Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Duke Wy Lin]

Here's a good story about a dude who went all out for a female, and got his just desserts -

The epitome of doing too much for someone who hasn't earned it. Went above and beyond to impress some random chick from tinder.

 

[The ADD]

The epitome of doing too much for someone who hasn't earned it. Went above and beyond to impress some random chick from tinder.

Correct

 

[Mazino]

The epitome of doing too much for someone who hasn't earned it. Went above and beyond to impress some random chick from tinder.

And the next man won't even do what she considers bare minimum and still smash with no effort.

Most of these guys can't be helped

 

[Hijo de luna]

 

[VertigoKnight]

The epitome of doing too much for someone who hasn't earned it. Went above and beyond to impress some random chick from tinder.

And reading the story he didn't even get any buns.

"No spark or chemistry" according to her.

This is why you make a move early. Not sex but at least kissing.

Chick turns you down you've saved yourself going through with a 2nd and 3rd date.

The kicker for me is this chick would probably let him make the effort for a 4th date before telling him she wasn't feeling him.

 

[Guvnor]

Nothing too crazy
Trustworthy
Loyal
Deeply in love with me
5 years of friendship
Low maintenance financially
Very attractive
Not religious
Similar’ values
Moved to canada from france to be five our relationship a shot


Biggest hurdle has been cultural differences and her having a bit of a independent, combative, stubborn personality

But shes great otherwise. She’s slowly starting to understand the importance of trusting me fully and being submissive - how much easier it makes her life and the relationship at large

I got an independent chick too. How do you go about making them trust and just submit.

My chick so damn combative if I asked her to duck she would ask why and get shot type shyt.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Oh nah, these joints are responding. fukk a week. They’ll even wish you “Merry Christmas / Happy Holidau / Happy New Year”

I’d you gotta wait anymore than 1-2 hours it’s a dub.

thats my thing too in 2023 people on there phones hour a day even if you can't when you at work you on your phone after work. someone not responding in 24 hours is bushes. I just acted like a bytch sending a double text cause I been in a drought since august lol. if I had other bytches I woulldn
t of done that.

 

[The ADD]

thats my thing too in 2023 people on there phones hour a day even if you can't when you at work you on your phone after work. someone not responding in 24 hours is bushes. I just acted like a bytch sending a double text cause I been in a drought since august lol. if I had other bytches I woulldn
t of done that.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

gotta keep it real with yourself lol

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

1-2 hours? Lol you must be dating low life women. I've dated women who were lawyers, accountants, social workers and etc etc who got lives and actual jobs.

With that said I give women a little grace especially considering he has no rapport with her and never even spoke on the phone to her. I'm not saying she is the only one he should be pursuing but I'd give it a week before dubbing it entirely. Chicks sometimes weigh their options, have to move past an ex, have life issues they are dealing with or may genuinely be busy and if you don't have a rapport they not gonna make time to talk to you too much. If you went on one date with her and she started to give slow replies and shyt then you dub the situation but when you still in the texting phase you give her a little time. I say this from personal experience where chicks I thought had little interest or were busy, I set the date and smashed the same night. It's about timing some times.

If I was him I would have gave her some time and tired to speak with her on the phone to see if there was chemistry, set a date and work at building rapport. If a chick is interested she would make time but if she doesn't know you like that why would she.

yea I fukked up. had a similar situation pop up with this other chick who isn't as bad but I wasn't as thirsty she hit me back a week later and we going out this week. you really just have to not care and keep building rotation until one of them proves themselves.

 

[Ohene]

I got an independent chick too. How do you go about making them trust and just submit.

My chick so damn combative if I asked her to duck she would ask why and get shot type shyt.

Hang in there breh. I still go through the exact same shyt sometimes.

I dont know if theres a right answer because even when the trust is earned and given, they may revert back to their bullshyt every now and then and then you have to use logic to remind them why trusting you is imperative. Its only so many times they can come crawling back to you on some "youre right" shyt before they realize they are better off just listening.

I just lead by example the best I can.

If I say I am going to do something I do it.
If I fukk up, I admit it and apologize.
Some of my deepest / darkest issues or secrets, I have told her throughout our friendship.
I make her feel heard when she expresses her own issues.
I dont act hypocritically
I break situations down logically (doesnt always work) and spell it out for her lol

Then In the moments where she's being combative i put my foot down and tell her to do what I said (after which she always comes back and says "you were right"). Sometimes I get frustrated to the point where I disrupt the trust though. It's tough man. Some of these women, especially black women are very fragile/difficult when it comes to this shyt. And the way I am, if a girl is spewing something that is false, idiotic, nonsensical, or passive aggressive it can cause me to be very snide/snippy. That's one thing i have had to get better at, is being more patient in the face of her bullshyt at times.

 

[Astroslik]

I got an independent chick too. How do you go about making them trust and just submit.

My chick so damn combative if I asked her to duck she would ask why and get shot type shyt.

Throw her to the bushes. You want a interdependent chick. I don’t have time to be reverse engineering anything.

 

[Astroslik]

Hang in there breh. I still go through the exact same shyt sometimes.

I dont know if theres a right answer because even when the trust is earned and given, they may revert back to their bullshyt every now and then and then you have to use logic to remind them why trusting you is imperative. Its only so many times they can come crawling back to you on some "youre right" shyt before they realize they are better off just listening.

I just lead by example the best I can.

If I say I am going to do something I do it.
If I fukk up, I admit it and apologize.
Some of my deepest / darkest issues or secrets, I have told her throughout our friendship.
I make her feel heard when she expresses her own issues.
I dont act hypocritically
I break situations down logically (doesnt always work) and spell it out for her lol

Then In the moments where she's being combative i put my foot down and tell her to do what I said (after which she always comes back and says "you were right"). Sometimes I get frustrated to the point where I disrupt the trust though. It's tough man. Some of these women, especially black women are very fragile/difficult when it comes to this shyt. And the way I am, if a girl is spewing something that is false, idiotic, nonsensical, or passive aggressive it can cause me to be very snide/snippy. That's one thing i have had to get better at, is being more patient in the face of her bullshyt at times.

Sounds like hell. No offense, breh.

 

[Ohene]

Sounds like hell. No offense, breh.

Lol i feel you. Im not gonna lie mannnn there were some times I considered breaking up with her. Every other week we were arguing about some dumb shyt

If she didnt move here from France and it was more of a normal circumstance I wouldve. But the circumstances have forced us to figure things out and its paying dividends. Time will tell how the next six months goes.

So far I feel like the hard part is done with though.

I have dated and messed with enough womEn to know that most of them have these same issues (not thinking logically) if not worse ones. Would rather invest in bringing this one along then just moving on to another with the same if not worse bs.

 

[The ADD]

Lol I missed the 1-2 hours comment