So if you got some paper in your pocket, two things usually come up.
1. Dudes lean on it, lead with it.
2. Dudes hide it, but she sees what you got and she changes up.
In both cases, the chick either
1) Sees you as a comeup and is trying to juice you - (1%) of the time
2) Your boyfriend/long term material, and she will turn off her normal sexual behavior, pretend to be a good girl, and then make you prove yourself (getting you to invest emotionally and financially), before she gives "it" up.
"It" might be the P. But "it" is that loving, caring, "loyal", behavior. The "soft" side she doesn't show anyone else - it makes you feel special (and literally this is how a lot of "good" girls end up trying to reform obvious bad dudes - he has a soft side that you don't see..)
How to play it?
Be demanding from the start. Within the first 15 minutes, you need to be giving direction. (and a lot of hoes will walk, just on GP - you have to be bigger than your lust and let that chick walk)
Keep in mind, dollars or not - She has to respect you, lust you, and not take you for granted - in any relationship.
When you got something she wants - in my experience - it's even harder, when you think it should be easier.
Speaking of myself, I hope some of y'all can relate - telling chicks what to do, getting them to do things for me - it didn't come easy. I'm used to helping her, solving her problems, hearing about her day. And chicks will just take/take/take. And you will give/give/give. Most women put themselves first, even when they have a man.
The situation needs to switch.
Cause she'll spend 10 years in school, and 8 hours a day at the job, - serving some other man. The pay is never good enough, and she's never really that secure. But she will keep doing her best, if she thinks she can get more. If you show her a path, and if she sees a path.
Thus she'll invest.
This is easy to write out, but when that chick grind up on you, rubbing your back, kissing your neck etc - it's not easy to actually do.
But you have to, in my experience.
Kids need rules.
Women need roles.
. Talking about if I had it my way I would date a modest woman lol. She has this dream lifestyle that she wants to live. Modern contemporary homes. Nice cars etc. The thing is I don't give a shyt about any of that. I don't mind driving an old car, I dont care for $700,000 houses. This shyt got me thinking a lot. I did not get that vibe from her when I was getting to know her. 
