Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Guvnor]

Bagged a Harlem chick from this app called Tagged. It's like hood version of Tinder lol

She was a challenge at first I went with. Kept it buck that I'm going to take her out give her a good time.

She gave me a shyt test when I asked for her number. Didn't give up I gave her mine. I realized if a woman is interested she'll submit if it benefits her

Send her a voice note instead of text. I use voice notes because it amplifies the attraction vs a cold text. She was excited.

I don't really text just to text that's how a man gets curved. I mostly text with a purpose such as setting dates or just checking up on her/she checking up on me.

Girls just wanna have fun = I just want my back blown out.

Lmao good luck, every woman I ever met on tagged and I easily smashed more than 10 women on there was crazy, broke, ratchet, a thot or an absolute lost cause with no real ambition or future in life. If it's just a chick you are trying to smash then fine but with Tagged I wouldn't bet on this going too far because often times these are women who have been used by men again and again so they come with too much baggage.

At the same time you never know, you may have found a real one for all you know but that site is like a garbage can for washed up or nutty women who sell p*ssy or want attention. I think I only met one decent woman on tagged ever and even then I couldn't meet with her due to juggling too many woman at the time anyway so I don't even know if she was truly decent lol.

POF nowadays is struggle center. Idk cause it's my location because I found a lot of crazies nuts and headcases. Yikes!

POF sucks, it always had no good women like tagged but now on the app and the site they limit how many first contact messages you can send to like 10 women or maybe even less than that. Makes it harder to meet people unless you pay for VIP to get unlimited messaging and more promotion to your profile. Pof is another app with nothing but headaches but I had some easy smashes off there, I miss some of them broads sometimes lol.

 

[CW_1991]

Y'all probably right. It's probably some bullshyt. Just a little too accommodating.

I ran into a similar situation with another chick recently that was about 70 mi away talking about she'll pull up if I help her with them gas money. Hadn't even been talking for an hour.

I ended up playing it off by saying I didn't have the heart to have her driving that far at night to her obvious persistence. Then she just up and said I don't got the funds in a tone like I was broke or something.

 

[Guvnor]

Oh nah, these joints are responding. fukk a week. They’ll even wish you “Merry Christmas / Happy Holidau / Happy New Year”

I’d you gotta wait anymore than 1-2 hours it’s a dub.

1-2 hours? Lol you must be dating low life women. I've dated women who were lawyers, accountants, social workers and etc etc who got lives and actual jobs.

With that said I give women a little grace especially considering he has no rapport with her and never even spoke on the phone to her. I'm not saying she is the only one he should be pursuing but I'd give it a week before dubbing it entirely. Chicks sometimes weigh their options, have to move past an ex, have life issues they are dealing with or may genuinely be busy and if you don't have a rapport they not gonna make time to talk to you too much. If you went on one date with her and she started to give slow replies and shyt then you dub the situation but when you still in the texting phase you give her a little time. I say this from personal experience where chicks I thought had little interest or were busy, I set the date and smashed the same night. It's about timing some times.

If I was him I would have gave her some time and tired to speak with her on the phone to see if there was chemistry, set a date and work at building rapport. If a chick is interested she would make time but if she doesn't know you like that why would she.

 

[The ADD]

I need some of your thoughts on this. Been on hinge lately and messed with this 25 year old chick. Looks decent enough. Kind of thick. Anyway, we texted for a couple hours and sometime during I suggest maybe we schedule a meet up to go to this wing spot in town that I'm interested in trying.

She said she's down and then afterwards she suggested the if we hit it off we can go back to her place and cuddle..

Shortly after that she explains how she's been in the mood for intimacy.

The next morning she hit me up with the good mornings and everything and then she was saying maybe I can pull up tonight.

What y'all think?

I think if you go through with it you better be strapped up both ways

Pause

 

[darius19]

These younger girls are for the streets man, I’m keeping hope alive but I’m finding it harder to believe that I’ll find wife out of this bunch. Maybe it’s just the quality on dating apps and I need to find other way to meet women

 

[Killigraphy]

Y'all probably right. It's probably some bullshyt. Just a little too accommodating.

I ran into a similar situation with another chick recently that was about 70 mi away talking about she'll pull up if I help her with them gas money. Hadn't even been talking for an hour.

I ended up playing it off by saying I didn't have the heart to have her driving that far at night to her obvious persistence. Then she just up and said I don't got the funds in a tone like I was broke or something.

70 miles? That's essentially 2.5 hours on the road...even doing lazy calculations, that's $20 round trip...if she's that broke and even begins to insult you about it, best to move on. Its never about my not having the money, rather, how every broad goes about asking and or getting it. Remember, money does two things at the same time; it reveals who a person is and enhances said character traits.

 

[Ohene]

this is what I learned online about "game" and the whole thing of cold approach, Dante Nero (Patrice Oneal right hand man) called it being ready for the super bowl. Cold approach was about getting reps in so when the real opportunities of warm approaches or social circle were introduced to you, you were able to take full advantage. There is no freezing up, because you been putting reps in preseason (cold approach), during the season (initial talks) and playoffs (initial dates and sealing the deal)

By the time you get to super bowl you have soo many reps that it is 2nd nature for you to guide an interaction that you make the play with ease. This was presented to you on platter, was a warm approach where you were likely edified and had another women vouch for you. Luckily for you, church women tend to give a little grace so dont be soo hard on yourself, the fact there was feedback to meet up again means you still got a chance. Just play it cool, lead teh interaction and dont let looks make you put her on pedestal. You got this

dante nero hit the nail on the head

its why even though I have a GF, i still approach women every now and then to keep satellites around and to keep my game sharp

 

[Guvnor]

These younger girls are for the streets man, I’m keeping hope alive but I’m finding it harder to believe that I’ll find wife out of this bunch. Maybe it’s just the quality on dating apps and I need to find other way to meet women

It's like finding a rare diamond or some shyt breh but they are out there. I think lol.

Y'all probably right. It's probably some bullshyt. Just a little too accommodating.

I ran into a similar situation with another chick recently that was about 70 mi away talking about she'll pull up if I help her with them gas money. Hadn't even been talking for an hour.

I ended up playing it off by saying I didn't have the heart to have her driving that far at night to her obvious persistence. Then she just up and said I don't got the funds in a tone like I was broke or something.

Lol the gas trick? She was gonna take your money and block you.

As for this chick it could be possible she has high interest especially if y'all was talking sexually or flirting but I wouldn't risk it. Her being so eager like that in the very least points to some kind of mental problems where things would blow up in the long term imo.

 

[Ohene]

I'ma pm you her photo breh

PM ME!!!

 

[Ohene]

These younger girls are for the streets man, I’m keeping hope alive but I’m finding it harder to believe that I’ll find wife out of this bunch. Maybe it’s just the quality on dating apps and I need to find other way to meet women

fam , you still in toronto?

 

[The ADD]

These younger girls are for the streets man, I’m keeping hope alive but I’m finding it harder to believe that I’ll find wife out of this bunch. Maybe it’s just the quality on dating apps and I need to find other way to meet women

Do you even want to be married right now or soon?

 

[MikelArteta]

PM ME!!!

just sent

 

[Ahadi]

1-2 hours? Lol you must be dating low life women. I've dated women who were lawyers, accountants, social workers and etc etc who got lives and actual jobs.

With that said I give women a little grace especially considering he has no rapport with her and never even spoke on the phone to her. I'm not saying she is the only one he should be pursuing but I'd give it a week before dubbing it entirely. Chicks sometimes weigh their options, have to move past an ex, have life issues they are dealing with or may genuinely be busy and if you don't have a rapport they not gonna make time to talk to you too much. If you went on one date with her and she started to give slow replies and shyt then you dub the situation but when you still in the texting phase you give her a little time. I say this from personal experience where chicks I thought had little interest or were busy, I set the date and smashed the same night. It's about timing some times.

If I was him I would have gave her some time and tired to speak with her on the phone to see if there was chemistry, set a date and work at building rapport. If a chick is interested she would make time but if she doesn't know you like that why would she.

All professions bro. If you got “it” you got it lol

The least I’ll receive is a “hey boo, I’m about to head into this conference, I’ll hit you in an hour or so”

shyt don’t take long for me to figure out lol It don’t take long for someone to decide if they like chocolate cake or not

 

[Mr Olympia]

2nd day into 2023 and already got a fresh smash. May this year be as fruitful as the last

 

[Ohene]

the hardest thing about finding a good woman nowadays, is that even the ones who are good on paper have this fairy tale mindset when it comes to relationships

they think everything is just supposed to work, be easy, serve them...and when it doesnt they are ready to move on to the next fling