Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I'm killing it on hinge at the moment



So much women out there breh.

One of my old sayings is there are women out there praying on their hands on knees for you

Why worry about the ones who don’t want you when ythere are those who do

 

[Brandsdale]

Edit:

Lately it seems like a lot more dudes genuinely dont really value their relationship or continually wait for an opportunity to cheat. Most are because they provide financially, others are out of curiosity or pettiness.

To each their own but I mean… does anyone actually care to be wit a chic? Like be married, vows, kids grow old not cheat etc?

 

[The ADD]

Lately it seems like almost every dude I come across genuinely doesn’t really value their relationship or continually waits for an opportunity to cheat. Most are because they provide financially, others are out of curiosity or pettiness.

To each their own but I mean… does anyone actually care to be wit a chic? Like be married, vows, kids grow old not cheat etc?

Of course there are

 

[JNew]

Lately it seems like almost every dude I come across genuinely doesn’t really value their relationship or continually waits for an opportunity to cheat. Most are because they provide financially, others are out of curiosity or pettiness.

To each their own but I mean… does anyone actually care to be wit a chic? Like be married, vows, kids grow old not cheat etc?

The only dudes ik who want to settle down nowadays are dudes lookin for a come up or dudes who don’t get chick like that and are desperate for anything.


Or on the flip side girls grooming dudes to fall in luv and marry them, so she can get the come up.

Not alot of genuine feelings on either side. People nowadays are getting into relationships out of social obligations.

The dating market nowadays is like the job market. Everyone knows robots and AI are coming but we still have to work until then, but guess what you get a 4 day week, you work from home and no one’s really monitoring you.

 

[WIA20XX]

Lately it seems like almost every dude I come across genuinely doesn’t really value their relationship or continually waits for an opportunity to cheat. Most are because they provide financially, others are out of curiosity or pettiness.

To each their own but I mean… does anyone actually care to be wit a chic? Like be married, vows, kids grow old not cheat etc?

Dudes that can't chill....

1) Cats that are young and/or immature.

2) Cats that have no D discipline.

3) Sociopaths

4) Cats that have dated multiple females, did right by them and then got punished for it. Like Born Again Christians, they practice the player gospel more than they preach it.

And usually the chick (s) that have done them dirty aren't Blac Chyna obvious trainwreck types.

No sir. To keep it nostalgic, it be the **Laura Winslow** types.

It'd be one thing to get played by a Lori Harvey or an Amber Rose or a Zendaya. At least you got in them glorified guts.

Naw, it's the Quinta Brunson type females.

 

[360dagod]

Lately it seems like almost every dude I come across genuinely doesn’t really value their relationship or continually waits for an opportunity to cheat. Most are because they provide financially, others are out of curiosity or pettiness.

To each their own but I mean… does anyone actually care to be wit a chic? Like be married, vows, kids grow old not cheat etc?

This been happening since the beginning of time...

 

[Brandsdale]

Edit

 

[Brandsdale]

The only dudes ik who want to settle down nowadays are dudes lookin for a come up or dudes who don’t get chick like that and are desperate for anything.


Or on the flip side girls grooming dudes to fall in luv and marry them, so she can get the come up.

Not alot of genuine feelings on either side. People nowadays are getting into relationships out of social obligations.

The dating market nowadays is like the job market. Everyone knows robots and AI are coming but we still have to work until then, but guess what you get a 4 day week, you work from home and no one’s really monitoring you.

im also 32 so I assume a bit of the issues with dating is wanting to have a certain status and upholding it at a certain age, regardless of the circumstance or how you go about it.

Like sure, in reality it would be great to fukk a bunch of hoes year after year and be a lone wolf

but a lot more social circles steer towards having a plus one as you get older. I’m not saying you get forced into coupling but the whole idea of you showing up alone to a baby shower, wedding, proposal, birthday etc, might get a bit more depressing or envious for some.

For example, My homie and his bro are having kids soon and every time I show up to a gathering lately it’s becoming more like a flippin daycare now

I absolutely wanna have kids and worry sometimes but some dudes might become a bit more pressured to do the same.

 

[Apollo Creed]

hoes convo game is so fukking trash man. And it be the chicks who initiate convo with me. After 3-4 times of me driving convo and you just responding and not continuing dialog I'm just not responding anymore.

 

[Ahadi]

A lot of joints from the past are just nosy.

Always pay attention to the communication style.

 

[Brandsdale]

hoes convo game is so fukking trash man. And it be the chicks who initiate convo with me. After 3-4 times of me driving convo and you just responding and not continuing dialog I'm just not responding anymore.

maybe make the convo more about her?

if nothing else works, bring up one of em shytty reality dating shows

 

[Apollo Creed]

maybe make the convo more about her?

if nothing else works, bring up one of em shytty reality dating shows

I`m not doing that.

 

[Guvnor]

What does it mean when a woman hits you up talking about she just wanted to say hey?

Meanwhile you haven't spoken to her in months and used to smash her regularly.

 

[Apollo Creed]

What does it mean when a woman hits you up talking about she just wanted to say hey?

Meanwhile you haven't spoken to her in months and used to smash her regularly.

means you need to ignore her lol

 

[WIA20XX]

What does it mean when a woman hits you up talking about she just wanted to say hey?

Meanwhile you haven't spoken to her in months and used to smash her regularly.

"Hey Big Head?"

1) She's trying to stroke her ego by getting attention. (Dating Swipe Apps and Social Media give her what she wants, but not what she needs - and when they don't get that suicide ideation)

or

2) Just got out of a relationship/trying to get out of a relationship and needs a hard dikk to land on. Better for her to go with a known quantity than to roll the dice on new Tinder/Club D.

What to do about it?

1) What do you want from the situation? Are you trying to hit?

This is the real man's question. Most dudes just are on automatic bang mode.

If banging is the object, then a cat needs to understand the typical dynamic.

The typical male/female dynamic.

• She makes herself pretty.
• She shows up.
• You see that she looks pretty.
• You do your song and dance to get her interested. YOU INVEST
• She Judges
• She chooses you.
• Y'all hook up - that's her investment, her greatest investment to hear other people tell it.
• The balance of power momentarily shifts back to you, but if you want her again
• She has the power back.

1) The Easy Way In - The easiest thing to do is just get back with her on text/phone.
Sound her out/Vibe Check .
Give her the option to meet up, so you can catch up, and then back to your place.

This is what 99% of dudes will advise you to do.

Where this usually falls apart

• Timing - Dude don't get back to her quick enough. (plenty of bangs have been lost when the 10pm text was not responded to)
• The back and forth texting/talking to sound her out, get her comfortable
• Her hemming and hawing on meeting up
• Dude treating this like a boyfriend situation, when it's more often a FB/FWB situation
• Her treating this like a boyfriend situation, but she's in no way, shape, form or action legit girlfriend material.

In general, because sex is so easy for them to get, even decent sex - she's not as pressed as dude is when it comes to getting her back blown out.

Her passions ebb and flow, and dude (or someone else in her contact list) may or may not receive her "blessing".

Her lack of decisiveness, the coming and going of her passion, is why these chicks are so hard to nail in the first place, but can be so satisfying even when the sex itself is lackluster.

The game is getting played on a lot of levels, whether or not cats want to acknowledge it....

2) The Right Way In - That said, the proper way to play this, imo, assuming you want on demand P, is to make her invest HEAVILY FIRST.