Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CW_1991]

Which should serve you well. Ain’t a lot of brehs falling out of trees with above average income.

To say there is nothing but bad deals if you aren’t in the top 10-20% seems doom and gloom but what do I know.

Speaking specifically from the online dating shallow swipeshopping viewpoint.

I've done it long enough to come to a fairly objective conclusion that the market is fukking horrible. At about 30 years of age and up it's damn near a wrap.

There's also this:


I probably need to just stick to real life. Odds might be a little better there.

 

[The ADD]

Not low self-esteem just facts. This stuff has been proven. And I'm not deluded enough to believe I personally fit into that criteria. I'm not some six-figure baller pretty boy.

Just a regular cat with an above average income.

Which should serve you well. Ain’t a lot of brehs falling out of trees with above average income.

To say there is nothing but bad deals if you aren’t in the top 10-20% seems doom and gloom but what do I know.

Speaking specifically from the online dating shallow swipeshopping viewpoint.

I've done it long enough to come to a fairly objective conclusion that the market is fukking horrible. At about 30 years of age and up it's damn near a wrap.

There's also this:


I probably need to just stick to real life. Odds might be a little better there.

Fair play if you mean online

 

[360dagod]

Not low self-esteem just facts. This stuff has been proven. And I'm not deluded enough to believe I personally fit into that criteria. I'm not some six-figure baller pretty boy.

Just a regular cat with an above average income.

A single mother with 4 kids that lives with their parents is a net negative off the bat bro...

Even having free sex and her nagging you afterwards is a net negative...

She would have to give you free condom sex along with food and connections/networking opportunities to even justify what your doing

You would do better to pay to play and have her go about her way afterwards

That's how much of a net negative your in just off rip..

 

[CW_1991]

A single mother with 4 kids that lives with their parents is a net negative off the bat bro...

Even having free sex and her nagging you afterwards is a net negative...

She would have to give you free condom sex along with food and connections/networking opportunities to even justify what your doing

You would do better to pay to play and have her go about her way afterwards

That's how much of a net negative your in just off rip..

Yeah, I been unmatched her. Don't have the time or patience for everything that would have been about. Was cute tho.

 

[Ohene]

None for be. And after I inquired a little bit more, it's all of that on top of living with her parents.




Feels like there's nothing but bad deals out here after a certain point, especially if you're not a top 10% to 20% type of guy.

if youre top 10% why do you resort to apps? i say resort because if you were only using apps to supplement your options i dont think youd be complaining

i suggest you hop off apps and meet women at your local mall, lounge, gym, coffee shop, in public etc.

Might take some time but youll prolly come across better options that way

edit: I missed were you said "not"...but the fact remains. where you live fam?

 

[africngiant]

i slipped a joke in to a ww in the elevator and she blushed

 

[MikelArteta]

I've ate well off apps but the thing is you have to realize how it is. Every chick even average are getting tons of matches. Average looking broads, fat broads matching with doctors and lawyers and getting all big headed.

Any woman you talk to is talking to 15, 20 other dudes. Dudes offering to pay their bills, send them money, take them to get kobe steak, dudes simping beyond measures. The attention is like a drug to them, they dropping their instagram, tiktok to gain more followers. You going out with them on a friday and it's like their 4th date that week.

So as well do the same, talk to a bunch of different women, schedule like 3 dates that week, don't get caught up.

 

[agpxknt]

I didn't get any action on dating sites, I have a old phone the camera is garbage and I'm not photogenic/don't know how to take pics, I look better in person, whenever I go places and see women and approach(I don't do it as much as I should)i never gotten a negative response, even if I get rejected it's never done in a disrespectful wayI think I really am #handsomegangI've been missing out for years Ima make a thread and have the coli brehettes rate me looks

 

[MikelArteta]

I didn't get any action on dating sites, I have a old phone the camera is garbage and I'm not photogenic/don't know how to take pics, I look better in person, whenever I go places and see women and approach(I don't do it as much as I should)i never gotten a negative response, even if I get rejected it's never done in a disrespectful wayI think I really am #handsomegangI've been missing out for years Ima make a thread and have the coli brehettes rate me looks

some people eat some don't and yeah photos some people look good in photos others don't. It's just a 2d image we are seeing of someone on a 5 inch screen.

 

[Ahadi]

I've ate well off apps but the thing is you have to realize how it is. Every chick even average are getting tons of matches. Average looking broads, fat broads matching with doctors and lawyers and getting all big headed.

Any woman you talk to is talking to 15, 20 other dudes. Dudes offering to pay their bills, send them money, take them to get kobe steak, dudes simping beyond measures. The attention is like a drug to them, they dropping their instagram, tiktok to gain more followers. You going out with them on a friday and it's like their 4th date that week.

So as well do the same, talk to a bunch of different women, schedule like 3 dates that week, don't get caught up.

Yup. Always overbook & keep it for the same week. Anything planned next week is most likely not happening.

 

[DapMeUp!]

None for be. And after I inquired a little bit more, it's all of that on top of living with her parents.




Feels like there's nothing but bad deals out here after a certain point, especially if you're not a top 10% to 20% type of guy.

 

[Ahadi]

Apparently they’re sending out exclusive invitations for $500 Tinder.

 

[Digital Omen]

I moved and regret it to this day.

Say goodbye.

I wasted 3 years of my life behind that shyt.
Lesson learned only move if you WANT to move. Never for anyone.

 

[Ahadi]

Anyone ever dealt with dating women that wants to move cities ? girl is tripping about leaving Atlanta and I absolutely love it here and honestly have no damn desire to leave this city. I have thought about it multiple times but I am truly comfortable here. I moved here purposedly and one of the options look very attractive to me. She wants to go back to northern virginia. If there is one thing I cant stand is SNOW and COLD. How did you deal with this? After considering it, I really just want to stand my ground about calling ATL home.

Why does she want to move?

 

[Digital Omen]

So now that I've been with my girl for a couple of months and everything is gravy I'm getting the random DMs and likes from chicks I haven't heard from for a while
That vibe shyt is so real. When I was walking the Sahara, they were nowhere to be found. No DM, nothing.
But let just one quench your thirst and suddenly it's "hey stranger"
They can sense that shyt from miles away. They lie in wait for a woman bolder than them to choose you and then it's a green light
A particular one did make me double take
Honey is stacked. Dark skin Colombiana, fat ass, the whole package. We hadn't spoken beyond happy b-day shyt and now she's in my DM talmbout let's get a drink and catch up (we were in the same Master's program)
I'm exercising dikk control and I like my girl a lot so not going there but it's clockwork.
Once you reach a certain age the shyt just repeats itself. It becomes routine.
Couple of others on some I see you traveling a lot, where you going next, trying to make that convo happen.
My ex-FWBs that I cut off when I got with my girl STILL hitting me up. I told both of them straight up I'm spoken for and best of luck in all their future endeavors but one of them texted me "if you ever want to just fukk all weekend let me know"
again, just bold with it after I told her I got a girl.
I look at these DMs and texts and just laugh. "Same soup, just reheated"