Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

Yeah, leave the community topics alone breh.



It’s all good though, keep it pushing.

Yeah, ima stop.

 

[Balla]

Yeah, ima stop.

Breh, you gotta think, why would she wanna hear anything about fixing the community? She probably only thinking of doing fun shyt.

Now, maybe if you were saying how much you liked how Black Panther was being replaced by a woman and how you used to be like NBA youngboy in the past, but you changed your life around. Then she might wanna hear that.

Don’t say that, I’m half joking of course.

 

[Guvnor]

Told a bust down chick I agreed with some of the views of Kevin Samuels and she left the restaurant right away without giving me the opportunity to explain.

Note to self: don't discuss relationships or accountability with bust downs. Only let them talk their non-sense but keep logic out of the conversation.

 

[Pseudo]

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[Guvnor]

Do any of y'all ever have that "I'm tired of fukkin this bytch" moment? And then cut her off?

Like a fwb. Nothing else. Very routine business like sex.

Been messing with this chick for a couple years and I'm just over it.

Sheesh years? I could only do that for max a couple months before I get tired. I need to enjoy being around the chick I'm fukking even if it's just a friends with benefits situation. The only issue with that is most of them catch feelings but I get bored too fast for business like sex lol.

I'd say cut it off but let it down easily since it is only sex.

 

[Ahadi]

Sheesh years? I could only do that for max a couple months before I get tired. I need to enjoy being around the chick I'm fukking even if it's just a friends with benefits situation. The only issue with that is most of them catch feelings but I get bored too fast for business like sex lol.

I'd say cut it off but let it down easily since it is only sex.

This one i was recently dealing with, literally caught feelings and I could see the water in her eyes. Thought she had one locked down for cuffing season

 

[Guvnor]

How in the world do you come to the conclusion that she brings nothing to the table by her saying she doesn’t do much for fun? What would be an acceptable list of activities?

Its not that but he was trying to speak with her and her responses were very dry. That imo is low intrest and he should have just left her on read or unmatched her.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

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peeped before you edited

It’ll be alright breh. You doing what’s best for you and her as well. If she is truly your “best friend”, still be there for her if the connection is that strong.

 

[africngiant]

From this day forward im not holding no bitterness when it comes to females that did mr wrong. It is what is. Im learn from it and move on

good luck bro. they’re annoying as shyt. think everyone and everybody is weird as if they’re sooo cool and we get with them for their personality

whole time be basic as hell.

 

[Guvnor]

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If she was your best friend what made you decide to end it if you don't mind me asking.

I know that has to be rough but you just have to take things a day at a time and know things will be okay.

 

[VertigoKnight]

So if you saw her 3 years from now and she was smiling in your face, acting like shyts still sweet and nothing bad ever happened, would you be down for that?

That's something that I still struggle with so tryna see.

Some chicks I could never mess with again. Even if the sex was good.

Like this past weekend. I was at the farmers market with one of my paags.

Saw a chick I saw back in 2019 for a few weeks walking through with her little ass dog. She saw me and I saw her. She looked like she was going to say something to me but then the chick I was with came and put her arm round me obliviously. And the chick kept it moving. I had my sunglasses on but could see her angling to look as we moved around the stalls.

Nothing I had to say to her anyway, not after how she behaved.

She said she needed time to work on herself and was going to step back from dating etc, We were following each other on IG at the time, that night she went to a party and a week later I saw her posed up with some guy. They were obviously dating or had just started seeing each other well enough that one of her friends posted that picture.

Then she tried to propose we stay friends etc, go to art galleries, the cinema etc how she’s learnt so much from me about good food yada yada, didn’t even reply to her.

Funny enough I saw her three weeks ago back on Tinder talking about she now wants a man who is emotionally available.

 

[africngiant]

im really starting to realize how mean spirited a lot of women are. they always got some a$$hole thing to say about people while they barely gotta work for shyt socially. and people stay letting their complex slide



think they’re above everybody

 

[Deathstroke]

Tryna figure out why someone would lie for no reasons. Some girl I’m involved with flew back home to Algeria for the holidays. Mind you she’s also Canadian. We have a good “relationship” and keep it real with each other. I just asked her if she got back safe.. She tells me nah they wouldn’t let her fly back because her Algerian passport expired. Brruuuh the maths isn’t mathing. Y’all think I’m reading too much into it?

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Told a bust down chick I agreed with some of the views of Kevin Samuels and she left the restaurant right away without giving me the opportunity to explain.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Tryna figure out why someone would lie for no reasons. Some girl I’m involved with flew back home to Algeria for the holidays. Mind you she’s also Canadian. We have a good “relationship” and keep it real with each other. I just asked her if she got back safe.. She tells me nah they wouldn’t let her fly back because her Algerian passport expired. Brruuuh the maths isn’t mathing. Y’all think I’m reading too much into it?

That maybe true. But surely she can fly back on her Canadian passport? And renew in Algeria.