Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The other day @360dagod said sumn about teaching young women

Random gem: dont ever teach women unless they paying for it in some way or making some sort of sacrifice/investment in you and Yall relationship

The same women will break up with you and try your lessons out on new men.

Instead, let negative experiences be what teach them. Its the only way most women learn
 

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The other day @360dagod said sumn about teaching young women

Random gem: dont ever teach women unless they paying for it in some way or making some sort of sacrifice/investment in you and Yall relationship

The same women will break up with you and try your lessons out on new men.

Instead, let negative experiences be what teach them. Its the only way most women learn
what examples do you mean by paying for it and sacrifices/investments?

I would only teach a woman thats 21-25. Anything over they should know better IMO.
 
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The other day @360dagod said sumn about teaching young women

Random gem: dont ever teach women unless they paying for it in some way or making some sort of sacrifice/investment in you and Yall relationship

The same women will break up with you and try your lessons out on new men.

Instead, let negative experiences be what teach them. Its the only way most women learn

Dealing with young women=worried about the nikka after

Dealing with older women= worried about the nikka before

All that equals is a cycle of "serial dating" where the man becomes "frustrated" and "bitter" because he zones in on the "risks/issues" instead of UNDERSTANDING that the risk/issues comes within the entry point itself....

It's like me being mad cuz some 22 year old bytch wants to take 2000 pics on a date to show off for IG

Or

Some 34 year old single mother trying to lullaby me into a pay to play/step-daddy role

That's what she supposed to fukking do..
 

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Dealing with young women=worried about the nikka after

Dealing with older women= worried about the nikka before

All that equals is a cycle of "serial dating" where the man becomes "frustrated" and "bitter" because he zones in on the "risks/issues" instead of UNDERSTANDING that the risk/issues comes within the entry point itself....

It's like me being mad cuz some 22 year old bytch wants to take 2000 pics on a date to show off for IG

Or

Some 34 year old single mother trying to lullaby me into a pay to play/step-daddy role

That's what she supposed to fukking do..
:sas1:
 

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what examples do you mean by paying for it and sacrifices/investments?

I would only teach a woman thats 21-25. Anything over they should know better IMO.
Good question . The way we typically invest is through time, money, energy and emotion.

It aint too many realistic, practical ones. But an example could be a girl helping you start a business, moving with you to a new location and starting over so you could start a new job, buying you certain gifts or planning and paying for activities that you like. A lot of it comes down to being submissive really

The way i see it these things give her skin in the game and wont completely eliminate her desire to leave if things get tough, but will at least reduce the likelihood significantly.



In terms of the age i agree they should know better but young girls tend to think they are invincible and are hard of hearing. The only way most learn is through negative or humbling experiences
 
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We gonna keep it a buck...

Some of yall are the equivalent of going to McDonald's and getting upset cuz they don't serve collard greens...

And then going back to tell everyone how bad McDonald's is..

A failure is McDonald's giving you cold fries, not serving soul food...
 

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how u know she cheated tho
Good question . The way we typically invesy is through time, money, energy and emotion.

It aint too many realistic, practical ones. But an example could be a girl helping you start a business, moving with you to a new location and starting over so you could start a new job, buying you certain gifts or planning and paying for activities that you like. A lot of it comes down to being submissive really

The way i see it these things give her skin in the game and wont completely eliminate her desire to leave if things get tough, but will at least reduce the likelihood significantly.



In terms of the age i agree they should know better but young girls tend to think they are invincible and are hard of hearing. The only way most learn is through negative or humbling experiences

Or when age catches up too them
 

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We gonna keep it a buck...

Some of yall are the equivalent of going to McDonald's and getting upset cuz they don't serve collard greens...

And then going back to tell everyone how bad McDonald's is..

A failure is McDonald's giving you cold fries, not serving soul food...
who?

i dont think that is the mistake dudes in here make. in fact i think its the opposite, assuming that there is differentiation between burger king, mcdonalds and wendy's when at the end of the day, they all serving burgers, fries and high fructose corn syrup with slight differences in the flavors and appearance.
 

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The way i see it these things give her skin in the game and wont completely eliminate her desire to leave if things get tough, but will at least reduce the likelihood significantly.

Imma keep it a buck and your post is spot on somewhat but I don’t think there’s ANY amount of investment on her end that’s gonna reduce or keep a woman from exiting your life. I say this as a man that’s witnessed women in my past and women in other men’s lives invest heavily with respects to financially, emotionally, and time and they still walked away from the situation.

With that being said, I’ve been focused on self improvement financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually which helps me be the BEST option a woman has at any given time. I think that’s the key when it comes to women and whether they will exercise their options. And hell they STILL might leave. But that’s ok. It is what it is.
 
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