Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Illuminatos]

I’m good, yeah I’m feeling alright

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

facts

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

unbelievable

 

[DapMeUp!]

Getting bugged about how me and my girl gonna have kids but she really dont want to have them sigh. Maybe

How you been with her and how did you not conclude earlier this was a dealbreaker for you?

 

[The Radiant One]

How you been with her and how did you not conclude earlier this was a dealbreaker for you?

Well, I never had a girlfriend as good as her she cooks she cleans she makes money. I also have one child. However, the mom got money assessed and keeps my daughter away for me.

I’m only really only open to kids if the woman is good. It’s my parents who want grandchildren

 

[360dagod]

Well, I never had a girlfriend as good as her she cooks she cleans she makes money. I also have one child. However, the mom got money assessed and keeps my daughter away for me.

I’m only really only open to kids if the woman is good. It’s my parents who want grandchildren

You having a child cuz your grandparents want another one lol

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Yep. I have come to grips with the fact that I'm a toxic man. I used to deny it because of the obvious negative connotation but after sitting back and truly reflecting on some of my past behavior, I have to admit that I have toxic ways.

How’d you reach that point?

 

[The Radiant One]

You having a child cuz your grandparents want another one lol

I would like a child myself but only if it is a woman who will be a great mother.

 

[CW_1991]

That chick I was talking about yesterday that I met her with at that Park I ended up blocking, and I think now she sending text messages from different numbers to see why I haven't been responding to her original number.

Getting random "?" from numbers I don't know.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I guess

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Women were complaining and the complaints were the same even tho none of them ever communicated with one another. So it became obvious, looking at it objectively, that their complaints were right on some level.

complaints about what? You going above and beyond?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

that's something else

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

yeah right

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

yikes

 

[WIA20XX]

@Neo The Resurrected ONE

Honestly, you didn't ask for my input, but I don't see a problem with your mode of operating.

Maybe the married bros can chime in, but I have yet to experience any upside on adapting my behavior to hers.
To keep it comical, "you can't make a woman happy" (c) Patrice O'Neal.

To keep it real, believe me, I've tried this "open feelings" route. I have listened to the Oprah/Therapist Babble - and that only leads to more issues, of having to constantly explain myself, instead of solving problems.

That old, "when you did X, it made me feel Y" - like we was in some type of therapy session.

Believe me when I tell you, Women do not know what to do with a man's unguarded thoughts and feelings.

They react emotionally, creating bigger problems for you to solve.

Case in point. Dude at the gig was expecting a child with his wife. Wife lost the baby, and dude was feeling some type of way.
The women at the office gave him some comfort and support, but a week later, all that grace was done.
And then they started to treat him like he was weak. Low key laughing at him behind his back.

Is this an extreme case? Possibly.
Is it a real thing, most definitely.

Letting a chick in on how you make moves, explaining the game to her as it were, most of the time, does not help her accomplish anything. It only gives her ammunition to critique you after failure.

But I might be "toxic".

WIA