Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Scallywag? Slump buster? Cannot be seen in public with?
An actual 8, and definitely one I can be seen with...just too young and too wild.
It's a good thing she had a lot to say because I honestly was blanking like a MF while at a restaurant with her.

It was an off day for me and I'm not sure I played everything right. But frankly I can't care too much.

p*ssy truly begets p*ssy though, because almost right after this one woman I've been seeing a bit at a store near the crib shot her shot with me. She bad too, but older than me and I can see a play happen from a mile away. She want something, and I'm not sure I even wanna find out what.

Whole day felt like "you can definitely get the baddies with the slim body, pretty smile and a big butt. BUT at a cost!".

I don't know how to feel.

Edit: It's like the game is forcing itself to be played. And before today I had a dry spell of about 9-10 months, couldn't even remember the last time I had p*ssy. One thing I can say for sure though, the last crop had absolutely nothing on the women I interacted with today. I'm just not on cloud 9 like I thought I would be.
 

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You linked up on social media huh. ngl i stopped responding to women from my past on there. Its literally never worked out and the p*ssy is not as good as back in the day. Pretty brown skin from Houston though.. i get it hehehe. Ran into my old work at a concert and the ass was still fat but mental illness and career fatigue had taken over. Had me thinking was it really even worth my time closing the chapter smh.
Regarding your last sentence I find it's best to leave the past in the past...
 

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Since I got sober so young, at 21, I never really experienced the full scope of like clubbing/dating/bars, I was at all those places, but sober, it's a whole different experience. So, I never really could do the whole next morning regrets, because I play all that through, (what will I feel like tomorrow, what will this cost me, in terms of time, energy, headache) and can't diffuse it with alcohol, however appealing that can be, and I know it is.

It's a sober thing but it can be applied towards any area of life, is playing that action all the way to the end. So I think about what am I going to think tomorrow morning, or immediately after, is this person healthy enough to even spend two hours with? wake up with? Or am I just setting myself up for anxiety, regret, self loathing? And most people bypass that with alcohol. Of course, that comes with a cost. People love that aspect of their lives, it's like a release. Primary deviance.
 
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You're just like me I approach dolo most of the time especially when I travel

Women become more curious about you when you're by yourself
My last trip in Jamaica last year was dolo
Was easy as hell meeting ppl. smashed one shorty and covertly declined another

Approaching women with a group of men or another man requires chemistry that most don’t have. Easier to go dolo
 

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Related to being sober, the groups thing is so chaotic and takes so long, without alcohol, no one would go to a club, and spend hours, only to go back to someone's spot at 300 AM.

Observing my boys over the years, and the time frame/cost on the ordeal is such an investment. Conservatively speaking, night starts at like 10:30, to get from there to possibly like having some quick and drunken sexual encounter at like 4:00 AM, it's just too much. I can't even make it until 2:00 AM, to watch the whole production sober is just happening. So you are looking at like 5 hours, plus let's say $250/$500, which isn't much money, but this is like 3x a week.

Let's also say they I am not really interested in those kinds of encounters anyway, but still the cost/benefit, one on one, to me feels more honest and direct, and connecting.
 
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Anyone ever dealt with South Sudanese and Senegalese women before?


I've literally never seen one before IRL, but I heard Australia has a lot of them.
 
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I'm bout to rant for a sec and feel free to chime in

I don't believe many people are truly eating on any dating apps. I think there was a thread on how someone said he was eating good off one but i truly believe thats 🦆tales.

The things these women think are weird and nothing pisses me off more than a fat bytch with attitude on one.
You're not allowed to be fat with attitude while seeking a man.

That's like a fat guy trying to be the point guard running plays on a basketball team. Know your role and come off the bench when a starter gets tired.

Only in shape women can have attitude because they look good and work at it.

These hoes are completely lost on them. It's the Walmart DVD bin of dating and this is coming from an ugly nikka.

What yall think?
 
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I'm bout to rant for a sec and feel free to chime in

I don't believe many people are truly eating on any dating apps. I think there was a thread on how someone said he was eating good off one but i truly believe thats 🦆tales.

The things these women think are weird and nothing pisses me off more than a fat bytch with attitude on one.
You're not allowed to be fat with attitude while seeking a man.

That's like a fat guy trying to be the point guard running plays on a basketball team. Know your role and come off the bench when a starter gets tired.

Only in shape women can have attitude because they look good and work at it.

These hoes are completely lost on them. It's the Walmart DVD bin of dating and this is coming from an ugly nikka.

What yall think?
It’s not ducktales.. brehs really do “eat” on there and they’re not this magical “top 20%”

It’s cool to accept the apps aren’t for you. They aren’t for me tbh and I believe I’m handsome and funny :yeshrug:
 
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