Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Fellas, i’m in cape town rn and all i can say is

This gotta be the MF’in THIC capital of the world. I always knew it would be between here and kenya..but lawd have mercy..

Women aside though, the world is a truly something remarkable.

Travel. Travel. Travel.

Especially, while you’re still alive and able to.

Ain’t touchin no datin apps. Gonna do my shyt in person.

my nikka


I know you gonna be eating like a fat dude at mandarin

 

[Rocket Scientist]

It's the same as banging someone that lives in your apartment complex, in your study group, in your social circle, at work, etc.

1. Sometimes these broads create fantasies. So if you actually step up and try to make it real - they're afraid, and then they're ashamed.
2. Sometimes these hoes is interested in you as Boyfriend Material. If you don't know how to handle that framing and get out of it, you will have to invest heavily, "Under her Eye" (Handmaid's Tale), in order to smang.
3. Sometimes these hoes are just nice, and you got on D Goggles - where any sort of non-negative interaction broad means she's trying to get her back broke.

But sometimes these broads is bout it. Now you gotta deal with the optics and ramifications..

1. You hit - you feeling her, she's not. - drama.
2. You hit, you're not feeling her, she's feeling you - drama.
3. Y'all smang - and it was awful - drama
4. You Hit, It was good for both parties - and she's also been tossed by everyone at the gym. And you can't deal with a "modern woman" (c) K. Samuels
5. You hit, it was good on both sides, and you want to escalate the relationship = but now you see her all the damn time.

The only win here is you find a life partner, get married, have kids, y'all stay with each other, generational wealth, and then you die first.

Nice break down .Here is the crazy part I could change my time if I really want to. I love time I go tho. I dont be in gym like that 2 hours. I do have a positive rep at gym her co workers speak . I have approached women in every public setting but gyms are the hardest,I usually would get # outside of the gym in parking lot. I been going there for 5 or so tears so i know employees come and go. I take it as her being nice because she is new,I never seen her speak to any other dudes there etc. NH im decent looking cat so not like im tripping yet im looking for signs.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A gym is a service industry, like high end hotels, hospitality, hostesses, bottle service, any kind of service, you have to factor in that it's just her doing her job. These places encourage employees to be friendly, even flirtatious, because at some level they are selling the experience. And that's a scale, not every business cares as much. A high end gym is absolutely selling that experience.

You need to have a t least a personalized interaction before you ask her out. Shouldn't be hard, you are at a gym. Hiking, walks, find some common ground, and ask her out.

man, if you treat people with consideration, and set some expectations, you will be fine. But, yeah, you can't burn people emotionally that are close in your social world.

I worked in customer service for years. Sometimes women are nice,most of times not. Like I said in another post if it got awkward i could change my time but i dont want to right now unless this job comes thru im going for it .Its more a risk then you think. Funniest thing is I have never spoke or approached a woman in the gym. Parking lot different story. The gym is owned by a black woman so if this went left boom she got her on her side. With a male manager you can smooth it over.You 100% right with personal interaction. One thing I do notice she is behind the desk with staff majority of time im there.Im gonna feel her out ask more .

 

[WIA20XX]

Nice break down .Here is the crazy part I could change my time if I really want to. I love time I go tho. I dont be in gym like that 2 hours. I do have a positive rep at gym her co workers speak . I have approached women in every public setting but gyms are the hardest,I usually would get # outside of the gym in parking lot. I been going there for 5 or so tears so i know employees come and go. I take it as her being nice because she is new,I never seen her speak to any other dudes there etc. NH im decent looking cat so not like im tripping yet im looking for signs.

It sounds to me like you have made up your mind. I'd rather meet her friends.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

It sounds to me like you have made up your mind. I'd rather meet her friends.

Oh yea i have back up plan . Good point about her friends but I wanna meet real her .

 

[RealAssanova]

my nikka


I know you gonna be eating like a fat dude at mandarin

Rein

I’m by silo district by the waterfront…

Its should be criminal just how much ass women have over here…

North american hoes & their bbl’s

 

[WIA20XX]

Oh yea i have back up plan . Good point about her friends but I wanna meet real her .

I'm not saying you can't have it all, . I think you youngsters call it a sneaky link.

When you holla, parking lot is a good look. Anything that says plausible deniability.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'm not saying you can't have it all, . I think you youngsters call it a sneaky link.

When you holla, parking lot is a good look. Anything that says plausible deniability.

Im an old cat (38) .Shes either at best wifey type or at worst. A real good sneaky link. If I had to be a betting man ,I think she would be down . Yea gym parking lot be the spot. Inside gym is too risky you have cameras,witnesses. If a fine ass woman parks next to you she fair game etc. Gyms dont care if you holla but if it involves on the clock thats when its sticky. Parking lot shes off the clock.

 

[MikelArteta]

Rein

I’m by silo district by the waterfront…

Its should be criminal just how much ass women have over here…

North american hoes & their bbl’s

i remember when i was hinge and every other black women looking like

 

[Van Cleef]

my nikka


I know you gonna be eating like a fat dude at mandarin

dont south africa got the highest HIV rate in the world

 

[MikelArteta]

dont south africa got the highest HIV rate in the world

one life to live breh

 

[RealAssanova]

i remember when i was hinge and every other black women looking like

Where i’m stayin…i see that walkin around every few ft away from me..

Which is why i made the promise to do my shyt in person and improve my game..

So you reckon i should hop on? Haven’t touched hinge since like 2020

Comin back home in like 8 days.

 

[MikelArteta]

Haven’t touched hinge since like 2020 lol.

You reckon i should hop on?

Comin back home in like 8 days.

I made a promise to do my shyt in person though and sharpen my mouthpiece..

Yes breh hop on
it doesn't hurt . I told you I was using hinge in that location a few weeks ago and it was , alot of cacs on there but I filtered by race. Esp if you throw in thatt line, only here for a few weeks them chicks will line up down the block

When I go to kenya, uganda, rwanda I'ma be on all the APPS and as well shoot my shot everywhere.

 

[RealAssanova]

Yes breh hop on
it doesn't hurt . I told you I was using hinge in that location a few weeks ago and it was , alot of cacs on there but I filtered by race. Esp if you throw in thatt line, only here for a few weeks them chicks will line up down the block

When I go to kenya, uganda, rwanda I'ma be on all the APPS and as well shoot my shot everywhere.

Fukk it might have to now

Rein

 

[DaHNIC82]

Where alot of men are fukking up is taking what a woman says as face value. Usually when chicks say they want somebody like Russell Wilson it's fukking cap because there's 20 of them in their DM now..

I've seen men play super husband.. paying all the bills, fixing the cars, being the handyman, taking care of the kids only for her to give it up to a nikka that rarely gives her any attention.

Just like these chicks that would talk all of that superficial shyt on these dating apps but would fukk the weedman for free.

Be you, set the standard and bring her to your universe