if you have no kids, just read the no contact rule and get on with your life.
Sent from royalty breh
Sent from royalty breh
i swear to God i tried. read it like 3 times and i'm still confused.hey guys I've been lurking here for a while and this thread made me really interested in joining. to be honest, I don't understand men or women at all and I just hate being left with unanswered questions. here's the scenerio. Girl a and boy a are talking. Girl b and boy b like each other but are too shy to approach. boy a drops girl a and she "becomes friends" with boy b. boy b tells girl a about girl b and girl a starts drama and lies about girl b. Boy b doesn't know any of this is going on but he is still chasing girl b. Girl b does everything in here power to put herself in the position but boy b just can't deliver. out the blue boy a starts dating girl a and leaves girl b clueless b/c he is still trying to get with girl b meanwhile girl a is doing everything to try and make girl b jealous. It's sorta like the possession of having boy b is what is satisfying her. Boy b's friends still talk about it, and they call me his nickname. He also hides the fact that he is with her in a funny way. He won't hide her publicly but he will hide her from me. I don't like the fact that he was just like f it, getting this girl is too hard so let me just get this one. I don't play hard to get but I am extremely shy. His friend tried to introduce us but he punked out every time, I don't think he has ever had to work to get a female. He's just one of those morris chestnut on the outside but napoleon dynamite on the inside type of guys and he's very socially awkward. I don't think he intentionally meant to hurt me but I just can't help but feel like I got played.
hey guys I've been lurking here for a while and this thread made me really interested in joining. to be honest, I don't understand men or women at all and I just hate being left with unanswered questions. here's the scenerio. Girl a and boy a are talking. Girl b and boy b like each other but are too shy to approach. boy a drops girl a and she "becomes friends" with boy b. boy b tells girl a about girl b and girl a starts drama and lies about girl b. Boy b doesn't know any of this is going on but he is still chasing girl b. Girl b does everything in here power to put herself in the position but boy b just can't deliver. out the blue boy b starts dating girl a and leaves girl b clueless b/c he is still trying to get with girl b meanwhile girl a is doing everything to try and make girl b jealous. It's sorta like the possession of having boy b is what is satisfying her. Boy b's friends still talk about it, and they call me his nickname. He also hides the fact that he is with her in a funny way. He won't hide her publicly but he will hide her from me. I don't like the fact that he was just like f it, getting this girl is too hard so let me just get this one. I don't play hard to get but I am extremely shy. His friend tried to introduce us but he punked out every time, I don't think he has ever had to work to get a female. He's just one of those morris chestnut on the outside but napoleon dynamite on the inside type of guys and he's very socially awkward. I don't think he intentionally meant to hurt me but I just can't help but feel like I got played.
lol, still hard to follow but your fix makes sense now, lol.I am a female and I am girl b and I went back and fixed where I messed up, maybe now it will make sense lol
...that was hard to read. First off if you're girl b, how do you know the guy likes you? If he's with her and he chose her...
that's cool. I'm not saying you should have fought the girl in the gutter or anything. all the symptoms you're describing it sounds like anxiety to me. You didn't make your move cause you're scared. I gotta keep it real with you, i see a lot of entitlement regarding him in your post. you assume he got with her because you were too hard, but you don't even consider the possibility that he got to know her and started feeling her more. and i'm not saying this to diss you but sometimes that's just how it goes. Being a guy i see it from his perspective. I'm feeling these two girls, both attractive, like both of their personalities. One of them i've been trying with for a while but she's not really cooperating that much because she's shy, the other one is cooperating everything falls into place and the chemistry is smooth...I know which one i'd pick...Well I could write out everything but it would take all day but trust me I know for a fact he likes me, he was on some the notebook type shyt and no other guy ever chased me like that and he was the one who liked me first then I caught on and started to like him.
And also I am a very shy and analytic person. Me being shy, it's not that i am unwilling to stick my neck out, it's just I physically can't. My stomach knots up, throat dries up and I just start shaking. Me being analytic, I did not want to compete with a female as crazy as her because then the conquest would become more about her and less of him making it not worth it. I avoid drama at all costs and have a very tight closed circle. I read on here how you guys put all girls in one basket but that isn't the case. I'm the minority and the majority of the bad things I read on here, I am not. Just being honest.
Edit: ok i know you guys never seen mean girls but I'm sure you guys have heard of it. You know the popular girl who tries to get at all the popular guys, yea that's girl a. I was just minding my own business and it wasn't until the guy she was talking to dropped her and she went looking for another popular guy and I'm guessing he told her about me cuz why else would she be at me? I don't bother anybody and I don't hang in the popular circle and we don't have mutual friends so wouldn't know any of my business. A part of me feels like I deserve to feel hurt b/c I was a fool to think a guy like that would be into a girl like me but he just keeps on chasing me but does nothing.
Well I could write out everything but it would take all day but trust me I know for a fact he likes me, he was on some the notebook type shyt and no other guy ever chased me like that and he was the one who liked me first then I caught on and started to like him.
And also I am a very shy and analytic person. Me being shy, it's not that i am unwilling to stick my neck out, it's just I physically can't. My stomach knots up, throat dries up and I just start shaking. Me being analytic, I did not want to compete with a female as crazy as her because then the conquest would become more about her and less of him making it not worth it. I avoid drama at all costs and have a very tight closed circle. I read on here how you guys put all girls in one basket but that isn't the case. I'm the minority and the majority of the bad things I read on here, I am not. Just being honest.
Edit: ok i know you guys never seen mean girls but I'm sure you guys have heard of it. You know the popular girl who tries to get at all the popular guys, yea that's girl a. I was just minding my own business and it wasn't until the guy she was talking to dropped her and she went looking for another popular guy and I'm guessing he told her about me cuz why else would she be at me? I don't bother anybody and I don't hang in the popular circle and we don't have mutual friends so wouldn't know any of my business. A part of me feels like I deserve to feel hurt b/c I was a fool to think a guy like that would be into a girl like me but he just keeps on chasing me but does nothing.
Hold on....so we're giving advice to females in this thread now?![]()
yeah bruh, she stepped into the lion's den. More power to her.