If any one here is an introvert, try exercising your social muscles by getting into small talk and cold reading people with people, men and women.
A lot of time, guys learn the game to get women, but you can increase your mouthpiece talking to everyone. Learning the foundations of the game that is people is how you will get good.
Who you are and how you interact with others in your environment is paramount.
-Knowing how to relate to others
-Knowing who you should/ should not associate with.
-Knowing how to dictate conversations
-Knowing how to make adjustments and conduct yourself in different scenarios
-Knowing how to judge a book by its cover
Cold reading is one of the best ways to learn what somebody's story is. It's basically like getting the synopsis of a movie in 5 minutes without having to sit for 2 hours watching the damn thing. Women are intuitive and get can a guys synopsis in a few minutes of interacting with him. Whether he's cool, confident, a lame, a square, a thug, etc. It's not different from when they are looking for a movie to watch on Neftlix. 30 secs max of watching the trailer, and it's a yay or nay.
The reason I say to talk to everybody is that people in general are not original. If you get 100 people in a room, you can probably group them all in 10 sub groups max, depending on personality. The high energy types, the more lowkey brooding types, the cocky types, the depressed types, the shy types, outdoorsy, artsy, etc. Basically, people have "genres" they adhere to. You can basically learn how to relate and converse with most people just from understanding these genres.
I have to note that this ain't a surefire way to precisely get someone's story, as there is more that meets the eye. I don't want people here thinking this is a guarantee way of getting to know someone on some
steez. You just need to have some form of schema to get the ball rolling and ask questions. You may even find that your schema was far off. Just remember, this is about talking and finding common ground to chat about, not psychoanalyze people. Youtube some videos on how mentalists/mind readers, psychics, and comedians cold read people.
In psychology, a schema is a cognitive framework that helps organize and interpret information in the world around us. Learn more about how they work, plus examples.
www.verywellmind.com
Next time your out, people watch a bit and try to figure out somebodies story at first glance, using context clues and gut instinct:
1.How do they look?
2. How do they conduct themselves?
3. What's his synopsis?
Examples:
Russell Wilson
1. Looks athletic, clean cut. Looks like he's charge or atleast in the loop on sensitive things on his team.
2. Clean cut, cornball. Probably had strict parents
3. Hardworking cat, who probably wasn't in the club much back in the day, or atleast tries to keep that notion far from his image.
Future
1. Looks like way less "high and tight" than Russ. Fashion says "I wear what I want. If you don't like it, kick rocks."
2.He conducts himself in manner that he's his own independent man.
3. He was probably a cat who had the details on what ever was going down that weekend back in high school. Most likely cut up in class a bunch.
Latto
1. Very procured image. She's trying to look as sexy as possible.
2. "Chickenhead" as TheColi would put it
3. She's probably looking for baller to take care of her and make sure her lifestyle is one of fine dining and jet setting. "Gen-Z" thot type
Michelle Obama
1. Very formal, regal look to her. Older, experienced, and wise. Very matriarchal
2. Highly esteemed, intelligent
3. She's came from an old money black family. Obreezy probably had to leap through hoops to get her father's blessing