Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That maybe true. But surely she can fly back on her Canadian passport? And renew in Algeria.
Exactly what I thought. She could fly back with her Canadian passport.. I played along, acted concerned and told her not to stress too much. If she die lie though, i’m shook because why would she make up such a story out of nowhere. We don’t have even any plans or anything.
 

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Lmao reading this I got to laugh at it myself. Sucks you can't be real with women, it's a fact if a woman is 46 with two kids she won't have the same dating options as when she was childless and 26. It's also not a bad thing for her to get with a "regular guy" and shouldn't be seen as settling.

shyt just seems logical to me.
 
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Ugly gang checkin in

Having zero luck with the chicks I want but these fat single moms be wanting my attention.

I was at a red light 🚦 and a single mom was at the corner like...

"hey you got a cute smile, hello...do you hear me complimenting you, sir. You're hand....sommmme"
:flabbynsick:


I kept my eyes forward and drove off
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I'm on a serious companion drought but can get 1 nighters from time to time
 

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There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.
 

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There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.
Always assume there’s another man in the picture…
 

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There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.
damn
 

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There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.
Sorry bruh u just wasn’t the one, you felt one way and she felt another . But man there’s a lot of other pretty women out there :whew: trust
 

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There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.

Sometimes when you do too much for certain women they low key resent you for it.

It makes no sense at all and is sickening when you think too deeply on it.

Once the guy she's currently messing with inevitably airs her she’ll be back weeping for your attention.

I bet she wanted you to see that IG story. For your peace of mind I would ignore them from here on out. Don't unmatch her though, just don't pay it no attention.

As the more you check in on her the more she knows she can come back at some point. I’d consider this pretty much over though.
 
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There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.
Charge it to the game breh. Most women are ruled by their feelings, if some new guy touches her emotions/ feelings, she will be gone.

In this dating game, enjoy your time with women. If it ends, just accept the good times you shared with her & wish her well.
 
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