Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

My lady wanted to watch porn for once and I had her choose the video. She chose a threesome vid (2 girls and a dude).

Afterwards she asked if that’s something that I’d be interested in so I might start hitting some women up.

She wants the opportunity to cheat

 

[Digital Omen]

What do you do if your family don’t like the person you’re with for no real reason?

There's always a reason. Could be petty, could be BS, could be something serious, but there's a reason.

You ever been in a setting or met someone and they just gave you a weird vibe?

I've definitely met people in my life where my first impression was "I don't like you"
Mind you I knew next to nothing about these individuals, but their energy was off to me
Come to find out later through the grapevine they were shady, or some other negative trait

That being said when it comes to family you know who and not who to trust
9x/10 they want the best for you so dig deep and find out why they don't like this person.

 

[Wargames]

My lady wanted to watch porn for once and I had her choose the video. She chose a threesome vid (2 girls and a dude).

Afterwards she asked if that’s something that I’d be interested in so I might start hitting some women up.

Bro that is a trap, either to cheat on you or get you to admit you want to fukk other women.

Only way this works is she brings in other women to begin with, aka does she identify as being queer or Bi? If not you really got to be ok with it she gets dikk from someone else too.

 

[BigBlackSea]

Lotta relationships nowadays seem like business partnerships instead of people actually loving each other.

You kinda need someone to help you out with owning a home in this economy and im convinced thats why people in my age group (regardless of gender) damn-near force themselves into marriage.

Relationships in general are business partnerships. Marriage was traditionally a joining of houses/clans/bloodlines, akin to companies merging.

As Mao Zedong put it, "Politics is war without blood, and war is politics with bloodshed."

Love, politics, and business all stem from the same struggle surrounding resource allocation.

Politics - Vying for a candidate to give you and your group what you want, and while a candidate vies for your vote to get power.

Business- Businesses vying for consumers to give them their money, while consumers have the pick of the litter.

Love - I want sex and a womb for my progeny, you want my money and security.

It's always a tug of war in relationships. We both want something, but we want it at a discount. Men and women come to the table with their terms, but men fall off and forget to enforce their side of deal. Women will be able to do the duality move very easily, appearing lovey-dovey one minute, but not afraid to enforce their terms. I've made that mistake myself, and that's why I started to make sure before I get into an arrangement, that not only they understand the terms, but I do myself. We gotta stop treating women with kid gloves.

We as men gotta start thinking about relationships in the sense that they are inherently transactional. Society pulled the trick bag on us that surrounds the Disney style of romance.

Happy wife, happy life. Simp for your woman, and sacrifice without expecting anything in return. Society had that leverage on men, because women couldn't support themselves back in the day, so they knew that by somewhat guaranteeing that majority of men will find a wife, they'll have happy husbands who will have no issue working hard to support their wife and family. Nowadays, we're hearing about men going without relationships, and the rise of NEET/incel culture where young men have no motivation to go produce value for the society.

Not saying women should be in the kitchen barefoot chained to the stove, but we as men have been lagging.

Women out here are on the F-22/stealth UAV/ modern warfare tip, while we as men are still fighting trench warfare with bolt action rifles.

 

[moorfeus]

Dating in big cities is expensive af man, If it were up to me I would chill all weekend but girls want to dress up etc. My girl and I went out, she bought tickets to Alvin Ailey, and I bought dinner and drinks, not even at a 5-star joint -$160. I brought 4 nips too to pregame, and a joint (estimate ($30) bought her a Alvin Ailey souvenir cup that broke while walking because I was holding too much stuff ($25) Then after the show, she wanted to go out, against my wishes, she paid for drinks fine. Then she had on heels and was tired of walking, so uber home -(She paid $28) Ikea the next day, uber back because she bought a lot of furniture -$35 Uber then I bought lunch and dinner because she had no groceries- Uber Eats -$48-In retrospect I should've cooked but damn. Was thinking of buying a car, they just put a damn bike rack around the corner from my crib and it was already hard to find parking and there's a school across the street.

Does she save money or just spend everything that she makes? I'm going to keep it 100 with you. The amounts she is spending here and there might not sound bad BUT that little spending here and there adds up. If she ain't saving anything, not even putting up a few thousand for a rainy day, you should end it now and move on. People that spend like that live paycheck to paycheck, even if/when they start making more bread. Its a financial mindset.

 

[George Gooney]

My lady wanted to watch porn for once and I had her choose the video. She chose a threesome vid (2 girls and a dude).

Afterwards she asked if that’s something that I’d be interested in so I might start hitting some women up.

I couldn’t take a woman seriously after she let me bring another woman into the bedroom. That Bi shyt is only for the thots not wifey.

 

[Wargames]

I couldn’t take a woman seriously after she let me bring another woman into the bedroom. That Bi shyt is only for the thots not wifey.

I don’t think that even the religions that promote polygamist marriages allow for threesomes. Each wife has their own house.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I don’t think that even the religions that promote polygamist marriages allow for threesomes. Each wife has their own house.

Polygamy is a Provision thing but in the west nikkas think it = 3 somes lmfao. nikkas cant even handle a girlfriend but think they want 3 actual wives lmfao

 

[DA_LURKA]

We as men gotta start thinking about relationships in the sense that they are inherently transactional.

Fellas get yours, because they are gonna go for theirs...

Chuuuuch...

 

[Forsaken]

Marriage in most functional societies always came from social circles
1.Families putting their kids together
2.Societal institutions such as church/school a man approaching the parents asking to court their daughter.

All this other shyt is remixed sex work culture and this is why it ends in fukkery.

Ask yourself why are 18-25 yr olds even on dating apps? They are not far removed from school, so you mean to tell me they do not know anyone in their social circles?

Like I said right now we are using Sex Worker Culture to form relationships and it simply does not work. You just get situationships where literally nobody can tell you why even get legally married makes sense when yall already having sex and living together lmfao only thing that changes is sharing debt and getting taken to the cleaners when yall divorce inevitably.

People fighting for shyt that aint even real. If someone was worth fighting for you would be married lmfao. This is why I'm saying if yall not married with kids then when shyt goes left leave. Dont sit around and fall into depression when the shyt is gonna end anyways and chick will move on ASAP while dudes come in here crying bout hoes aint shyt.

I dont see the issue with dating apps as they are literally zero effort. No different than talking to random women you meet.

IMO as men toss that level up term to the bushes, that shyt is for women.

1.Learn to be alone and enjoy it. Being lonely leads to us getting into situationships we shouldn't be in. Learn yourself and what you actually enjoy.
2.Once you learn to be alone, master yourself. Conquer whatever non productive vices you have whether it be porn, food addiction, etc. I say this because when we get down and out we lean to this shyt and it further puts us in a hole.
3.When you do 1 and 2 you understand how simple life is thus you abandon the level up bullshyt which is just shyt to make you a slave of capitalism.
4.Remember you dont own anyone and nobody owns you. Take people who come in your life as they are, you cant change them and that is ok. Simply ask yourself, if the characteristics they display things you want in your life and if so, do these things shift you off your square? if they do cut them out, reflect on the lessons learned and move on.

Dont need to be alone. Always nice to meet new people. Most problematic relationships showed signs early on. All you need to do is follow your 4th point.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I don’t think that even the religions that promote polygamist marriages allow for threesomes. Each wife has their own house.

Polygamy is a Provision thing but in the west nikkas think it = 3 somes lmfao. nikkas cant even handle a girlfriend but think they want 3 actual wives lmfao

I dont see the issue with dating apps as they are literally zero effort. No different than talking to random women you meet.




Dont need to be alone. Always nice to meet new people. Most problematic relationships showed signs early on. All you need to do is follow your 4th point.

naw you need to one alone to master self, and remove that dependency chip 98% of modern men have. That dependency chip is why nikkas ignore red flags and post their issue there instead of cutting shyt off. We not folks daddy, it aint our job to change grown ass women.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

^ Most ppl run into problems in relationships because they think they can change other ppl. A lot of headache would be spared if we all just made our decisions based on what's in front of us and not the potential we see in someone. This "potential" might be real or just wishful thinking, but you don't have multiple lifetimes to gamble on it.

Every time I've run into problems with women it was because I ignored some red flags that I had noticed early on.

 

[Wargames]

Polygamy is a Provision thing but in the west nikkas think it = 3 somes lmfao. nikkas cant even handle a girlfriend but think they want 3 actual wives lmfao

A lot of dudes lives would be easier if they admitted they just wanted a threesome, did it, and came to terms with the fact that more sexual partners doesn’t equal fulfillment. It’s fun, but eventually it can get stale like anything else.

naw you need to one alone to master self, and remove that dependency chip 98% of modern men have. That dependency chip is why nikkas ignore red flags and post their issue there instead of cutting shyt off. We not folks daddy, it aint our job to change grown ass women.

Though sex is something to be enjoyed and pursued. Happiness never comes from new p*ssy. With that said, I don’t think that message can make sense until a man has ran through his share of women. The whole taking them off the pedestal and not seeing them as Madonnas/Whores requires enough interaction that the allure or women and relationships is gone.

Same with money, you can’t tell someone money isn’t important and they are broke and been broke their whole lives.

 

[Apollo Creed]

^ Most ppl run into problems in relationships because they think they can change other ppl. A lot of headache would be spared if we all just made our decisions based on what's in front of us and not the potential we see in someone. This "potential" might be real or just wishful thinking, but you don't have multiple lifetimes to gamble on it.

Every time I've run into problems with women it was because I ignored some red flags that I had noticed early on.

the change people = fear of being alone. I dont want to be alone so let me see how I can change this person.

Imagine buying a car (not talking about custom cats I mean avg consumers), and saying"fukk my actual requirement, this bytch look good any anything else I'll fix it myself even though I'm not a mechanic". You literally saying fukk common sense give me a headache lmfao.

The only thing I say is take people as they are, and ask yourself from the things that do not meet your requirements are they things you can live with for the next 20 years? Because no human is perfect, shyt we our selves have issues, thats why I'm like give people grace and accept them as is, but you are allowed to say "yes i can deal with this" or not.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Rest in peace Alan Roger Currie


He was the author of "Mode 1"

Pretty much, he taught dudes being direct and honest with women leads to effective communication.