Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The ADD said:
What did you pray for :lupe:
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For the baddest bytches that don't want commitment like that to let themselves be known. :whew:
I been through some shyt the last two years. I'm not too keen in getting into a relationship, so I was just going through the motions. Last year I landed to 5-6 that wanted too much out of me. Crappy sex, entitlement, shyt just wasn't going like that.

This year shyt changed though, the 8-9's came through, and one actually put herself in the roster just today off-rip, right after I told her I had a girlfriend (I don't) and wouldn't be able to be with her like that.:ehh: Told me as long as I'm straight with her and don't make a fool out of her she's down for whatever.

Bout to link up with her tomorrow to see what's up. :noah: But just off of her vibe, I can tell it's gonna be fireworks when I start beating it up. Cape Verdean broad, that just wants to fukk. I ain't never had cape verdean before, it's gon' be a first. :wow:
 
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Claudex said:
For the baddest bytches that don't want commitment like that to let themselves be known. :whew:
I been through some shyt the last two years. I'm not too keen in getting into a relationship, so I was just going through the motions. Last year I landed to 5-6 that wanted too much out of me. Crappy sex, entitlement, shyt just wasn't going like that.

This year shyt changed though, the 8-9's came through, and one actually put herself in the roster just today off-rip, right after I told her I had a girlfriend (I don't) and wouldn't be able to be with her like that.:ehh: Told me as long as I'm straight with her and don't make a fool out of her she's down for whatever.

Bout to link up with her tomorrow to see what's up. :noah: But just off of her vibe, I can tell it's gonna be fireworks when I start beating it up. Cape Verdean broad, that just wants to fukk. I ain't never had cape verdean before, it's gon' be a first. :wow:
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Now we talking
 
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The ADD said:
Something positive with a woman
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Things are going extremely well with this chick.


So much so that I'm waiting for something to drop to change things and it hasn't.

I'll say me and her have maximum communication, respect and understanding and I've been enjoying being with her.

I even introduced her to one of the other women I see on my birthday. They both wanted to take me out.
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Things are going extremely well with this chick.


So much so that I'm waiting for something to drop to change things and it hasn't.

I'll say me and her have maximum communication, respect and understanding and I've been enjoying being with her.

I even introduced her to one of the other women I see on my birthday. They both wanted to take me out.
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I remember this. Good stuff breh :whew:
 
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The ADD said:
Something positive with a woman
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It’s been honestly slow

:mjlol:

Universe said “ you had for fun in 2022” shut the door at 2023. Had a hook up 3 weeks ago with this law student. But overall it’s been slow.

But I did focus on meal prepping, new recipes, writing, working on some personal projects & reading a bit more. Enjoying “me time”
 
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Mufasa Ahadi said:
It’s been honestly slow

:mjlol:

Universe said “ you had for fun in 2022” shut the door at 2023. Had a hook up 3 weeks ago with this law student. But overall it’s been slow.

But I did focus on meal prepping, new recipes, writing, working on some personal projects & reading a bit more. Enjoying “me time”
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Good shout. Those are wins also
 
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Music is a great indicator in seeing if you’ll match with a woman.

When she listens to Morgan Wallen, Russ, Dermont Kennedy (no black ppl) that means

:mjpls:

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Just back from a week in Miami. Was at Jaya at The Setai, Faena, Edition, The Ritz, Giselle, E11, met a few women within an hour of each other. So many stunning women and everyone very open and eager, staring up and down. Loved it.

But back home, the sheer whiplash from ghosting and switching from seductive in person encounters to ghosting is just so hard to predict and analyze. Who ghosts and who comes back out of nowhere. And this is all meeting in person, no SM, and no apps.

I ran into 4 women in one day, my first day back, in Whole Foods, and two people texted me, I hadn't talked to in months, and then the person I connected with a week ago, had the whole convo lets go out when you are home, and she's like pelase text me, and then she doesn't answer, I'm left with this incredibly flirtatious text thread lol I can only assume something changed with Valentines. Because her and I were looking at each other like we were ready to go to bed right then, staring at each other as we walked away like you see in movies.

The theory I try to embrace is unconditional positive regard, as in just feel love or positive for everyone.
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Breh did a similar run yesterday.. :wow: Was layin low post holidays thru valentines, been dipping toe back out.. Wow, all I can say is brehs get outside.. My gawd the amount of talent in the streets is insane.. I will add if you make it to miami before the humidity hits add Joia Beach in there somewhere, maybe pre dinner grab drinks type of spot.. Outdoor lounge on water with city backdrop right off expressway between beach and downtown/wynwood/location so you can get to next spot quick.. I been before but I think it was too close to when they opened and the summer heat might have struck it off my list but went back and the talent crawling thru that place, :whew:sheesh.. Got the digits of the hostess (low chance but who knows) and pulled some baddies from Jersey to next spot.. If you go May til late summer tho, you been warned..
 
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WIA20XX said:
Always do my dirt by myself. But there's something to be said for running with a squad of like minded killers.

Doing damage in the night club scene could easily parlay into doing a supper club, a cook out on the weekend, after parties. That's when you can get the regular scalawags to bring out their FRIENDS.

Cause you don't just want the one chick, you want to hit all of the chicks in IG Friend list.

I've said too much...
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Not sure how I missed this before, but this is FACTS. The snowball effect is insane if you become known as that guy.. I saw this happen as early as high school getting on party scene, then in college throwing parties/promoting or just being the pregame spot before heading out, as you get older it gets easier and harder (easier in that you should have yourself more established and confidence while most guys washout for whatever reason getting into 30s, harder because you need to proactively find new guys who are on same level to make it happen as most likely your original friend group gets sniped off)..
 
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