Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I mentioned earlier. We matched on bumble, I suggested we link up at this local park to break the ice and everything I've been talking about ensued.

And I was on bumble for the same reason most guys go on bumble.
Nothing wrong with killing sometime. I wouldn't pursue or even entertain anything further though.
 

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Unfortunately I think this is true. The whole conversation felt like some kind of negotiation or something.

She was even surprised that I was single and started listing off all the positives in a statistical type of manner;

Single, no kids, my own crib and car, good job, nice looking. Like some kind of math equation that yields a good result. Maybe that way of thinking is a little harsh or cynical, but that's just what I feel. Could have just been trying to gas me up.

I see now why she kept asking for reassurance about whether or not I was going to ghost sir her (who would even admit they would).

Unless you're a complete and desperate simp, or some scummy type who likes to lead women on and then hit and quit, I'm thinking most dudes with halfway decent sense wouldn't touch this with a 10 ft Pole.

I forgot to mention, she also is a daycare worker or something but she was in a bad accident recently so she hasn't been working. That much was true. She had a very wicked looking raw scar on her elbow that was like a foot long.

You must be using the 75% off feature on whatever online dating site you appear on lol...

Why these bytches going out their way not to give you some p*ssy🤣
 

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You must be using the 75% off feature on whatever online dating site you appear on lol...

Why these bytches going out their way not to give you some p*ssy🤣
It's Bumble. I'm using the free version, I don't pay for that extra shyt they be advertising. But what does one have to do with the other? I'm lost
 

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It's Bumble. I'm using the free version, I don't pay for that extra shyt they be advertising. But what does one have to do with the other? I'm lost

You might be "tipping" off these women certain "vibes" that gives them the impression it's going to be something different than you fukking them and sending back to their habitat...

This broad even brung her toddler along to give a special preview of the future you 3 would have in the local park...
 

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You might be "tipping" off these women certain "vibes" that gives them the impression it's going to be something different than you fukking them and sending back to their habitat...

This broad even brung her toddler along to give a special preview of the future you 3 would have in the local park...

I mean shyt, my profile only says; "hard worker, kind of new to the [redacted] area, just going with the flow. Not looking for anything complicated"

And then some regular ass photos.
 

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Sounds like she’s tired of working, or isn’t looking forward to going back to work and not at all, when you’re dating you need to figure out everything, especially when you have resources, what are her intentions? Does she like me for me? My car? My place? My connections? My money? Etc.

But going back to the date part, she’s probably dating multiple ppl and seeing who will “step up”. Little does she know, if she’s average and her body isn’t in shape, plus a kid, she’s not giving the man anything of value.

Her next play is to manipulate with sex. I don’t recommend anyone hit a single mother because if there’s an accident, then there’s a 99.9% chance she won’t abort.
I think that's a majority of these women strategy out here. Try to see which dude they can get the most out of without giving up anything or bread crumbing. Brehs if you got your stuff together it's not on you to elevate her especially if all she's bringing is sex and headaches to the equation.
 

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I think that's a majority of these women strategy out here. Try to see which dude they can get the most out of without giving up anything or bread crumbing. Brehs if you got your stuff together it's not on you to elevate her especially if all she's bringing is sex and headaches to the equation.

Yup. Lori Harvey strategy.

The quickest way to cut a chick off is to tell them “money is tight”

:lolbron:
 

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Yup. Lori Harvey strategy.

The quickest way to cut a chick off is to tell them “money is tight”

:lolbron:

broke-baby.gif
 

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I been out the game for a while, brehs... approached a chic for her # and she offers to give me her snapchat. I told her I dont do snapchat. Then she asked me do I have Facebook? She wound up adding me on FB.

I don't understand. Is this rejection? :jbhmm:

Somewhat.

You don’t get her ovaries tingling. She need to see more. (Social proof)
 

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I been out the game for a while, brehs... approached a chic for her # and she offers to give me her snapchat. I told her I dont do snapchat. Then she asked me do I have Facebook? She wound up adding me on FB.

I don't understand. Is this rejection? :jbhmm:

It's a somewhat rejection.
Sometimes it's gate keeping.

*you might want to dig into that - "Who hurt you baby..."

Also She might want to peruse your socials.
Your digital footprint can make or break you. (as can hers!)

I've had chicks grill me on album reviews I made in the 90's
"What do you mean this song was made for girls?"

The song in question

 

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Haha, my bad homie.

Bruce Lee n'nem are starting to speak up on it. But that said has a weird complex (like the rest of the world) with Black Men. Worry about insane vagrants in NYC subways, while Guile is running off with Chun Li.

My last trip in Jamaica last year was dolo
Was easy as hell meeting ppl. smashed one shorty and covertly declined another

Approaching women with a group of men or another man requires chemistry that most don’t have. Easier to go dolo
Definitely breh. A group can definitely mess up your chances with females. Some brehs just can't hold their own in those conditions. The worst is the brehs that's trying to overdue it and brag to try and scoop something or the brehs that try to sneak diss or throw salt. I had to stop kicking with a breh I knew for over 3yrs because of that flagrant violation...
 
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