Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This isn't a "lion's den" (I'm getting suspicions) at all but I do see it as a thread that had a specific purpose that is slowly being derailed.

I can always direct females to a thread that is more suitable:

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/31219-quick-little-gems-dealing-men-thread.html#.USauw80Qc_c

dude....you're in a thread about dealing with women and yet you're against talking to an actual female about relationship issues. Think about the irony in that.
 

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dude....you're in a thread about dealing with women and yet you're against talking to an actual female about relationship issues. Think about the irony in that.

I actually forgot about that pretty quickly and have moved on now...but ok.
 
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Well I could write out everything but it would take all day but trust me I know for a fact he likes me, he was on some the notebook type shyt and no other guy ever chased me like that and he was the one who liked me first then I caught on and started to like him.
And also I am a very shy and analytic person. Me being shy, it's not that i am unwilling to stick my neck out, it's just I physically can't. My stomach knots up, throat dries up and I just start shaking. Me being analytic, I did not want to compete with a female as crazy as her because then the conquest would become more about her and less of him making it not worth it. I avoid drama at all costs and have a very tight closed circle. I read on here how you guys put all girls in one basket but that isn't the case. I'm the minority and the majority of the bad things I read on here, I am not. Just being honest.

Edit: ok i know you guys never seen mean girls but I'm sure you guys have heard of it. You know the popular girl who tries to get at all the popular guys, yea that's girl a. I was just minding my own business and it wasn't until the guy she was talking to dropped her and she went looking for another popular guy and I'm guessing he told her about me cuz why else would she be at me? I don't bother anybody and I don't hang in the popular circle and we don't have mutual friends so wouldn't know any of my business. A part of me feels like I deserve to feel hurt b/c I was a fool to think a guy like that would be into a girl like me but he just keeps on chasing me but does nothing.

I never watched the Notebook but if he was actually chasing you then why did you not end up together? I'm still confused....

Here's how it works: one person pursues another. The other person either rejects them or accepts them. What do you mean when you say "chasing"? Maybe he just wanted to be friends. OR maybe he was interested and you didn't respond, so he moved on to someone else. Either way, he's with her now. There's not really anything you can do about that, considering you're too shy to express your feelings. Shyness and lack of initiative is a huge problem for a lot of men and women. Its worse for dudes because we're the ones expected to initiate everything, but it still sounds like something you should work on.
 

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How much stock do you guys put into astrology and zodiacal related works?

Kind of out of boredom and for fun, I've started to read up on things involving relationships and sex regarding my zodiac sign and the chick I'm seeing, and a bunch of stuff that I see align with what's currently going on. I just find it interesting.


I enjoy reading astrology.......however most people don't look at it the right way and thus they're not really getting the full accuracy.....Not that it's that accurate but I read astrologyzone.com Susan Miller does monthly horoscopes.....at times she's been shockingly accurate about my life.

For a far more accurate reading on your personally. You really need to type your exact birth date and time in and get your natal/birth chart done to find out your rising sign (Ascendant) It's pretty interesting honestly. Far more than just the regular 12 signs.

Once you know your rising sign, you should always read the forecasts for that sign AND your Sun sign, for a full 180 degree view of your outlook. I might add that knowing your ascendant helps you understand your personality in more detail too.

By definition, the rising sign is the sign of the constellation that was rising on earth's horizon at the exact moment of your birth, taking into account the precise longitude and latitude. You can only know your rising sign if you cast a horoscope for yourself, using the exact time (to the minute), place and date of your birth. Astrologers need that information because we convert every birthday to Greenwich Mean Time. Converting to GMT allows for a common denominatorâ&#8364;&#8221;it is as if everyone were born in the same spot on earth, and hence, the mathematical distance between you and the planets above would be the same for you as it is for everyone.

To find out your rising sign, you can go to various astrological Internet sites that will do the calculation for you for free

The rising sign describes how others see you when they first meet you. The rising sign also suggests of one's future profession often quite reliably. (There are other parts of the chart that also factor into career as well.)

The rising sign is important because it reveals parts of your personality that would not be necessarily evident in your Sun sign. In that respect, the rising sign would explain you might feel you are not completely true to your birth sign. (If you were born at dawn, you would have the same rising sign as your Sun sign.) Also with the addition of a rising sign, astrologers can more accurately predict upcoming cycles and likely events.

For many people, considering the way their chart splays out, the rising sign turns out to be even more important than their Sun sign.
 

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I don't mess with the astrology stuff. What has been valid to me was that briggs meyer personality test... the INTJ describes me perfectly.

Now, always make sure a woman fits into the context of your plan. If you're trying to live a low profile lifestyle and just stack your money, do not go crazy with your expenditures trying to impress a woman and do not let her come into your life and throw your finances into disarray. ALWAYS make sure you have your rules established and how you want to do things BEFORE you bring a woman into your life and make sure you have the heart to stand on it. God bless.
 

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I don't mess with the astrology stuff. What has been valid to me was that briggs meyer personality test... the INTJ describes me perfectly.

Now, always make sure a woman fits into the context of your plan. If you're trying to live a low profile lifestyle and just stack your money, do not go crazy with your expenditures trying to impress a woman and do not let her come into your life and throw your finances into disarray. ALWAYS make sure you have your rules established and how you want to do things BEFORE you bring a woman into your life and make sure you have the heart to stand on it. God bless.
oddly enough thats my personality type as well, its the rarest form of all types apparently.

Keirsey Temperament Website - Portrait of the Rational Mastermind (INTJ)

I was the only one in my class with it and my professor said it was the first time someone in his classes had that as their result in over 3 years.

I took it again a couple of years ago and got the same result, some people say their type changes over time.
 

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oddly enough thats my personality type as well, its the rarest form of all types apparently.

Keirsey Temperament Website - Portrait of the Rational Mastermind (INTJ)

I was the only one in my class with it and my professor said it was the first time someone in his classes had that as their result in over 3 years.

I took it again a couple of years ago and got the same result, some people say their type changes over time.

I feel taking it once is good enough becuase when you take it successive times, you're aware of what's going on and that might cause you to start adjusting answers. The first time you take it is when you really give the most honest assessment, but I can see how someone might become more introverted or extroverted over time.
 

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Remember mane, hoes are going to ho up. Some just know how to hide their nature longer than others. A lot of these hoes you see out there that seem to have straightened up are still putting down work, but they just haven't been caught yet... and cats sit back and really think that they changed their mentality. I done told yall fellas about believing ho stories. You had a lot of people talking about oh Coco seems like such a nice lady. Hoes tell ho stories to make them seem like something they are not, but their actions will always tell you 'what it is.'

Let's look at what happened to Ice-T, Chris Bosh, and you can be certain Wiz and Kanye will get theirs. Look at what happened with Shaunie and Shaq. Real hoes know how to play it cool until they got their paycheck locked in... they are also savvy enough to know how to get it in without getting put on camera. You better watch who you let in your circle. Get your defense up mane.
 

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I got INTJ too. hmm. dont really know much about it, and I just took the test today to see what yall were talking about. its funny to see that a few regulars in here have the same type, especially since its not that common.

Leverage Your Personality Type

one of the most slept on facts about women is that they are the most dangerous ones to look out for. you might think not, but in reality, yes they are. we dont always associate a danger, or a beef with women as something serious and life threatening, but its the women who do the most setting up in the hood. its the women who catch you slipping and have you caught. its the women that call on their man to get you because she wanted to start some shyt with her mouth. its women who want to push you, because they think just because theyre a girl, they cant get it. its women who will take a knife to you over some jealousy shyt. its the women who work one man against another, fighting over her stank ass. so dont sleep on how deadly the wrong woman can be. they may be smaller, but their nonassuming looks can have you strung up, and all of a sudden fighting with your guard down.
 

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i take break with a couple of female co-workers, anyways today they were going on about how there are ":no good men left", ever guy they meet wants to just hook up and wants sex right away and there not like that.

I nodded my head and said well its not men who are the issue, its you guys, women have cheapend their product , you dont even need a escort anymore just sign onto a dating site say a couple sweet/funny lines go out on a date and 1/3 chicks will give it up the first night. The product has been dilluted and cheapened, and women just have themselves to blame.

of course i got the reincar you are such a a$$hole :manny:
 

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i take break with a couple of female co-workers, anyways today they were going on about how there are ":no good men left", ever guy they meet wants to just hook up and wants sex right away and there not like that.

I nodded my head and said well its not men who are the issue, its you guys, women have cheapend their product , you dont even need a escort anymore just sign onto a dating site say a couple sweet/funny lines go out on a date and 1/3 chicks will give it up the first night. The product has been dilluted and cheapened, and women just have themselves to blame.

of course i got the reincar you are such a a$$hole :manny:

You should have asked them in a serious voice what about them makes them think they are a "good woman", and see how they deal with the reverse.
 

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if more women paid attention to the anatomy of a women, they think they will be hot for ever, no one cares about a 1992 benz, but in 1992 it was :gladbron:, you may be hot and hve simps today but in 10-15 yeasr new models have hit 18 no one cares anymore

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