Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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fit, feminine, attractive, good head on her shoulders, well raised, can cook, is family oriented, great career. I know she wont fk me over although you never know:francis:. At this point, why not try it out despite how much I enjoy not being committed to anything. She also gives me peace of mind and think she will make a great mother if I were to have kids.

If I don't settle down with her, I likely will not anytime soon. I predict that I will reach my 40s, find a woman in their mid 30's or late 30s/early 40s childless and rushing to have kids or just not have them at all. I just have no desire to move cities.
Why not try moving in with someone who I won’t entertain moving cites for while I also don’t enjoy being committed to one person.

#ForWhy
 

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Moving in with my gf. Moving my couch, bed, etc. to storage. It's going to be nice not spending so much in rent :wow:. Should have about 12K of disposable income.

On the flip side, I really don't want to do it because she wants to move out of Atlanta. I have already made up my mind that I will not be moving with her if she wants to move. That's here I am staying and raising my kids, she has a different viewpoint. We are going to move in together to see if this is truly it. She is like the second woman I ever considered spending the rest of my life with. It would make things less difficult when we cross that road in life if we dont stay together.

lol, I am low key nervous but I wont be young forever and she is a quality woman.

..she wants to move and you don't...

Why you doing this to yourself lol
 

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Not everyone has this fun filled, exciting life with tons of friends and family. You could introduce her to things.

Stop entertaining bum ass bytches, both for your own sake and theirs. You because you deserve more, them because they'll never know they need to bring more to the table than their vaginas if guys will just put up with their bullshyt.
 
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Stop entertaining bum ass bytches, both for your own sake and theirs. You because you deserve more, them because they'll never know they need to bring more to the table than their vaginas if guys will just put up with their bullshyt.
How in the world do you come to the conclusion that she brings nothing to the table by her saying she doesn’t do much for fun? What would be an acceptable list of activities?
 

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How in the world do you come to the conclusion that she brings nothing to the table by her saying she doesn’t do much for fun? What would be an acceptable list of activities?
she wasn’t even putting in the effort to receive any fun activity recommendations,

There’s leading a woman in a conversation, and then there’s her leeching off your time.
 

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Went on a date with this flight attendant (Top 5 Thot Job)

“There are no attractive men in this city”

“If I wanted to be in a relationship, I would be”

Joint is 28 (adjustable 6)

:mjlol:

This is exactly why I don’t date women my age.
 

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Not everyone has this fun filled, exciting life with tons of friends and family. You could introduce her to things.

Its not just about that.

She has nothing she does for fun? no hobbies or anything? even watching the TV is a hobby.

If she was actually giving him something to work with it would be better, but she cant even do that.

One word answers. And extreme low interest.
 
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All good my G haha

I’ve come across women who maybe felt they don't have the most interesting ways to have fun, but anything that sparks conversation is a good thing.

The chick in that picture offered nothing for that guy to go off.

its juts a waste of time for everyone concerned.
 

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Moving in with my gf. Moving my couch, bed, etc. to storage. It's going to be nice not spending so much in rent :wow:. Should have about 12K of disposable income.

On the flip side, I really don't want to do it because she wants to move out of Atlanta. I have already made up my mind that I will not be moving with her if she wants to move. That's here I am staying and raising my kids, she has a different viewpoint. We are going to move in together to see if this is truly it. She is like the second woman I ever considered spending the rest of my life with. It would make things less difficult when we cross that road in life if we dont stay together.

lol, I am low key nervous but I wont be young forever and she is a quality woman.
You need to lay down grown rules ASAP. And she WILL get on your nerves. Make sure you have “me” time
 
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