Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Why are you making it seem like this is all my fault? He did not have to open his big mouth and tell that girl about me. And the only thing I feel entitled to is not to be toyed with. And what do you mean by not cooperating? I know we both are shy so to make it easier I purposely got out of my comfort zone and chilled with his friends on campus. He's walking towards us, sees me crosses the street and then crosses back. And to make it funnier, he actually followed me to class one day and now he shows up every single day but says nothing. My thing is if he chose her then he chose her and end it at that. He's still chasing me and his friends are always bringing it up. Why!!!

I'm telling you for your sanity. Distance yourself from that group of people until he steps to you correct. You'll go crazy trying to figure this dude's feelings and his mind. The only person you can control is yourself.
 

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@trilldealbaby stop seeking popularity around campus and just go for the low-key guy. Approach the quiet guy that you like and tell him everything on your mind.
 
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Why are you making it seem like this is all my fault? He did not have to open his big mouth and tell that girl about me. And the only thing I feel entitled to is not to be toyed with. And what do you mean by not cooperating? I know we both are shy so to make it easier I purposely got out of my comfort zone and chilled with his friends on campus. He's walking towards us, sees me crosses the street and then crosses back. And to make it funnier, he actually followed me to class one day and now he shows up every single day but says nothing. My thing is if he chose her then he chose her and end it at that. He's still chasing me and his friends are always bringing it up. Why!!!
was just going on the info you gave. didn't know dude was stalking you like that.

you keep asking "why?" but like chris said, don't worry about why. Maybe he's a player. maybe he got with her but still has feelings for you but is scared. maybe his friends are talking out of their ass about shyt they don't know. maybe...


point is, you should either tell dude what you feel (if you're still feeling him like that) or move onand pay him no mind. you say he's playing you but again you might be the one playing yourself if you keep entertaining him and his friends' gossiping after he already chose someone else.
 
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How much stock do you guys put into astrology and zodiacal related works?

Kind of out of boredom and for fun, I've started to read up on things involving relationships and sex regarding my zodiac sign and the chick I'm seeing, and a bunch of stuff that I see align with what's currently going on. I just find it interesting.
 

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How much stock do you guys put into astrology and zodiacal related works?

Kind of out of boredom and for fun, I've started to read up on things involving relationships and sex regarding my zodiac sign and the chick I'm seeing, and a bunch of stuff that I see align with what's currently going on. I just find it interesting.
i personally don't believe in it at all. people who write that stuff are experts at writing stuff that could apply to everyone yet giving you the impression it's very specific...

just my personal opinion though...
 

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How much stock do you guys put into astrology and zodiacal related works?

Kind of out of boredom and for fun, I've started to read up on things involving relationships and sex regarding my zodiac sign and the chick I'm seeing, and a bunch of stuff that I see align with what's currently going on. I just find it interesting.

Zero. It's all hogwash in my opinion. People tend to just use astrology as an excuse for questionable behavior.
 
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Good points y'all. I'm enjoying what I've come across, because most of it has already been experienced in my situation, but I think I'll stop reading them before I become dependent on them. I don't want astrology dominating my thoughts & actions, things will feel far too manufactured at that point.
 

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How much stock do you guys put into astrology and zodiacal related works?

Kind of out of boredom and for fun, I've started to read up on things involving relationships and sex regarding my zodiac sign and the chick I'm seeing, and a bunch of stuff that I see align with what's currently going on. I just find it interesting.

I'm not against it, but you can't let the stuff you read govern your thoughts and actions. The things written on astrology and the zodiac obviously aren't always accurate. Besides, if you met a girl and the both of you vibe but didn't know each other's star signs at first, then the shyt wouldn't even make a difference to y'all anyway. There's many couples with so called "incompatible" star signs that are happy with each other.

It's mainly females that are annoyingly obsessed with it.
 

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As for the astrology....I say 1% of it is true.My last GF was a "Cancer",Im a "Leo".Prior to entering the relationship my cousin warned me and said "Our energies dont match" and told me to be careful,my cousin believd in horoscopes. Of course I laughed it off,because I was in infatuation/honeymoon stage and didnt believe in astrology-horoscopes.However months deep into the relationship the ex started acting up and often joked about how Cancer's were moody :comeon: well obviously we didnt make it,because I dont tolerate but so much. Bottom line is treat a horoscope like a conspiracy theory.Not all are true but there are exceptions.There is always 1% that may be true :manny:
 

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I kinda wish that Myers-Briggs personality types were looked at more by people than astrological signs whether it's for understanding yourself or someone else.
 

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@C.Holla I ran into that girl i've spoken about on here. Did the right thing walked up right and confidently. she avoided eye contact with her head to the side when walking back to the class.....

:noah: I did it breh. Me and u aint no simps no more. :salute: to reformed simps. I must say you probably know what I mean when I say its so refreshing to see a female more hesitant or shy and not as brash and agressive like she was before when you were being taken advantage of.

Not staring hard as hell at you with her eyes glowing a because she knows you can be easily taken advantage of and will do constant "favors" for her that she can laugh about her girlfriends to....

Now she is reduced to being weakened by the gaze of a new confident man


That gesture by her showed me that I'm improving my "defense" as kev calls it.







































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