How do y'all feel about being checked by women?
Outside of the gems thread... i'm a jokester. I fukk around a lot and most of it is acted upon outside the realm of the webernets.
The new gal i'm dating is a keeper cuz she's never afraid to call me out when i do something either remotely/moderately stupid, really stupid... or even a tad.
She's a paralegal so she don't play that shiit; extremely educated and at 28, she's been thru her share *gulps* of dudes and isn't concerned of steppin on toes here and there (even if they are mines). And to be frank the tank? That is shiit is mad secksy to me breigh. Why? Cuz no woman has ever challenged me on my bullshiit before. I can attempt to game her, swoon her, spit cold game and metaphors for shiits and wiggles, but she just chuckles and tells me; "Is that it?" She challenges me so much.... she makes me want to keep her.
SHe's no dime. Not a gym rat by any stretch armstrong... but she's healthy looking and a woman i don't mind being with all the time.
Only downside is that she's a caucasian woman and she will depreciate really quick, while since collegio, my stock has rising a bit because i've been acquiring wealth thru savings, experience (personal and professional... even game spitting), so the only way to go is up for moi.
Any who, i have quite a few rounds ofdranks and i'm feeling really really good.
but.. back toyour question. A woman will only check a man she is severely invested in; and it stems from admiration and fondness. If a bytch didn't care aout you, why she gonna check you for? It's a waste of time. Au contraire monsier... if she feels strongly for you, she will make an effort (mindfully or subconsciously) to point out things she's not feeling.
For a gal to do so exemplifies the strength of woman with virtue and boldness -that's hot to me (but it must be exuded in class and within the boundaries of acceptability and thoroughly warranted. If she's just saying, "Well fukk you for living at home and still wearing jordans at 30"... than that's fukked up.).
Everything is situational and if she presents her concerns or thoughts in a manner that still respects your character, than like a shovel...
i can dig that.
Women are smart, especially the ones that have "some" mileage to dems.
I've got a keeper - and even though i'm very seldom lucky in love, i got lucky this time.
Compadibility is so rare theese days cuz of harlots/ jezebels running rampant in society, you have to use your third eye physiology to pinpoint the proverbial diamonds in the ruff like ryders.
To conclude; if she's gonna check you. It's for a reason and most often, a good one at that. So let her do it. Take an L here or there.
As a man, sometimes, you may get corrected for your own good cuz lord knows were not perfect and sometimes, our own family and friends won't call us out on our faults that need to be reassessed.
Therefore... let her check you.
After all... she made the queens move.
Check mate.
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