Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

Fellas, i’m in cape town rn and all i can say is

This gotta be the MF’in THIC capital of the world. I always knew it would be between here and kenya..but lawd have mercy..

Women aside though, the world is a truly something remarkable.

Travel. Travel. Travel.

Especially, while you’re still alive and able to.

Ain’t touchin no datin apps. Gonna do my shyt in person.

 

[Silkk]

What is a safe but straight forward way to ask a coworker if she's feeling you? I still don't know for sure but this girl has given me sign after sign

“What we doing this weekend?”



I’d advise yo ass relax though depending on how close yall work together/how often yall see each other.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

“What we doing this weekend?”



I’d advise yo ass relax though depending on how close yall work together/how often yall see each other.

We work the same position but the shifts alternate and we don't always work at the same site. Same building different sections but I still see her. I need her

 

[Ahadi]

I been out the game for a while, brehs... approached a chic for her # and she offers to give me her snapchat. I told her I dont do snapchat. Then she asked me do I have Facebook? She wound up adding me on FB.

I don't understand. Is this rejection?

Any update on this?

Or did she just want to keep tabs on you?

 

[Ahadi]

She's way younger than me. Looks like she's like 23 (graduated college last year). I'm out the loop when it comes to these young girls. That's why the snapchat ask kinda threw me off.

Depending on how she ask, it can be she’s interested but needs to see more

Or

I’m trying to get away from you, but you can have my ig lol

I think when you get that, she just needs to see how “exciting” your social life is. Again. She’s keeping tabs on you, so just live life and she’ll follow.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

right

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

totally

 

[Digital Omen]

My dawg, you gotta have some pride and not smash if you know she STANK stank, I honestly would have told her even if it results to me not smashing and her ego being destroyed in the process. Like @VertigoKnight said, either she didn't wash herself or she has bv, because if she don't have bv, then that worse imo.

Happened to me once. I finger banged and when I caught a whiff of stank fish box I immediately stopped all proceedings. Told her I had to go and she had to as well.
She was looking all confused and then got mad when she realized I was not joking. IDGAF, FOH with that smell.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

really now

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

We work the same position but the shifts alternate and we don't always work at the same site. Same building different sections but I still see her. I need her

I got her number brehs!

 

[Digital Omen]

why didn't you tell her what it was?

I mean i get why... but you was kicking her out anyway so might as well.

To be frank my brain and body just shut down, all I could think about was getting her and that smell out of my crib ASAP.
She knew she had stank box! FOH

 

[Rocket Scientist]

For past week this woman at the front desk at the gym has been eying me,smiling. We say hello,good morning,have nice day nothing more. Anyone ever successfully dealt with a front desk chick at the gym? Not saying I want to,not trying to mess up shyt but how does this usually go?

 

[re'up]

For past week this woman at the front desk at the gym has been eying me,smiling. We say hello,good morning,have nice day nothing more. Anyone ever successfully dealt with a front desk chick at the gym? Not saying I want to,not trying to mess up shyt but how does this usually go?

A gym is a service industry, like high end hotels, hospitality, hostesses, bottle service, any kind of service, you have to factor in that it's just her doing her job. These places encourage employees to be friendly, even flirtatious, because at some level they are selling the experience. And that's a scale, not every business cares as much. A high end gym is absolutely selling that experience.

You need to have a t least a personalized interaction before you ask her out. Shouldn't be hard, you are at a gym. Hiking, walks, find some common ground, and ask her out.

man, if you treat people with consideration, and set some expectations, you will be fine. But, yeah, you can't burn people emotionally that are close in your social world.

 

[WIA20XX]

For past week this woman at the front desk at the gym has been eying me,smiling. We say hello,good morning,have nice day nothing more. Anyone ever successfully dealt with a front desk chick at the gym? Not saying I want to,not trying to mess up shyt but how does this usually go?

It's the same as banging someone that lives in your apartment complex, in your study group, in your social circle, at work, etc.

1. Sometimes these broads create fantasies. So if you actually step up and try to make it real - they're afraid, and then they're ashamed.
2. Sometimes these hoes is interested in you as Boyfriend Material. If you don't know how to handle that framing and get out of it, you will have to invest heavily, "Under her Eye" (Handmaid's Tale), in order to smang.
3. Sometimes these hoes are just nice, and you got on D Goggles - where any sort of non-negative interaction broad means she's trying to get her back broke.

But sometimes these broads is bout it. Now you gotta deal with the optics and ramifications..

1. You hit - you feeling her, she's not. - drama.
2. You hit, you're not feeling her, she's feeling you - drama.
3. Y'all smang - and it was awful - drama
4. You Hit, It was good for both parties - and she's also been tossed by everyone at the gym. And you can't deal with a "modern woman" (c) K. Samuels
5. You hit, it was good on both sides, and you want to escalate the relationship = but now you see her all the damn time.

The only win here is you find a life partner, get married, have kids, y'all stay with each other, generational wealth, and then you die first.

 

[International Playa]

Man nothing worse than matching with a chick her photos are damn

Then you video chat and she doesn’t even look the same

That's why a video chat is a mandatory before the first meet lol