Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BigBlackSea]

The salesman in me appreciates your dedication to following up and reviving dead leads


but ain't no way I'm this shamless only ones I'd hit up are the ones that I matched with and never said shyt to.


I do go through old matches like "damn why the fukk did I let this convo die this bytch bad af" but I'm not reviving it

"Girls are like buses. Miss one next 15 one coming"

- Lord Gucci Mane

It's not my standard practice, but I was like "fukk it" and divorced my ego from the outcome. Got some messages back and managed to get some shyt set up. It's some real hail-mary shyt, because I'm a firm believer in the Brad Pitt/ Michael B Jordan principle. Would she "forget" to text back MBJ? 99% of the time that rings true, but sometimes there's that 1% of time she just got busy.

 

[Digital Omen]

Dam, I was at the same game fam.. Heat games have usually been clutch for me thru out the years as date #2+ type spot, especially after the lebron effect (Im more football guy but chicks can follow bball easier, shorter entertainment, closer to other options/action compared to miami gardens, A/C environment, etc.)

Just from what I can read as soon as I saw any hesitation early I would of dead the horror nights talk, if she not pushing for it then kinda read the tea leaves. I have done trips with girls I havent had relations with first but looking back it was only successful if it was their suggestion and they were pushing it. Other than that seems like typical feeling out situation..

With the Halloween photo situation is that the first time you guys got in close proximity? I would say especially sitting at game you guys should of been close and touch was happening early and often, have you guys hung out before, was that more intimate, do you try to get close typically?

Naw we had hung out a couple times before, bar hopping both times with a mutual friend
The second time, the 3 of us took a flick. I was on one side, PAWG in the middle, and homegirl next to her
I put my arm around her just on some flick shyt, didn't pull her close, none of that. Wasn't even thinking that. Took the flick and KIM.
That same night, we all got our drink on and while buzzin she kept brushing up on me to talk and shyt
And was all geeked about horror nights, that's where I said yeah I'm down to go and left it at that
I texted her the next day cuz I saw the Heat were gonna play the Raps on some yo you down to go?
worked the logistics out and went to the game on Monday

So now thinking about it, the bar photo was some party haha shyt, since that was my first time putting my arm around her. What's bugged was that the last thing on my mind was some "game" shyt. But then at halftime, it was a a public setting, some stranger taking the flick...yada yada grand opening grand closing

 

[BigBlackSea]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

 

[The ADD]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

I assume it’s not serious so

 

[Ahadi]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

Nope. It’s actually suppose to happen. When your in your 20s, majority of the time, women your age ain’t checking for you. Unless your a D1 Athlete, rich kid, or got social clout (photographer, DJ, promoter, drug dealer, etc)

The guys in their 30s+ should be talking to the new 20 year olds. Plus you beat the 20 year olds every time (crib, car, other essentials)

Online I’m 18-24, I’m eating, but when I’m out I’m approached by a lot of 25-27

 

[skyrunner1]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

That read like a dodged bullet, lol.. someone in their 20s year old talking to someone else in their 20s is normal, no one in history of man would blink, only someone who dikk polices black men on twitter would even have a convo like that, wow

 

[Ahadi]

That read like a dodged bullet, lol.. someone in their 20s year old talking to someone else in their 20s is normal, no one in history of man would blink, only someone who dikk polices black men on twitter would even have a convo like that, wow

He lost explaining himself to a random bytch

 

[BigBlackSea]

That read like a dodged bullet, lol.. someone in their 20s year old talking to someone else in their 20s is normal, no one in history of man would blink, only someone who dikk polices black men on twitter would even have a convo like that, wow

It does strike me as the typical twitter babble. It's always the same pseudo-psychological take from some 350 lb, fupa having, they/them crusty bytch who writes sees some dude with a 5'2 100lb girl and writes some shyt like "men are not ready for the conversation that liking petite women is pedophiliac in nature". But these same bytches wouldn't give their counterpart a 2nd glance. Even Hassan Piker had something to say about them.

He lost explaining himself to a random bytch

Yeah, I don't know why he was wasting time with this chickenhead. Would have unmatched with the quickness.

 

[Action Mike]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

What's even worse are these women are literally getting their personalities installed from twitter by older bytches, I've experienced that before and just plainfaced her until we got down

Age gap of 5 to 7 years is fine for long term, anything else is fair game

Wouldnt have even matched her to explain myself

 

[Apollo Creed]

I knew an engaged couple that broke up because homegirl wanted a wedding for the gram
She was running dude's pockets for a destination wedding, VIP accommodations, all that reality show bullshyt they watch all day
Dude did the right thing and bushed her, respectfully

they all want weddings for the gram lol.

Tell a chick lets go to the court house OR why even involve the government, lets just do a thank you dinner with our friends and family in thanking them for their support of us and see how she reacts lmfao

 

[bigde09]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

I’m 30 and dealing with a 23 year old. But 23 is the youngest I would go for. Once they are out of college and had a few real world experiences, then the age gap isn’t that big of a deal.

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels and action figures.

A 24 yr old man and 24 yr old woman aren't agemates, if you know what I mean, leave alone a 28 yr old. A 24 yr old woman has more relationship experience than a 24 yr old man because of how relationship dynamics work. Especially in the modern age.

 

[International Playa]

It's worth paying for Hinge membership brehs, you get access to a whole lot of beautiful women brehs. I tried using the free for a few months, it seems they hid the beautiful women on the free membership.

 

[International Playa]

Coli brehs, what's your opinions on the age gap? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. I'm 28 messing with a chick who's 22 currently. Hell, most of these girls are ahead of the curve when it comes to sexual dynamics as opposed to boys their age. They get that course on using their assets to get things while their male counterparts are still playing with hot wheels aß and action figures.

Don't let anyone dikk police you, as long as they are of legal age.

When I was 29, I dated a 20 year old for 6 months, she was a headache & immature but it was the best sexual experience of my life.


I'm 35 now, I'm talking to 4 women aged 34, 30, 28, 25 year old women. Date various types of women & see what works for you.

 

[Ahadi]

Mixed Signals means = No
If you are ever confused about the situation = it’s a No
If she likes you, you will always KNOW