Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah so I messed with her friend for a tiny bit. Didn’t have much going for me, besides working at a music label, I was a little plugged.

Definitely grew into my looks, working out, finances are good, etc. We always followed each other on Instagram, probably for about 10 years…. Liking each others photos, she recently liked a photo of my meal prep and wanted to catch up, she didn’t ask sooner cause I was in a “relationship”

I have to hear her voice to determine her agenda. We’ve just been texting here & there.

But I could see beta male potential especially if she’s around 28-29
I see, yeah man I would say get her off that texting and call her soon. See how you two vibe or the energy you get from her.
 

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This chick told me being in a relationship with me would feel like a dictatorship. :manny:

She decided it was best for her to leave my ship. She makes her lil 6 figures and doesn't want a man telling her what to do or how to live her life. You ask her about her future plans it's always I didn't think that far ahead. Why you want to get married? For "love". I'm just not that nikka I have a plan and things I'm trying to get done.

She's going to continue to run around the streets with her chicken head hoe friends making bad decisions till time runs out and I wish her the best of luck. I did the best I could.
 

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This chick told me being in a relationship with me would feel like a dictatorship. :manny:

She decided it was best for her to leave my ship. She makes her lil 6 figures and doesn't want a man telling her what to do or how to live her life. You ask her about her future plans it's always I didn't think that far ahead. Why you want to get married? For "love". I'm just not that nikka I have a plan and things I'm trying to get done.

She's going to continue to run around the streets with her chicken head hoe friends making bad decisions till time runs out and I wish her the best of luck. I did the best I could.

She gon holla in 3-6 months, or stay watching your IG stories.

If you want to turn the screws on her, continue your ascent into greatness.

Only way these broads gonna learn.
 

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This chick told me being in a relationship with me would feel like a dictatorship. :manny:

She decided it was best for her to leave my ship. She makes her lil 6 figures and doesn't want a man telling her what to do or how to live her life. You ask her about her future plans it's always I didn't think that far ahead. Why you want to get married? For "love". I'm just not that nikka I have a plan and things I'm trying to get done.

She's going to continue to run around the streets with her chicken head hoe friends making bad decisions till time runs out and I wish her the best of luck. I did the best I could.

Yup
Push forward

They had their chance
 

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Dont know if took an L on this.I had to read room quick on this one. Shyt happen fast.So we are both in parking lot.Today was weird at gym regardless got an important call so had to head out,she was at desk,She did her usual smiling long eye contact.So when I finally leave gym for good she in parking lot ironically I dont know if she headed to lunch or home.She was about to get in passenger seat of i wanna assume her co workers car.I said excuse me.She turns around.I said "I dont know if im tripping,I believe I seen you before around town". She was like I work here etc.. I was like "nah i mean around (town im in) did you attend school here (in town im in)". She shakes her head no. First though she didnt say where she attended school so then i knew vibe couldnt been there.I immediately picked it up said my fault thought we went to school together.She did smile and said no and after that i ended it..Lack of verbal threw me off so I didnt pursue more. Usually the went to school start of convo works for me.I dont know about some of you cats.
 

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Hinge inadvertently created a side chick feature :lolbron:. If a chick match you first you can just chill on that, see how other joints pan out in the main section first

lmfao a few responded "damn a whole year later"
:lolbron:

My hinge is super passive anyways, I pretty much match then wait for those who hit me up first, and then go from there. Honestly IG is much better for "going at" chicks (assuming they show signals like liking a bunch post + watching all your stories, etc).
 

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Dont know if took an L on this.I had to read room quick on this one. Shyt happen fast.So we are both in parking lot.Today was weird at gym regardless got an important call so had to head out,she was at desk,She did her usual smiling long eye contact.So when I finally leave gym for good she in parking lot ironically I dont know if she headed to lunch or home.She was about to get in passenger seat of i wanna assume her co workers car.I said excuse me.She turns around.I said "I dont know if im tripping,I believe I seen you before around town". She was like I work here etc.. I was like "nah i mean around (town im in) did you attend school here (in town im in)". She shakes her head no. First though she didnt say where she attended school so then i knew vibe couldnt been there.I immediately picked it up said my fault thought we went to school together.She did smile and said no and after that i ended it..Lack of verbal threw me off so I didnt pursue more. Usually the went to school start of convo works for me.I dont know about some of you cats.
what was the point of you bringing up what school she went to when you could of just cut to the chase?

the conversation should of been gym centric.
 

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This chick told me being in a relationship with me would feel like a dictatorship. :manny:

She decided it was best for her to leave my ship. She makes her lil 6 figures and doesn't want a man telling her what to do or how to live her life. You ask her about her future plans it's always I didn't think that far ahead. Why you want to get married? For "love". I'm just not that nikka I have a plan and things I'm trying to get done.

She's going to continue to run around the streets with her chicken head hoe friends making bad decisions till time runs out and I wish her the best of luck. I did the best I could.
Stay tuned for the "hey big head" text/email in a couple of years when her chicken head friends start getting wifed up and that clock starts ticking in low digits

You did the right thing. She chose the streets so let the streets take care of her.
 

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what was the point of you bringing up what school she went to when you could of just cut to the chase?

the conversation should of been gym centric.
Im in parking lot I didnt care about anything at gym. At this point im feeling her out.If im about to get in my car im not mentioning a ecliptical machine to her. Now lets say she said she went to such and such school. Then convo would have been on and popping I would have said more boom. Again she got into passenger seat means someone is either driving or picking her up. If a woman is feeling a dude she will talk more or say more . She been in gym all day last thing she wants to talk about is the gym,especially if she isnt on clock.Yes I could have went for the # but if it backfired now thats awkward. I would have to gage her reaction tomorrow and then move on either way .
 

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If a woman is feeling a dude, she will talk more AND response to anything that comes out his mouth… is what I’ve learned.

Different strokes for different folks, but asking what school she went to seems like wasted dialogue to me if y’all both share something in common at that moment — which was the gym.
 

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If a woman is feeling a dude, she will talk more AND response to anything that comes out his mouth… is what I’ve learned.

Different strokes for different folks, but asking what school she went to seems like wasted dialogue to me if y’all both share something in common at that moment — which was the gym.
I see your point but you gonna talk your way out of it. She knows where she seen me at. We are both outside the gym .Remember im gaging everything body language,eyes. After 2-3 non verbal clues a man is wasting his time. What works for you might not work for me. Women use non verbal clues.She could have said more etc.The school part is open to a conversation. She knows why I approached. Women know within first 10 seconds what a man wants.
 
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