Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

I was in India this weekend

wait, I think I just got the joke

 

[africngiant]

Yeah but are we talking dating or just trying to sleep with chicks because those are way different scenarios.

i say either cause chicks just don’t want to reciprocate any kind of sexual effort at all most times once i actually speak. there was this one time a “bad bytch” purposely stood directly in front of me playing pong, then turned to her friend and crossed her neck with her hand the second i started speaking. i was like wow

you can tell when someone actually likes you, like that sloppy girl in the corner who tells their friend to put the word out to you for them. when someone truly likes you, it shouldn’t be a question or even matter how you approach the situation. they always want you to play some role or actually be that person in order to move further sexually. it’s like they judge black men off of porn and movies but everyone else can just be their goofy selves

 

[africngiant]

Them dudes cornball brothers man..one of them looks a Lil "fruity pebblish"...but I'm not gonna throw that on his name..

I'm square as shyt and you just gotta play to your strengths and maneuver thru the "shyt tests"...

They are intimidated more than anything

Get in the best shape possible and be able to show them a good time..then let the chips fall..

im like 6’5, 200 and can cut my own hair though, so that makes it more embarrassing. i guess not everyone is meant to be a ladies man. but i can clearly tell it’s my demeanor. not to brag but i get looks when i walk into a room.

they just don’t feel me when i speak, so what they’re saying in that video is facts to me.

 

[Ahadi]

anyone tryna make a thread on this? the comments piss me off cause they completely act like this concept doesn’t exist

Yes. A lot of ppl will act “obtuse” and say “WhAt!?”

“MaYbE iTs YoU”

“I’vE NeVeR hAd ThOsE pRoBlEms”

But it’s true and the cause of this is media as well as environment. That “image” is pushed to the highest level to the point where majority of Black Women feel like “thugs” represent “true masculinity” when the hood guys are way more emotional than the clean cut guys. Another problem when hood / stripper culture bleed into everyday society.

The hood guys are also:
- More controllable

The clean cut guy:
- has standards
- reveal the woman’s insecurities / unsure if they can keep up with him

Going with the lower vibrational guy is less pressure.

Remember when Obama was president and women kept posting him with tats and a fade? Lol it’s the same thing, if you’re a black man who doesn’t fit the idea / media’s mold, they don’t think you’re a “true black man” which at the end of the day, shows they like the idea of you and not you.

I go through the same, but when they see me with an Indian, or Asian, or Latina, they lose their mind. Especially since another group sees value in you.

So you have two options:

You can change your environment & to to cities with professional black women

Or

Go overseas / Africa and date a woman who hasn’t been poisoned.

 

[Ahadi]

Honestly, the black love thing is a myth lol I don’t think some black men will get black women tbh. Some black ppl are better dating out.

Other groups of women respect your masculinity off rip & for some BW it needs to be a checklist and more



I don’t see anything wrong with the brehs, but again that’s why our community is fukked. Shaming and calling ppl corny because they don’t fall into a box that represents their environment or visual they’re comfortable with

 

[The ADD]

i say either cause chicks just don’t want to reciprocate any kind of sexual effort at all most times once i actually speak. there was this one time a “bad bytch” purposely stood directly in front of me playing pong, then turned to her friend and crossed her neck with her hand the second i started speaking. i was like wow

you can tell when someone actually likes you, like that sloppy girl in the corner who tells their friend to put the word out to you for them. when someone truly likes you, it shouldn’t be a question or even matter how you approach the situation. they always want you to play some role or actually be that person in order to move further sexually. it’s like they judge black men off of porn and movies but everyone else can just be their goofy selves

You really need to work on your self esteem breh

 

[africngiant]

Yes. A lot of ppl will act “obtuse” and say “WhAt!?”

“MaYbE iTs YoU”

“I’vE NeVeR hAd ThOsE pRoBlEms”

But it’s true and the cause of this is media as well as environment. That “image” is pushed to the highest level to the point where majority of Black Women feel like “thugs” represent “true masculinity” when the hood guys are way more emotional than the clean cut guys. Another problem when hood / stripper culture bleed into everyday society.

The hood guys are also:
- More controllable

The clean cut guy:
- has standards
- reveal the woman’s insecurities / unsure if they can keep up with him

Going with the lower vibrational guy is less pressure.

Remember when Obama was president and women kept posting him with tats and a fade? Lol it’s the same thing, if you’re a black man who doesn’t fit the idea / media’s mold, they don’t think you’re a “true black man” which at the end of the day, shows they like the idea of you and not you.

I go through the same, but when they see me with an Indian, or Asian, or Latina, they lose their mind. Especially since another group sees value in you.

So you have two options:

You can change your environment & to to cities with professional black women

Or

Go overseas / Africa and date a woman who hasn’t been poisoned.

preach king we’re staying true to ourselves. there’s this asian chick who clearly likes me that persistently tries to inviting me to her parties. i usually decline as she’s not my type but im about to just take the offer next time fukk it

 

[Ahadi]

i say either cause chicks just don’t want to reciprocate any kind of sexual effort at all most times once i actually speak. there was this one time a “bad bytch” purposely stood directly in front of me playing pong, then turned to her friend and crossed her neck with her hand the second i started speaking. i was like wow

you can tell when someone actually likes you, like that sloppy girl in the corner who tells their friend to put the word out to you for them. when someone truly likes you, it shouldn’t be a question or even matter how you approach the situation. they always want you to play some role or actually be that person in order to move further sexually. it’s like they judge black men off of porn and movies but everyone else can just be their goofy selves

Exactly. My last point is when you control your image you can create attractiveness from every spectrum.

Movies / Cinema / TV shows from other groups show a spectrum of men as attractive from the “nerd” archetype to the “leather jacket guy” to the “business man”

The programming causes their women to see all groups of men attractive, causing more procreation and higher selection rates from all. Also each group has standards, our community unfortunately does not. Another reason why the group is fukked because the black men from the previous Gen and some of the black men now are not checking these bytches lol

 

[Ahadi]

preach king we’re staying true to ourselves. there’s this asian chick who clearly likes me that persistently tries to inviting me to her parties. i usually decline as she’s not my type but im about to just take the offer next time fukk it

Always. An educated black man is the most dangerous thing on earth.

Go where you are celebrated not tolerated. Go to where you have peace.

Always try new things out and put yourself in “uncomfortable” situations & see how it goes.

 

[africngiant]

You really need to work on your self esteem breh

i don’t have the greatest self esteem on the planet, but most men are insecure about something. i still have a high intrinsic confidence in knowing the value i can bring to the market im in right now. my delivery is the main obstacle because of the expectations combined with my lack of experience and past rejections

it’s just most “bad bytches” are so preoccupied with their perceived options that you better approach them perfectly or they’re quick to cut you off.

 

[The ADD]

i don’t have the greatest self esteem on the planet, but most men are insecure about something. i still have a high intrinsic confidence in knowing the value i can bring to the market im in right now. my delivery is the main obstacle because of the expectations combined with my lack of experience and past rejections

it’s just most “bad bytches” are so preoccupied with their perceived options that you better approach them perfectly or they’re quick to cut you off.

Of course but you are in this cycle of allowing people you don’t value to impact your view of your self worth. Nothing good can come from it. A lot of this board is infected with this mindset.

 

[africngiant]

Of course but you are in this cycle of allowing people you don’t value to impact your view of your self worth. Nothing good can come from it.

yeah shyt is frustrating, im not putting in any more effort or pressure on myself to impress these hoes, im just gonna make my money and go where they truly fw me at. they acting like children out here bro

 

[The ADD]

yeah shyt is frustrating, im not putting in any more effort or pressure on myself to impress these hoes, im just gonna make my money and go where they truly fw me at. they acting like children out here bro

Lol still don’t get it.

 

[africngiant]

Lol still don’t get it.

nah breh you right, fukk em.

im flexing on these bytches and working on my goals

 

[360dagod]

im like 6’5, 200 and can cut my own hair though, so that makes it more embarrassing. i guess not everyone is meant to be a ladies man. but i can clearly tell it’s my demeanor. not to brag but i get looks when i walk into a room.

they just don’t feel me when i speak, so what they’re saying in that video is facts to me.

Because they might feel you are too "measured" and/or judgemental...

I felt this way about an African woman I was dealing with...

She just came off as always acting "proper" and then said some stuff about black people that even though was right, based on her initial demeanor, it came off as if a white person said it

Point is your demeanor might be too rigid for the market of women your after