

The idea that "not having/catching feelings" is one of those rap star/R&B phrases that became like assimilated into popular culture by white people and has lost all it's original context. It was rappers and stars talking to groupies in other cities, not like people they actually know lol

I heard a great quote once, from a trial lawyer, "don't lead with your fears"

a lot of these people, men and women, so damn delicate, it breaks my heart a little, rather ride the bench than get beat up a little on the field. Goes all the way back to childhood shyt.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Aye fellas. would yall take this as disrespect? or am I being sensitive? a few things happened

Been seeing a chick...
1) I'm taking a shower... she brushes her teeth and then joins me but has mouthwash in her mouth. She intentionally spits it out on my feet in the shower. Then the next day is like "yeah I spit it on your ugly feet"

2) later that day she's walking 10-20 ft behind me for about an hour...

3) on her phone. To me, I think it's fine if you're on the phone... but just say "give me a min while I check this" instead she's on the phone and not even walking as I continue to walk.

I tell her these things and she starts laughing especially at the mouthwash...

Am i being sensitive? or would yall be cool with that?

 

[re'up]

Depends on your kind of relationship, like the banter teasing, does that go both ways? Is that a foreplay thing? It's not exactly witticism but if it's just playful teasing, that's a big part of a lot of people's flirting/expressing love/desire, comes from childhood, like teasing girls on the playground. For a lot of people, it's easier to tease than to say I like you/I want you.

The phone thing is not great. But, here's the real test is how she responds to you bringing it up, assumedly in a mature way: if she's disrespectful, or says well that's just the way I am, shows signs of rigid/inflexible thinking. And what if it was a more serious subject, she would possibly react the same. How much or how often can you live with, is your question to yourself.

 

[WIA20XX]

Am i being sensitive? or would yall be cool with that?

She'd be gone.

 

[Panther]

Spit on my feet?

 

[Ohene]

Aye fellas. would yall take this as disrespect? or am I being sensitive? a few things happened

Been seeing a chick...
1) I'm taking a shower... she brushes her teeth and then joins me but has mouthwash in her mouth. She intentionally spits it out on my feet in the shower. Then the next day is like "yeah I spit it on your ugly feet"

2) later that day she's walking 10-20 ft behind me for about an hour...

3) on her phone. To me, I think it's fine if you're on the phone... but just say "give me a min while I check this" instead she's on the phone and not even walking as I continue to walk.

I tell her these things and she starts laughing especially at the mouthwash...

Am i being sensitive? or would yall be cool with that?

Sounds like she got loose screws
What else has happened
Got to be more lol

 

[Brandsdale]

Aye fellas. would yall take this as disrespect? or am I being sensitive? a few things happened

Been seeing a chick...
1) I'm taking a shower... she brushes her teeth and then joins me but has mouthwash in her mouth. She intentionally spits it out on my feet in the shower. Then the next day is like "yeah I spit it on your ugly feet"

2) later that day she's walking 10-20 ft behind me for about an hour...

3) on her phone. To me, I think it's fine if you're on the phone... but just say "give me a min while I check this" instead she's on the phone and not even walking as I continue to walk.

I tell her these things and she starts laughing especially at the mouthwash...

Am i being sensitive? or would yall be cool with that?

she seems rude. Address that shyt before she starts to think bullying you is ok, cause it seems like she already finds it funny