Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[darius19]

jesus. nikkas gotta be careful out here

makes sense. i was in NYC for a few days during September. Didnt do much outside of Manhattan though

I felt like Toronto was better/nicer. At this point I think I am settling down so maybe NYC wouldnt be the best look unless a company took care of all the relocation stuff

Fam…what’s crazy is this girl seemed to have a good head on her shoulders, raised in a solid family, etc. a lot of green flags. And then this

 

[RaspberryFitted]

i used to work with this sexy carribean chick

dark skin, big titties, slim body, sexy accent

she had lived in toronto for like 5 years but couldnt find a solid dude and I asked her, how many men approach you? even if you getting approached once a week, thats 52 dudes in a year. you mean to tell me you cant find a single good looking, serious, solid dude out of 52?

the same goes for any attractive woman. they just dont know how to pick good men or they deep down dont want them. if a chick past 30 and on a dating app, it would already be a red flag to me. the best of the best get scooped up early.

I’m leaning towards “don’t want them” in today’s current pool… which is cool, but I need women to stop forcing their mindset of “exploring themselves” on young women.

It’s not out of protection or gems, it’s out of bitterness and jealousy

The same could be said for Men as well

 

[The ADD]

if a girl on dating apps, 9/10 times there is a reason

theres the argument that dating apps opens a person up to meet ppl they otherwise wouldnt come across on a day to day
- cool ...but what is wrong with the people where you live? especially if its in a big city. everyone else is the problem and not you right? sure

theres the argument that it makes it easier to meet people
- cool... but if you're approach to dating is lazy. so will your approach to relationships

theres the argument that it allows you to vet somebody
- cool...but then i got a goat to sell you. if you think what you see on apps and social media is all true...then youre an idiot

point blank. The creme de la creme of women do not need dating apps. Its nothing more than a tool most use to get attention from men and exploit them.

Interesting perspective considering how younger generation are less and less social.

 

[Ohene]

Fam…what’s crazy is this girl seemed to have a good head on her shoulders, raised in a solid family, etc. a lot of green flags. And then this

its a fukked up game out here. social media and apps have knocked down so many barriers that your average chick can get piped down by rappers, entertainers, or arabian shieks at a moments notice.

thats why I be saying, women who like to travel all the time, women with their IG's public - showing all kinds of salacious shyt...big red flags man.

shyt I remember one of my exes' friends who lives near me went to Mexico and ended up meeting Roddy Rich, Rich the Kid or some other entertainer. Of course they went back to their spot and apparently the rapper/entourage was trying to "force" them to do sexual shyt before they evaded or some shyt.

Like hoe, what you thought you was finna do at their crib? :sas:

maybe 4,5 months later , I see the friend at a gas station and the same chick talmbout inviting my ex to Cabo and how I should come too but my ex made an excuse that she couldnt because she was going to Belgium for a friends wedding. All unbeknownst to me . Mind you this was fresh off my ex going on a vacation to Puerto Vallarta whilst unvaccinated. (@MikelArteta actually knows the chick)

The nerve of these women. Needless to say we broke up a couple weeks later. I cant stand a bytch who always trying to travel and do shyt...cant just sit at home.

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Another story . I remember meeting this hoe at the gym who actually had a dude. Two twos...her and her man were on the rocks and she visited me one day. I piped it down after they broke up. At least i thought they did. Ends up back with the dude a few weeks later.

I essentially friendzoned her but heres where it gets worse. She still with homie and a player from Duke (THE player from Duke), ends up flying her out to NC off the strength of her snapchat/IG. Pipes it down...while she still with her man. They break up soon after for good.

 

[Ohene]

Interesting perspective considering how younger generation are less and less social.

if a girl needs to rely on dating apps because she isn't social or trusting of meeting people in real life thats another bit of a red flag in my opinion. same for men.

that same brother i have dating the single mother with 3 kids is the type to only really meet women on dating apps. He'll start off by just smashing and before you know it is in a relationship. Why? Because he lacks the money, confidence and humility to pursue women the traditional way. And all his situations end up in a similar manner.

 

[Ahadi]

i used to work with this sexy carribean chick

dark skin, big titties, slim body, sexy accent

she had lived in toronto for like 5 years but couldnt find a solid dude and I asked her, how many men approach you? even if you getting approached once a week, thats 52 dudes in a year. you mean to tell me you cant find a single good looking, serious, solid dude out of 52?

the same goes for any attractive woman. they just dont know how to pick good men or they deep down dont want them. if a chick past 30 and on a dating app, it would already be a red flag to me. the best of the best get scooped up early.

She got IG?

 

[Ahadi]

Yup
I got sick of dating apps. Even hopped on a few weeks ago and for the most part the same chicks that were there 7-8 months ago. You might come across a decent woman but she won't be on their long. I've been on so amyn dates with chicks from hinge, bumble etc. throughout the years after awhile the cracks start showing and you see why they are single.

Same. Deleted all my apps. Focusing more on real time interactions & some prospects on IG.

 

[The ADD]

if a girl needs to rely on dating apps because she isn't social or trusting of meeting people in real life thats another bit of a red flag in my opinion. same for men.

that same brother i have dating the single mother with 3 kids is the type to only really meet women on dating apps. He'll start off by just smashing and before you know it is in a relationship. Why? Because he lacks the money, confidence and humility to pursue women the traditional way. And all his situations end up in a similar manner.

I hear you but initially it was if they are on dating apps period. Broad brush to paint there but sounds like that’s not what you truly meant.

There can be quality there so my perspective is to take it case by case but that’s me.

 

[Ohene]

She got IG?

lol shorty dont even have linkedin fam . I remember finding her IG years ago but it was private and i tried to creep but she wouldnt accept. dont remember what her acct was

she like 40 years old now. I got very close the smashing a couple of years ago but she was on her period and kept giving me that "i'm too old for you " shyt. And after that we never really linked up cause of COVID and me entering a relationship

i got one pic on my phone she sent me on her birthday

edit: I sent the pic but you took too long breh. deleted it lol

 

[Ohene]

I hear you but initially it was if they are on dating apps period. Broad brush to paint there but sounds like that’s not what you truly meant.

There can be quality there so my perspective is to take it case by case but that’s me.

yea its always exceptions to every rule

but for the most part, an attractive, healthy , realistic and serious woman doesnt have any issue meeting good men in real life

 

[The ADD]

yea its always exceptions to every rule

but for the most part, an attractive, healthy , realistic and serious woman doesnt have any issue meeting good men in real life

You would be surprised……..

 

[Ohene]

You would be surprised……..

i feel you lol

 

[MikelArteta]

its a fukked up game out here. IG has knocked down so many barriers that your average chick can get piped down by rappers, entertainers, or arabian shieks at a moments notice.

thats why I be saying, women who like to travel all the time, women with their IG's public - showing all kinds of salacious shyt...big red flags man.

shyt I remember one of my exes' friends who lives near me went to Mexico and ended up meeting Roddy Rich, Rich the Kid or some other entertainer. Of course they went back to their spot and apparently the rapper/entourage was trying to "force" them to do sexual shyt before they evaded or some shyt.

Like hoe, what you thought you was finna do at their crib? :sas:

maybe 4,5 months later , I see the friend at a gas station and the same chick talmbout inviting my ex to Cabo and how I should come too but my ex made an excuse that she couldnt because she was going to Belgium for a friends wedding. All unbeknownst to me . Mind you this was fresh off my ex going on a vacation to Puerto Vallarta whilst unvaccinated. (@MikelArteta actually knows the chick)

The nerve of these women. Needless to say we broke up a couple weeks later. I cant stand a bytch who always trying to travel and do shyt...cant just sit at home.

---

Another story . I remember meeting this hoe at the gym who actually had a dude. Two twos...her and her man were on the rocks and she visited me one day. I piped it down after they broke up. At least i thought they did. Ends up back with the dude a few weeks later.

I essentially friendzoned her but heres where it gets worse. She still with homie and a player from Duke (THE player from Duke), ends up flying her out to NC off the strength of her snapchat/IG. Pipes it down...while she still with her man. They break up soon after for good.

It's true all of it.

Also the last girl I dated you know who it is, I remember when she went to France and hanged out with her "best guy friend" but when i went to London and was planning on meeting up with one of my friends it was hell on earth

 

[Ohene]

It's true all of it.

Also the last girl I dated you know who it is, I remember when she went to France and hanged out with her "best guy friend" but when i went to London and was planning on meeting up with one of my friends it was hell on earth

yes sir

i dont mind a girl traveling, shyt now that I live with my girl I enjoy the space when she travels
but the ones who do it very often, its a red flag

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Fam…what’s crazy is this girl seemed to have a good head on her shoulders, raised in a solid family, etc. a lot of green flags. And then this

She definitely got a hoe spirit.

Not wifey material at all