Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

From this day forward im not holding no bitterness when it comes to females that did mr wrong. It is what is. Im learn from it and move on

what was the catalyst that made you decide today was the day?

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

what was the catalyst that made you decide today was the day?

I been self reflecting. Its pointless to sit around mad and bitter, while she then moved on with her life and probably not even thinking about you

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I been self reflecting. Its pointless to sit around mad and bitter, while she then moved on with her life and probably not even thinking about you

I feel that breh and glad you’ve came to that conclusion.

Always go back to the drawing board and evaluate those situations. If you feel cringe, hurt, or guilt that’s good — means you know what you did wasn’t the move.

eventually, your drawing board will be empty and you start at every interaction. I came correct & maybe so did she.. but it just didn’t work out.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

since we doing introspection and this Phonte lacing through my eardrums:

Comparison is the thief is of joy & I’m my worst enemy.

Also realized I’ve been moving like a lil ass boy.. I’m young but I’m ready to start movin’ like a grown man that comes with standing ten toes and weathering the storm ahead of you.

 

[Wargames]

since we doing introspection and this Phonte lacing through my eardrums:

Comparison is the thief is of joy & I’m my worst enemy.

Also realized I’ve been moving like a lil ass boy.. I’m young but I’m ready to start movin’ like a grown man that comes with standing ten toes and weathering the storm ahead of you.

What song is that from?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

What song is that from?

those not lyrics lmao that’s just my thoughts:

few tracks I’ve bumpin’ these past few hrs:

 

[Balla]

When pro-blackness turns women off

You did this breh? What you say?

I told you about bw already my guy.

 

[Nokids]

Do any of y'all ever have that "I'm tired of fukkin this bytch" moment? And then cut her off?

Like a fwb. Nothing else. Very routine business like sex.

Been messing with this chick for a couple years and I'm just over it.

Yea this one bytch I been fukking with for like a year now. I recently just got tired of it all. We only went on one date and it was at the park to meet up lol. The thing is I want to cut her off and this bytch just won’t shake, talking about I’m not getting away from her that easy and that imma lose everything I have if I stop. I’m like wait is this girl gonna put a hex on me

I realized cuts best I just be diplomatic I told her let’s be friends I’m celibate for the time being. Yet she keeps writing me late night. I chalked it up to this hoe being crazy and having undiagnosed mental issues.

Just not tryna face a barrel of a gun tryna dodge her so yea let her down easy you never know how these girls react when you don’t want to be fwb anymore

 

[The ADD]

I been self reflecting. Its pointless to sit around mad and bitter, while she then moved on with her life and probably not even thinking about you

What did she do that wronged you?

 

[rabbid]

From this day forward im not holding no bitterness when it comes to females that did mr wrong. It is what is. Im learn from it and move on

So if you saw her 3 years from now and she was smiling in your face, acting like shyts still sweet and nothing bad ever happened, would you be down for that?

That's something that I still struggle with so tryna see.

 

[Ahadi]

You did this breh? What you say?

I told you about bw already my guy.

So we spoke about meeting up next week. She was busy this week due to moving into a new apartment.

So we just started texting from hinge to phone. then we hopped on a phone call. We spoke about everything, life, solutions for the community to how she was excited to see woman king & Black Panther 2 (Not sure how I feel, but I’ll see it) But I told her the tribe of women were slave traders & BP2 turned me off because it reminded me of a police brutality situation and I was tired of seeing our women cry, the men looking defenseless and media showing them they don’t need a man lol. It seemed all good, then I hit her the next day and no response.

This was another law student. A bit on the younger side, 22 maybe? So with law students, I’m sure enjoys she’s hugging up on Rachel & Conrad. But I think another turn off was saying that NBA youngboy does nothing for the community & helps stimulate the white economy. which led her to ask me if I like rap? (Dating younger women you have to put up with their love for these garbage ass Gen-Z rappers)



I’ll prolly never do “next week” meet ups again. Even though i had a 3-4 dates for each day of he week, I would try to squeeze them in for the same week. But the interest was probably low on her side anyways to even offer a next week date.



Universe works in mysterious ways because the next night I went out, met with this dope BW (30) MCU fan, slender, favors Aissa Maiga & another mixed BW (31) who favors Brittany Renner, loves gardening & meditation.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

So if you saw her 3 years from now and she was smiling in your face, acting like shyts still sweet and nothing bad ever happened, would you be down for that?

That's something that I still struggle with so tryna see.

For me personally it speaks volumes about a persons personal development to be able to forgive and move forward. If I saw my ex 3 years from now I would like to think I’d be mature enough to be cordial Really depends on how she approaches me to reconnect. If she comes back apologizing for how she exited the relationship then I’d be more apt to be chill and play along.

She come back acting like nothing happens then being honest I’d be like

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

So if you saw her 3 years from now and she was smiling in your face, acting like shyts still sweet and nothing bad ever happened, would you be down for that?

That's something that I still struggle with so tryna see.

I probably would hit depending on how I feel at the moment ,now I might like a women again but I would never treat her the same.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I probably would hit depending on how I feel at the moment ,now I might like a women again but I would never treat her the same.

Man that’s exactly it. I’d entertain it but I couldn’t look at her the same if she left me. If we mutually parted ways that’s different. But to take a woman back after she left me to begin a new relationship, nah.

 

[Balla]

So we spoke about meeting up next week. She was busy this week due to moving into a new apartment.

So we just started texting from hinge to phone. then we hopped on a phone call. We spoke about everything, life, solutions for the community to how she was excited to see woman king & Black Panther 2 (Not sure how I feel, but I’ll see it) But I told her the tribe of women were slave traders & BP2 turned me off because it reminded me of a police brutality situation and I was tired of seeing our women cry, the men looking defenseless and media showing them they don’t need a man lol. It seemed all good, then I hit her the next day and no response.

This was another law student. A bit on the younger side, 22 maybe? So with law students, I’m sure enjoys she’s hugging up on Rachel & Conrad. But I think another turn off was saying that NBA youngboy does nothing for the community & helps stimulate the white economy. which led her to ask me if I like rap? (Dating younger women you have to put up with their love for these garbage ass Gen-Z rappers)



I’ll prolly never do “next week” meet ups again. Even though i had a 3-4 dates for each day of he week, I would try to squeeze them in for the same week. But the interest was probably low on her side anyways to even offer a next week date.



Universe works in mysterious ways because the next night I went out, met with this dope BW (30) MCU fan, slender, favors Aissa Maiga & another mixed BW (31) who favors Brittany Renner, loves gardening & meditation.

Yeah, leave the community topics alone breh.



It’s all good though, keep it pushing.