Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Imma keep it a buck and your post is spot on somewhat but I don’t think there’s ANY amount of investment on her end that’s gonna reduce or keep a woman from exiting your life. I say this as a man that’s witnessed women in my past and women in other men’s lives invest heavily with respects to financially, emotionally, and time and they still walked away from the situation.

With that being said, I’ve been focused on self improvement financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually which helps me be the BEST option a woman has at any given time. I think that’s the key when it comes to women and whether they will exercise their options. And hell they STILL might leave. But that’s ok. It is what it is.

yup at the end of the day it doesn't matter what you do. Right now a well to do woman is with a guy who doesn't have anything and right now a woman is leaving a guy who has "everything"

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

yup at the end of the day it doesn't matter what you do. Right now a well to do woman is with a guy who doesn't have anything and right now a woman is leaving a guy who has "everything"

I’ve learned that women are pragmatic with their emotions. That’s never more evident than when they aren’t “in love” anymore. I would never advise a man to punish current women for what a woman has done in the past but recognize changes in patterns with your woman and eject BEFORE they do.

Now, when I first get the gut feeling to walk away from a woman no matter what stage we’re in I do and NEVER look back because I feel that’s me my subconscious warning myself that this won’t end well with this woman.

 

[Ahadi]

“I told my friend about you”



“We had some girl talk “

 

[ViShawn]

 

[Guvnor]

Me and my boy was arguing about this and I wondered what y'all think. Is there a such thing as bad p*ssy lol? Anyone care to share any stories?

I say yes cause one chick was so dry it was hard to stay hard and keep fukking her lol. Another chick was so loose lol. What y'all say?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Me and my boy was arguing about this and I wondered what y'all think. Is there a such thing as bad p*ssy lol? Anyone care to share any stories?

I say yes cause one chick was so dry it was hard to stay hard and keep fukking her lol. Another chick was so loose she even asked me after if she was loose and I tried to lie at first cause she was cool but after I told her the truth and she seemed upset.

ain’t much of an argument…it’s p*ssy you didn’t enjoy

you shouldn’t have lied about it. Either talk to her if it was fixable or get rid of her — basically what women do with us

 

[RealAssanova]

I’ve learned that women are pragmatic with their emotions. That’s never more evident than when they aren’t “in love” anymore. I would never advise a man to punish current women for what a woman has done in the past but recognize changes in patterns with your woman and eject BEFORE they do.

Now, when I first get the gut feeling to walk away from a woman no matter what stage we’re in I do and NEVER look back because I feel that’s me my subconscious warning myself that this won’t end well with this woman.

I always do this…and it always catches them off guard.

Cuz they expect the dude to come harder when the woman switches up and starts fading away…not switch up and fade away back on them. So essentially, she has no control over you and the situation as she thought she maybe did. Panic ensues. But by the time she comes back around after a period of silence and indifference from me, i’m turned off.

Kind of falls in line with something i live by…which is to never give women closure.

 

[Guvnor]

ain’t much of an argument…it’s p*ssy you didn’t enjoy

you shouldn’t have lied about it. Either talk to her if it was fixable or get rid of her — basically what women do with us

Lol I ain't want to hurt her feelings, this girl used to get me nice gifts and we had a good vibe. Was trying to be nice but you're right should have kept it real with her.

However I'm asking cause my boy said there was no such thing as bad p*ssy. I'm like you tripping lol.

Also I don't know if it's me but the original magnum condoms don't be as good as they used to be. Every time I use them suckers they dry up on me lol.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I always do this…and it always catches them off guard.

Cuz they expect the dude to come harder when the woman switches up and starts fading away…not switch up and fade away back on them.

Kind of falls in line with something i live by…which is to never give women closure.

Real shyt. Unfortunately at the end you gotta have a poker face and act like you were never invested. Even the slow fade might give them a little closure.

Like you gotta walk COLD. No response to texting, phone calls, social media. Like a ghost. Like you suddenly got abducted. It’s something shocking to the conscience to just suddenly “lose contact” with someone there was a connection with even if THEY wanted the breakup

 

[Rasille]

Tyrese’s rant reminds us that when women are done with you they are done.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Tyrese’s rant reminds us that when women are done with you they are done.

I know men aren’t allowed to admit they’re hurt or messed up over a breakup but Tyrese just said 5 minutes of real shyt

Women are cold and ruthless when they’re ready to leave. They can give a fukk. My last breakup (which has been documented in this thread and in other threads) opened my eyes WIDE OPEN. That’s why now, when I’m ready to leave and I start feeling sorry for a girl or mercy when she begs me not to leave her I sit back and think…would she have the same consideration for me when she’s ready to move on, would my begging and pleading make her stay, would she be worried about me after she hops on the new guy. I’ve become more mechanical, icy even. I just cut off a girl 2 weeks ago who basically begged me not to stop dealing with her and the whole time inside I was like

Sad part is I wasn’t like that before but there’s something shocking to the consciousness when a woman treats you the same way Tyrese just described after so much time, emotions, and memories shared. You go from talking EVERYDAY all day to zero nothing perfect strangers type shyt. It can change you permanently

 

[Rasille]

It’s in their nature to be that way. Once you learn that, it becomes easier to accept.

 

[Guvnor]

Chispa got commercials now



Anyone ever been on it? Heard it’s also a “match group” acquisition

El Trasho! That app is whack man. All their apps are imo.

They destoryed Hinge, Blk fell off, Tinder is whack now and so is upward their christian dating app.

what prompts you using on hinge and bumble? Feel like I gotta switch mine up every few months.

I couldn't even tell you man, I get most matches from answers to prompts then my own ever since that app changed lol. I brought up 90s rnb music being the best music, what I'm looking for/green flags and all I ask is that you are adventerous and have an open mind. Something along those lines.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

one thing I learned is women gone women they cant help themselves it is ingrained in them. and they all pretty much operate the same way so don't think this one is any different than the next. dont even get mad at them just move on.

 

[skyrunner1]

Tyrese’s rant reminds us that when women are done with you they are done.

Posted in the thread but briffaults law be tearing dudes out the frame.. Read it, understand it, accept it. You will be better for it.