Which should serve you well. Ain’t a lot of brehs falling out of trees with above average income.
To say there is nothing but bad deals if you aren’t in the top 10-20% seems doom and gloom but what do I know.
Fair play if you mean online
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To say there is nothing but bad deals if you aren’t in the top 10-20% seems doom and gloom but what do I know.
Fair play if you mean online
A single mother with 4 kids that lives with their parents is a net negative off the bat bro...
Even having free sex and her nagging you afterwards is a net negative...
She would have to give you free condom sex along with food and connections/networking opportunities to even justify what your doing
You would do better to pay to play and have her go about her way afterwards
That's how much of a net negative your in just off rip..
Yeah, I been unmatched her. Don't have the time or patience for everything that would have been about. Was cute tho.
if youre top 10% why do you resort to apps? i say resort because if you were only using apps to supplement your options i dont think youd be complainingNone for be. And after I inquired a little bit more, it's all of that on top of living with her parents.
Feels like there's nothing but bad deals out here after a certain point, especially if you're not a top 10% to 20% type of guy.
i suggest you hop off apps and meet women at your local mall, lounge, gym, coffee shop, in public etc.
Might take some time but youll prolly come across better options that way
edit: I missed were you said "not"...but the fact remains. where you live fam?
africngiant
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i slipped a joke in to a ww in the elevator and she blushed
I've ate well off apps but the thing is you have to realize how it is. Every chick even average are getting tons of matches. Average looking broads, fat broads matching with doctors and lawyers and getting all big headed.
Any woman you talk to is talking to 15, 20 other dudes. Dudes offering to pay their bills, send them money, take them to get kobe steak, dudes simping beyond measures. The attention is like a drug to them, they dropping their instagram, tiktok to gain more followers. You going out with them on a friday and it's like their 4th date that week.
So as well do the same, talk to a bunch of different women, schedule like 3 dates that week, don't get caught up.
Any woman you talk to is talking to 15, 20 other dudes. Dudes offering to pay their bills, send them money, take them to get kobe steak, dudes simping beyond measures. The attention is like a drug to them, they dropping their instagram, tiktok to gain more followers. You going out with them on a friday and it's like their 4th date that week.
So as well do the same, talk to a bunch of different women, schedule like 3 dates that week, don't get caught up.
I didn't get any action on dating sites, I have a old phone the camera is garbage and I'm not photogenic/don't know how to take pics, I look better in person, whenever I go places and see women and approach(I don't do it as much as I should)i never gotten a negative response, even if I get rejected it's never done in a disrespectful way
I think I really am #handsomegangI've been missing out for years
Ima make a thread and have the coli brehettes rate me looks
I think I really am #handsomegangI've been missing out for years Ima make a thread and have the coli brehettes rate me looks
I didn't get any action on dating sites, I have a old phone the camera is garbage and I'm not photogenic/don't know how to take pics, I look better in person, whenever I go places and see women and approach(I don't do it as much as I should)i never gotten a negative response, even if I get rejected it's never done in a disrespectful way
some people eat some don't and yeah photos some people look good in photos others don't. It's just a 2d image we are seeing of someone on a 5 inch screen.
Yup. Always overbook & keep it for the same week. Anything planned next week is most likely not happening.
None for be. And after I inquired a little bit more, it's all of that on top of living with her parents.
Feels like there's nothing but bad deals out here after a certain point, especially if you're not a top 10% to 20% type of guy.
Digital Omen
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I wasted 3 years of my life behind that shyt.
Lesson learned only move if you WANT to move. Never for anyone.
Why does she want to move?
Digital Omen
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So now that I've been with my girl for a couple of months and everything is gravy I'm getting the random DMs and likes from chicks I haven't heard from for a while
That vibe shyt is so real. When I was walking the Sahara, they were nowhere to be found. No DM, nothing.
But let just one quench your thirst and suddenly it's "hey stranger"
They can sense that shyt from miles away. They lie in wait for a woman bolder than them to choose you and then it's a green light
A particular one did make me double take
Honey is stacked. Dark skin Colombiana, fat ass, the whole package. We hadn't spoken beyond happy b-day shyt and now she's in my DM talmbout let's get a drink and catch up (we were in the same Master's program)
I'm exercising dikk control and I like my girl a lot so not going there but it's clockwork.
Once you reach a certain age the shyt just repeats itself. It becomes routine.
Couple of others on some I see you traveling a lot, where you going next, trying to make that convo happen.
My ex-FWBs that I cut off when I got with my girl STILL hitting me up. I told both of them straight up I'm spoken for and best of luck in all their future endeavors but one of them texted me "if you ever want to just fukk all weekend let me know"
again, just bold with it after I told her I got a girl.
I look at these DMs and texts and just laugh. "Same soup, just reheated"
That vibe shyt is so real. When I was walking the Sahara, they were nowhere to be found. No DM, nothing.
But let just one quench your thirst and suddenly it's "hey stranger"
They can sense that shyt from miles away. They lie in wait for a woman bolder than them to choose you and then it's a green light
A particular one did make me double take
Honey is stacked. Dark skin Colombiana, fat ass, the whole package. We hadn't spoken beyond happy b-day shyt and now she's in my DM talmbout let's get a drink and catch up (we were in the same Master's program)
I'm exercising dikk control and I like my girl a lot so not going there but it's clockwork.
Once you reach a certain age the shyt just repeats itself. It becomes routine.
Couple of others on some I see you traveling a lot, where you going next, trying to make that convo happen.
My ex-FWBs that I cut off when I got with my girl STILL hitting me up. I told both of them straight up I'm spoken for and best of luck in all their future endeavors but one of them texted me "if you ever want to just fukk all weekend let me know"
again, just bold with it after I told her I got a girl.
I look at these DMs and texts and just laugh. "Same soup, just reheated"
In sheer randomness I hit up a woman I've known of for about 8 - 9 years. Really I was trying to catch up with her. Cute middle eastern girl from Houston. We had similar acquaintances and friends back in the day. Ended up asking her let's catch up. She was showing strong interest in me. We ended up making out and talking a bit.
She has been out of a relationship the past few months and I remember in 2020 she hit me up when she was recently out of a divorce. I was in a relationship then so I didn't act on it. We have very similar personalities so I figured she hit me up platonically. Guess I was wrong.
She said "I don't know what I want, but I know what I don't want". That's telling me to not take things super serious with her.
I am getting my confidence back though given my last few encounters with dates and women and confident I can get everything I want in a life partner without settling. My break up 6 - 7 months ago rattled me because it was a long term relationship and the last year of it I knew I didn't want to be with this woman.
Also last girl I was dating for two months was more fun zone but I did catch some feelings for her but I know in my mind we aren't a good fit.
She has been out of a relationship the past few months and I remember in 2020 she hit me up when she was recently out of a divorce. I was in a relationship then so I didn't act on it. We have very similar personalities so I figured she hit me up platonically. Guess I was wrong.
She said "I don't know what I want, but I know what I don't want". That's telling me to not take things super serious with her.
I am getting my confidence back though given my last few encounters with dates and women and confident I can get everything I want in a life partner without settling. My break up 6 - 7 months ago rattled me because it was a long term relationship and the last year of it I knew I didn't want to be with this woman.
Also last girl I was dating for two months was more fun zone but I did catch some feelings for her but I know in my mind we aren't a good fit.