Them Ice Spice/Cardi B/Nicki Minaj types tend to deal with their equivalent. They might try out a gump for a minute, but then it don't work out.
Lori Harvey rocked with Future, went with Killmonger, and allegedly back with Future.
That's what she wants, what she submits too.
Riri coulda got with Drake - do that Jay and Bey power couple thing - instead she bailing ASAP out of jail.
Too many of my 6 Figs/6 Certs try to dance with the devil.
I know, cause I been burned like that.
But tats, septum piercings, loud as hell, cursing every other word...
Like if a chick got a cracked screen? I'm chunking the deuce.
Those are the easy ones to spot.
The tricky ones be the admins at the good job, teacher, REGISTERED Nurse, chick got a degree or 2, JD, MBA, MPH (but never an MRS) - but they still consume ratchet material or engage in ratchet behavior.
- Had one ex that hid her compulsive shoplifting habit from me. Can buy anything in the damn store, and still want to Winona Ryder.
- Had another one, Black Power/Black Love/White Man is the debil - she stay glued to Love and Hip Hop ATL, had she known what a degree was gonna NOT do for her she would have been a stripper...Hinting she want designer for X-Mas. Like how you wearing a Fendi Kente Cloth headwrap? The Red, Black, and Green means Gucci too..da hell?
Smh.
One of the lessons I had to learn - was "guidance" needed to be given early on - like the first date, the first hook up, the first look. Cause if she won't follow, you can't lead.
Now if you're the type not afraid to catch a charge, and want to paws on a broad - that's on you.
Most men can out think, out strategize a woman, but they can't out-emotional a woman - and that's her not-so-secret weapon.
So a college educated cat might pull one of these undercover hood rats/boughettos - that at least doesn't have children - and then find himself 6-12 months deep in a situation where her true self comes out. Now you gotta hard decision on whether you can deal with her BS or bounce.
Some chicks don't even show you who they are until you meet their family.