Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

the hardest thing about finding a good woman nowadays, is that even the ones who are good on paper have this fairy tale mindset when it comes to relationships

they think everything is just supposed to work, be easy, serve them...and when it doesnt they are ready to move on to the next fling

Yup

My brother in law is a pastor and my sister and him have been married for 14 years with 3 kids.

Guess what they are in marriage counselling at the moment because like every relationship things happen.

These chicks only want the honeymoon lovey dovey ish, the moment something pops up they want out.

 

[Ohene]

if a girl on dating apps, 9/10 times there is a reason

theres the argument that dating apps opens a person up to meet ppl they otherwise wouldnt come across on a day to day
- cool ...but what is wrong with the people where you live? especially if its in a big city. everyone else is the problem and not you right? sure

theres the argument that it makes it easier to meet people
- cool... but if you're approach to dating is lazy. so will your approach to relationships

theres the argument that it allows you to vet somebody
- cool...but then i got a goat to sell you. if you think what you see on apps and social media is all true...then youre an idiot

point blank. The creme de la creme of women do not need dating apps. Its nothing more than a tool most use to get attention from men and exploit them.

 

[International Playa]

I'ma pm you her photo breh

pm me too, breh.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

This passportbro thing isn't going to get any bigger is it? It feels like a "let's shyt on black men" bandwagon that way too many women are feeling comfortable being a part of.

 

[Guvnor]

All professions bro. If you got “it” you got it lol

The least I’ll receive is a “hey boo, I’m about to head into this conference, I’ll hit you in an hour or so”

shyt don’t take long for me to figure out lol It don’t take long for someone to decide if they like chocolate cake or not

I hear you and you're not lying. A chick into you enough would at least reach out and say "hope you have a great day, I'll hit you back later" or the "im thinking about you text" no matter how busy she is. I agree but you have to have some rapport first imo.

 

[360dagod]

I've started fukking with them mud mask facials and natural soaps....

 

[RaspberryFitted]

pm me too, breh.

relaaaaaaaaax

 

[RaspberryFitted]

if a girl on dating apps, 9/10 times there is a reason

theres the argument that dating apps opens a person up to meet ppl they otherwise wouldnt come across on a day to day
- cool ...but what is wrong with the people where you live? especially if its in a big city. everyone else is the problem and not you right? sure

theres the argument that it makes it easier to meet people
- cool... but if you're approach to dating is lazy. so will your approach to relationships

theres the argument that it allows you to vet somebody
- cool...but then i got a goat to sell you. if you think what you see on apps and social media is all true...then youre an idiot

point blank. The creme de la creme of women do not need dating apps. Its nothing more than a tool most use to get attention from men and exploit them.

even as a college student, it is to be a young adult yearning for a serious relationship when you are surrounded by clubs and organizations. Add on to the fact that you’re living in co-ed dorming.

Idc if it’s the “norm” now, these apps should supplement your in-person dating life and NOT the sole focus

Which is why it’s puzzling to see women complaining about the 100+ matches they get and the zero matches men cry about

 

[Ohene]

even as a college student, it is to be a young adult yearning for a serious relationship when you are surrounded by clubs and organizations. Add on to the fact that you’re living in co-ed dorming.

Idc if it’s the “norm” now, these apps should supplement your in-person dating life and NOT the sole focus

Which is why it’s puzzling to see women complaining about the 100+ matches they get and the zero matches men cry about

i used to work with this sexy carribean chick

dark skin, big titties, slim body, sexy accent

she had lived in toronto for like 5 years but couldnt find a solid dude and I asked her, how many men approach you? even if you getting approached once a week, thats 52 dudes in a year. you mean to tell me you cant find a single good looking, serious, solid dude out of 52?

the same goes for any attractive woman. they just dont know how to pick good men or they deep down dont want them. if a chick past 30 and on a dating app, it would already be a red flag to me. the best of the best get scooped up early.

 

[MikelArteta]

if a girl on dating apps, 9/10 times there is a reason

theres the argument that dating apps opens a person up to meet ppl they otherwise wouldnt come across on a day to day
- cool ...but what is wrong with the people where you live? especially if its in a big city. everyone else is the problem and not you right? sure

theres the argument that it makes it easier to meet people
- cool... but if you're approach to dating is lazy. so will your approach to relationships

theres the argument that it allows you to vet somebody
- cool...but then i got a goat to sell you. if you think what you see on apps and social media is all true...then youre an idiot

point blank. The creme de la creme of women do not need dating apps. Its nothing more than a tool most use to get attention from men and exploit them.

Yup
I got sick of dating apps. Even hopped on a few weeks ago and for the most part the same chicks that were there 7-8 months ago. You might come across a decent woman but she won't be on their long. I've been on so amyn dates with chicks from hinge, bumble etc. throughout the years after awhile the cracks start showing and you see why they are single.

 

[MikelArteta]

i used to work with this sexy carribean chick

dark skin, big titties, slim body, sexy accent

she had lived in toronto for like 5 years but couldnt find a solid dude and I asked her, how many men approach you? even if you getting approached once a week, thats 52 dudes in a year. you mean to tell me you cant find a single good looking, serious, solid dude out of 52?

the same goes for any attractive woman. they just dont know how to pick good men or they deep down dont want them. if a chick past 30 and on a dating app, it would already be a red flag to me. the best of the best get scooped up early.

Yup even average looking women have an array of dudes willing to date them etc. but like you said deep down they don't want that dude. And then you blink your eyes and you mid thirties early 40s and thinking of all the ones you you passed up.

 

[darius19]

It's like finding a rare diamond or some shyt breh but they are out there. I think lol.


Lol the gas trick? She was gonna take your money and block you.

As for this chick it could be possible she has high interest especially if y'all was talking sexually or flirting but I wouldn't risk it. Her being so eager like that in the very least points to some kind of mental problems where things would blow up in the long term imo.

I hope you right breh. Holding out hope for one of those rare diamonds

fam , you still in toronto?

Not anymore my guy. I live in NYC now.

Do you even want to be married right now or soon?

There’s no rush to be honest, although I’m hitting 30 this year, it’d be nice to find a woman that I can build with over the next 3-5 years. But can’t rush these things.

What prompted the post is that I’ve been dating this chick for the last 3 months and there seemed to be a lot of potential there, but recently when she was drunk she let some info slip about some thot behavior she took part in earlier in the year. I’m looking at myself like a fool a little bit, but it’s good that I caught this info pretty early and know not to make her wifey.

@Ohene dropping gems about dating apps in the last few posts

 

[Ohene]

I hope you right breh. Holding out hope for one of those rare diamonds

Not anymore my guy. I live in NYC now.

There’s no rush to be honest, although I’m hitting 30 this year, it’d be nice to find a woman that I can build with over the next 3-5 years. But can’t rush these things.

What prompted the post is that I’ve been dating this chick for the last 3 months and there seemed to be a lot of potential there, but recently when she was drunk she let some info slip about some thot behavior she took part in earlier in the year. I’m looking at myself like a fool a little bit, but it’s good that I caught this info pretty early and know not to make her wifey.

@Ohene dropping gems about dating apps in the last few posts

how thotty? what she do

and how was the move to NYC?

i work in a pension plan's investment team currently so i feel blessed. but if i ever leave this firm itll likely be to go to NYC, Cali or London...though i hear Blackstone may be opening a toronto office

 

[darius19]

how thotty? what she do

and how was the move to NYC?

i work in a pension plan's investment team currently so i feel blessed. but if i ever leave this firm itll likely be to go to NYC, Cali or London...though i hear Blackstone may be opening a toronto office

Spoiler: Thotty

We were drunk, she was telling me about a vacation she had earlier in the year to Cabo. She and her girlfriends got invited onto one of those boat parties with free liquor etc. for some random local rap group to be in their music video she let it slip about some freak shyt that her and her girls did on that boat. In her words, not fukking but making out with each other, getting nude, and handjobs, all recorded who knows if she’s telling the truth or not but either way, not wifing that. I’ll enjoy the p*ssy while it’s mine though

and NYC is a cool city breh, it’s very alive and happening compared to Toronto. But the expectations here are higher…it attracts the best of the best in all fields so that vibe permeates the city. You just gotta be on your grind. If you’re young and single and have nothing keeping you attached to TO, I’d totally recommend it. Lord knows Toronto expensive as shyt and they pay peanuts up there still. With that said, I probably don’t see myself in NYC for much longer, u plan to try and get my company to let me be remote and work from Canada with USD pay (or USD converted to CAD). We’ll see what happens.

 

[Ohene]

Spoiler: Thotty

We were drunk, she was telling me about a vacation she had earlier in the year to Cabo. She and her girlfriends got invited onto one of those boat parties with free liquor etc. for some random local rap group to be in their music video she let it slip about some freak shyt that her and her girls did on that boat. In her words, not fukking but making out with each other, getting nude, and handjobs, all recorded who knows if she’s telling the truth or not but either way, not wifing that. I’ll enjoy the p*ssy while it’s mine though

and NYC is a cool city breh, it’s very alive and happening compared to Toronto. But the expectations here are higher…it attracts the best of the best in all fields so that vibe permeates the city. You just gotta be on your grind. If you’re young and single and have nothing keeping you attached to TO, I’d totally recommend it. Lord knows Toronto expensive as shyt and they pay peanuts up there still. With that said, I probably don’t see myself in NYC for much longer, u plan to try and get my company to let me be remote and work from Canada with USD pay (or USD converted to CAD). We’ll see what happens.

jesus. nikkas gotta be careful out here

makes sense. i was in NYC for a few days during September. Didnt do much outside of Manhattan though

I felt like Toronto was better/nicer. At this point I think I am settling down so maybe NYC wouldnt be the best look unless a company took care of all the relocation stuff