Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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article actually started pretty good. then it suddenly goes completely left, lol
Poh SIti Dawn
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Just what I needed. I'm totally an introvert. I think for introverts speaking to a random woman and talking and actually making a connection is way easier than approaching a girl that you like. Am I the only introvert that feels like this?
I wouldnt recommend physically pulling girls, especially those who arent even facing you. Unless you feel like its a guaranteed win thats gone be an uphill battle especially if she with her friends
Poh SIti Dawn
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She was smh lool. But I learned my lesson last night, I think next time I go to a club I'll come in knowing more than I did last time and leaving knowing even more
one good trick is to make eye contact with them and make them feel safe off that eye contact. once you get the feeling that she gets that she's safe with you and she gives you the signals that she's attracted to you/willing to follow your lead (that could be done through her body language and eye contact) then you've already increased your odds of her following your lead and cooperating when you grab her hand.
then it becomes a good vicious circle for you because the more she follows your lead and cooperates, the more she'll be inclined to follow your lead even more on your next move.
introverts stand up
doe comment "I think every introver should travel overseas, preferably alone.Force yourself to make friends in a foriegn environment. You wil begin t see aspects of your personaty you never though existed"
CrossBones
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thats true. just starting in your interaction is the most important thing, and you want to be smooth with it. it shouldnt be a problem and you shouldnt show that. and then once you get it off, never be too excited that youre talking to a particular chick. one is like any other. see the minute you come off as some happy go lucky, blessed to be in her presence type of dude, you look lame and you play yourself. just be cool and lead the way. you can smile, but dont be some kind of goof. thats real weak. so monsieur fox, keep working on yourself but dont take it too serious and psyche yourself out. the whole goal is to have a good time.
I can't stand how introverts get glorified like that. Like they are all James Bond, mixed with Shaft, with a Paid In Full era Rakim demeanor.*reads further*
The benefits of being an introvert:
more time to spend improving oneself, pursuing hobbies, and building a lifestyle
less work to maintain satisfaction in the realm of women
natural inward focus and need for time alone (natural aloofness)
can play the lone wolf angle exuding confidence and dominance
naturally mystery
success/failures will be easier to analyze
Like seriously?
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Oh, the author is the divine, insolent, vagabond...90% of my bad traits comes from my introvert-ness, but, most of my good traits come from being able to put myself out there
If I had to classify myself; I'd say I'm an introvert. But, I've become tired of goin' at everything alone
. I can stand being in and by myself. But, a man has his limits. @ all the women and potential close friends that never happened, because, I was too cool for school.As for the article; 2-4 are pretty good. I can't mess with 1...savin' that for the one (future wife).
CrossBones
Louder than words
that article is good, because it talks about how people tend to limit themselves through their own bad habits. if youre very social, you might do well to pull back a bit and have some time to yourself every now and then. get away from the noise. study, or have a seperate hobby which is all about you, and for you. not rely on someone else always being there. pushing your comfort zone a little bit I think is an important part of living. it makes you look at more in life. at the least, you wont be bored.
the same goes for those who stay amongst themselves way too much. these hermits and outcasts. you can balance it out and not go too far off into one zone. I liked how the writer pointed that out. it looks beyond the typical stereotyping and shyt you hear from a lot of peoples preconceived notions. we all have a certain type, and theres nothing wrong with going further than that.
the same goes for those who stay amongst themselves way too much. these hermits and outcasts. you can balance it out and not go too far off into one zone. I liked how the writer pointed that out. it looks beyond the typical stereotyping and shyt you hear from a lot of peoples preconceived notions. we all have a certain type, and theres nothing wrong with going further than that.
*reads further*
90% of my bad traits comes from my introvert-ness, but, most of my good traits come from being able to put myself out there
If I had to classify myself; I'd say I'm an introvert. But, I've become tired of goin' at everything alone
As for the article; 2-4 are pretty good. I can't mess with 1...savin' that for the one (future wife).
im a introvert, i was extremely shy going up till like hs then slowly branched out
, used to get anxiety attacks and all that, not anymore though, travelled alone for the first time this year to cuba and had a blast
This is a decent article--minus feminist son and a lil' dude, in a dress.
I find we raise kids too much integrated into pop culture and all these "independent thinkers" aren't as rebellious, as they think.
Babies and toddlers shouldn't even be watchin' enough TV to have show dialogue committed to memory. And;
a feminist watching Disney channel? They are about as undercover misogynist as they come.im a introvert, i was extremely shy going up till like hs then slowly branched out
That's the thing: I'm glad I'm comfortable enough to go to a restaurant & sit at the bar and watch the game, by myself. I've gone to a couple of movies by myself. Moving away, for college, and living, basically, alone for 4 years was easy. I've had to to move hundreds of miles and I've done it all alone.
But, I'll be 25, this year, and I'm starting to think about a family. You don't have to preach Western marriages, to me--we have a lot of the same views, but, I want to get married. But, I do not know how to operation in a union. I've never been in a relationship and my day-to-day is overwhelming independent of anyone's expectations or dependence, on me, for their livelihood. It makes me lazy.
Maybe, I need to volunteer, or something (I plan to do so). But, I know it isn't good to be so individualized. I do for others, a lot. But, that's family. I don't know how I'd deal with life with another adult, or kids, with needs, in my life.
It's something I work on...
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
im a introvert, i was extremely shy going up till like hs then slowly branched out
Really? What do you think about that comment that the article made saying that you should go to coffee shops and such to meet people, does that seem like meaningless to you? I mean why when you can just read at home