Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

I meant like I pay 60 she pays 40.

And granted, yea this is a girl we all spoke about but even when I was dating hinge joints when we broke up, after a while of cheap ethic food and drinks they always made some outlandish date idea or claim. "I really like Tao and Ruth Chris we should go" Y'all telling me that there are girls in the NYC 20's to mid 30's that don't want to go out in this age of social media and validation?

You admitted to spending almost 50$ on uber eats.

Homegirl stopped cooking cuz she know you gonna spend bread to feed her..

She is SUBTLY pushing it further and further to where more money is going to be relieved from your bank account because you don't establish boundaries....

she trying to prove she good in a recession with your money..

You will see the light eventually

 

[Mowgli]

A woman can't fake being a prototype female meaning she cooks clean and does what you say for more than 8 months before she reverts to who she truly is

 

[Apollo Creed]

I meant like I pay 60 she pays 40.

And granted, yea this is a girl we all spoke about but even when I was dating hinge joints when we broke up, after a while of cheap ethic food and drinks they always made some outlandish date idea or claim. "I really like Tao and Ruth Chris we should go" Y'all telling me that there are girls in the NYC 20's to mid 30's that don't want to go out in this age of social media and validation?

nikkas gotta think they doing women a favor with this I'll pay 60/40 bullshyt. If you make more than her thats her problem nobody told her to pick the career field she is in.

Either you are 100% provider (and like 95% of women cant handle what comes with that) or yall 50/50 everything. Anything else is confusion that leads you no where. This is for actual relationships. Anything else keep it FWB, I'll summon you when I want to see you so you dont invest unnecessary time on giving attention as time is money.

 

[Wargames]

nikkas gotta think they doing women a favor with this I'll pay 60/40 bullshyt. If you make more than her thats her problem nobody told her to pick the career field she is in.

Either you are 100% provider (and like 95% of women cant handle what comes with that) or yall 50/50 everything. Anything else is confusion that leads you no where. This is for actual relationships. Anything else keep it FWB, I'll summon you when I want to see you so you dont invest unnecessary time on giving attention as time is money.

there is a third option

Tell her to give you her check every payday and you manage all the finances with all the money outside of some disposable cash she can keep for whatever.

It worked in the past for couples and it should work now. Especially if ya’ll living together and what not.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

there is a third option

Tell her to give you her check every payday and you manage all the finances with all the money outside of some disposable cash she can keep for whatever.

It worked in the past for couples and it should work now. Especially if ya’ll living together and what not.

Ion mean to interject because I haven’t been in a relationship yet where real finances came into play… but that shyt sounds too much for a simple BF/GF dynamic

 

[Balla]

He ain't leaving her...lol

There is a backstory to this and he didn't leave her then when everyone who quoted him told him to do so...

What’s the backstory?

 

[Apollo Creed]

there is a third option

Tell her to give you her check every payday and you manage all the finances with all the money outside of some disposable cash she can keep for whatever.

It worked in the past for couples and it should work now. Especially if ya’ll living together and what not.

these nikkas aint married though. It's just two confused adults.

We over complicate gender dynamics because Dating isn't even real, it comes from prostitution culture but we now use it as method of relationship lol.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Ion mean to interject because I haven’t been in a relationship yet where real finances came into play… but that shyt sounds too much for a simple BF/GF dynamic

see my post.

Folks playing husband and wife and call it dating lmfao.

If you are not married with kids then things SHOULD NOT be this complicated.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

these nikkas aint married though. It's just two confused adults.

We over complicate gender dynamics because Dating isn't even real, it comes from prostitution culture but we now use it as method of relationship lol.

Facts

 

[Wargames]

these nikkas aint married though. It's just two confused adults.

We over complicate gender dynamics because Dating isn't even real, it comes from prostitution culture but we now use it as method of relationship lol.

Bro do you have a book or something I can learn up about this? It sounds like a POV worth learning about.

 

[Brandsdale]

these nikkas aint married though. It's just two confused adults.

We over complicate gender dynamics because Dating isn't even real, it comes from prostitution culture but we now use it as method of relationship lol.

Lotta relationships nowadays seem like business partnerships instead of people actually loving each other.

You kinda need someone to help you out with owning a home in this economy and im convinced thats why people in my age group (regardless of gender) damn-near force themselves into marriage.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Bro do you have a book or something I can learn up about this? It sounds like a POV worth learning about.

I read about it a while back, and then I've seen dudes like Coach Greg Adams talk about it

but even till this day "Date" lingo is still used in the prostitution world when it comes to a Whore/Escort going out with a Trick.

 

[360dagod]

What’s the backstory?

I forgot what happened, but he was going thru it with her..

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lotta relationships nowadays seem like business partnerships instead of people actually loving each other.

You kinda need someone to help you out with owning a home in this economy and im convinced thats why people in my age group (regardless of gender) damn-near force themselves into marriage.

Marriage in most functional societies always came from social circles
1.Families putting their kids together
2.Societal institutions such as church/school a man approaching the parents asking to court their daughter.

All this other shyt is remixed sex work culture and this is why it ends in fukkery.

Ask yourself why are 18-25 yr olds even on dating apps? They are not far removed from school, so you mean to tell me they do not know anyone in their social circles?

Like I said right now we are using Sex Worker Culture to form relationships and it simply does not work. You just get situationships where literally nobody can tell you why even get legally married makes sense when yall already having sex and living together lmfao only thing that changes is sharing debt and getting taken to the cleaners when yall divorce inevitably.

People fighting for shyt that aint even real. If someone was worth fighting for you would be married lmfao. This is why I'm saying if yall not married with kids then when shyt goes left leave. Dont sit around and fall into depression when the shyt is gonna end anyways and chick will move on ASAP while dudes come in here crying bout hoes aint shyt.

 

[Nokids]

Read the last 20 or so pages good questions and answers from everyone

Been working on myself the past few months got the new job, new crib downtown yada yada.. the thing I noticed the girls I used to like before I don’t even want to smash

Anyone else felt that gradual shift of wanting better when you leveled up in life? We all fukked a few wack bytches in our life but it’s crazy when you’re living in a better spot it impacts who you want over. Also since moving, I barely be on the apps other than hinge because it be bytches with multiple kids, mediocre jobs, etc giving trouble and it’s a waste of time since you’re doing so well in real life

TLDR- when you work on yourself and enter the dating game again you’ll be blown away how fast your standards changed