anyone tryna make a thread on this? the comments piss me off cause they completely act like this concept doesn’t exist
As a quick set up
Austin Dunham expresses his "Black women" problem quite succinctly,
"I attract, I don't chase".
Austin, and most of these Gen Z Red Pill guys preach self development and using a passive dating strategy.
Just stack dollars, stack plates, and these hoes will drop to their knees.
Here's his game in action. This is Miami. This is night game. So for my analytical brothers - we know how hook ups happen in a night game, with alcohol, with music, with a lot of chicks on vacation.
@13:08
He literally attracts a black woman but she says,
"I don't want you, I just want to touch you"
He could have converted her on the spot, if he understood the text of what she said, but more importantly the SUBTEXT. (Can't spell subtext without sex)
A lot of Black women require at least some effort. Most Black Women would like to engage in their own power fantasy, that men will slay dragons and found nations, just to get their attention.
A man has to have an active strategy, where he actively does things to affect the emotions, moods, and thoughts of the female. He can't just sit there with his abs and expect a chick to submit.
The Tweet
There is truth in what Austin is saying.
And there is also truth in what the comments are saying.
On the one hand
- Austin is a handsome guy with a good body, and that's very attractive to all women.
- There is a bit of forbidden fruit as well when it comes to black male bodies and non-black women.
- SOME Non-Black Women tend to approach, or make themselves very approachable. Much more so than equivalently attractive Black Women in my experience. I.E. it's often easier to pull a White American 7 versus a Black American 7.
On the other hand
- Austin comes off as a white boy. That "speaks so well" trait in a Black man is not attractive to a lot of Black women. (But they love them some Captain America - so it's not the words, but the expectation that a Black man needs to sound like a "Black" man)
- Austin has zero game - i.e. he doesn't understand what women want, that there is text of what she says/does, and subtext.
- A lot of black women fawn over the "thug" archetype and disdain the clean cut brother - especially when these women are most attractive. They need edge, they need swag. Beyonce would say they need a Soldier. Weezy would say "Shawty wanna thug". Weezy is more accurate, imo.
The real question is
how does this analysis help the average clean cut brother.
Especially the one that's not tryna get face tattoos, braids, and a rap sheet.
We all can't be Future. I know some of you dream of being a toxic man, pushing her Altima around the hood, making her cry, sleeping with her cousins and Mama - but that's not you pimpin!
The traditional answers to this question -
1) Just Be Yourself - worst advice ever, cause every dude is already being himself.
2) "She doesn't want a criminal, she wants confidence" - is just dumb as hell. No, she wants the emotional roller coaster of being with a dude that's just as emotional/reactionary as she is, but looks masculine and looks trendy.
The real answer to these chicks is that
Your job is to engage these broads, figure out what she wants, and then kick her to the curb for making bad decisions.
A simple, "Oh that's what you like" and a physical pullback is what you're trying to accomplish.
And sometimes you'll find that chicks realize they messed up by being honest and try to change their behavior and try to attract you - but it's too late.
measured...
nah breh you right, fukk em.
