Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So its been more than a year since I met this one, 'asian tennis chick' One of the most solid and honest women I’ve met.

I care for her deeply. But we’ve been very honest with one another. And I think that’s why things work between us.

I was on tinder the other day and in the time I was on there I saw women that I’d previously dated or smashed back on there, and its interesting seeing the current version of their profile.

I'm now see a lot of requests for “emotionally available men” Or "I want to start a family soon” or "lets be friends first"

My dating life is currently the easiest its ever been with her, and the other women I see. Just tons of openness and honesty.

Start how I mean things to go on, no lies, no bullshyt, I let you know where I am and you let me know if you’re down or not.

It's good that you're honest and upfront breh. What I disagree with is these nikkas who mislead and use all types of tricks to get some ass. shyt is unmanly and downright pathetic. You're not supposed to lose yourself and your sense of integrity as a man. Especially not for a quick nut.
 

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Be weary of women who will choose you, but not of love of/for you, but the love of the idea/concept of being with you. These women will tell you they love you when you say it first, or when you do something for them. But they won't do it for no reason, on it's own, as a reminder, etc. "I Just Called To Say I Love You" is more than a Stevie Wonder song brehs. When these women get angry/unhappy with you, instead of being short with you/icing you they'll say things that are supposed to elicit and a reaction of you, particularly an emotional one. Often if you pay close enough attention these women are telling you EXACTLY what they think of you with these comments they make "in anger". Other telltale signs is a lack of appreciation for your efforts within the relationship, and the consistent issuance of hypotheticals on what they could do/become and have you "still love them" or be okay with it, despite you already spelling out your dealbreakers. Penultimately your time won't be valued, and overall her feelings will consistently overrule/invalidate your feelings AND you logic from her perspective. The aforementioned sentence is just a variant of gaslighting.

Be weary indeed, some can hide it better than others but if you give enough rope......

Stay safe fellas
 
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International and domestic are free with Hinge, but you are limited to 8-9 likes for both religions , unlike tinder passport (paid) you get unlimited.

Hinge just has better quality & you can adjust filters to find the type of woman you are looking for. (Paid version, you get more filters)
Two more questions and then I’ll have all I need

I hear Tinder women are pretty picky and you basically need to model-tier photoshoots is it the same for hinge women?

I’m going to see how I do in other countries first. Is hinge popular abroad? I know some counties have a lot of women that use tinder for prostitution so i figured the same may have been true for hinge, either that or there’s not as many people, or only old people use it
 

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I was on tinder the other day and in the time I was on there I saw women that I’d previously dated or smashed back on there, and its interesting seeing the current version of their profile.

ten years from now you can hop on and they'd still be there :heh:
 

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Two more questions and then I’ll have all I need

I hear Tinder women are pretty picky and you basically need to model-tier photoshoots is it the same for hinge women?

I’m going to see how I do in other countries first. Is hinge popular abroad? I know some counties have a lot of women that use tinder for prostitution so i figured the same may have been true for hinge, either that or there’s not as many people, or only old people use it

Oh no, ask away, we’re all here to learn.

It’s the same, having the best photos of your self matter. For example, having a photo of you, traveling, or doing something you’re good at.
Others may say, include a photo which shows you have “social proof”, but I’d say hire a photographer, shoot in different environments and test which photos work the best by posting on your Facebook or Instagram. The photos I receive the most likes from women, USE those photos.

I’m using it now and I positioned myself in Ethiopia in there with some traction out there. I would say just experiment and see what’s out there, we are all going to have a different experience using these apps. Which makes this thread valuable and hilarious at the same time. I will need to use it, I’ll say.

As for prostitution, you’ll never really know if they do or not. You just have to pick up on subtle clues and make sure you’re doing your background checks. Looking up women on LinkedIn, using their college information, location and other clues to find more info on them.
 

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Oh no, ask away, we’re all here to learn.

It’s the same, having the best photos of your self matter. For example, having a photo of you, traveling, or doing something you’re good at.
Others may say, include a photo which shows you have “social proof”, but I’d say hire a photographer, shoot in different environments and test which photos work the best by posting on your Facebook or Instagram. The photos I receive the most likes from women, USE those photos.

I’m using it now and I positioned myself in Ethiopia in there with some traction out there. I would say just experiment and see what’s out there, we are all going to have a different experience using these apps. Which makes this thread valuable and hilarious at the same time. I will need to use it, I’ll say.

As for prostitution, you’ll never really know if they do or not. You just have to pick up on subtle clues and make sure you’re doing your background checks. Looking up women on LinkedIn, using their college information, location and other clues to find more info on them.

Man when I used tinder in Africa

I was meeting like three chicks a day when I was nigeria
 

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Man when I used tinder in Africa

I was meeting like three chicks a day when I was nigeria

That’s what a lot of these travels brehs / YouTubers do. Like this one I follow, he will match women in these different places, and they’ll be disguised as “tour guides” / smash material.
 
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Oh no, ask away, we’re all here to learn.

It’s the same, having the best photos of your self matter. For example, having a photo of you, traveling, or doing something you’re good at.
Others may say, include a photo which shows you have “social proof”, but I’d say hire a photographer, shoot in different environments and test which photos work the best by posting on your Facebook or Instagram. The photos I receive the most likes from women, USE those photos.
I have a bunch of vacation pics and pics of the food I make (I do a lot of cooking) but I’m in none of them. The only selfies of me are in front of my mirror.


Maybe I can photoshop those pics of me on to my pictures of the beaches:yeshrug:
 
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As for prostitution, you’ll never really know if they do or not. You just have to pick up on subtle clues and make sure you’re doing your background checks. Looking up women on LinkedIn, using their college information, location and other clues to find more info on them.

This is a good one. All I need is a first name and her general job role and I’ll see what she's about.

When I was more active I also had a whole other IG profile to check in on chicks to see how they behaved on social media.

:russ:

I think in that time only three chicks gave me cause for concern which meant I bushed them.
 
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Be weary of women who will choose you, but not of love of/for you, but the love of the idea/concept of being with you. These women will tell you they love you when you say it first, or when you do something for them. But they won't do it for no reason, on it's own, as a reminder, etc. "I Just Called To Say I Love You" is more than a Stevie Wonder song brehs. When these women get angry/unhappy with you, instead of being short with you/icing you they'll say things that are supposed to elicit and a reaction of you, particularly an emotional one. Often if you pay close enough attention these women are telling you EXACTLY what they think of you with these comments they make "in anger". Other telltale signs is a lack of appreciation for your efforts within the relationship, and the consistent issuance of hypotheticals on what they could do/become and have you "still love them" or be okay with it, despite you already spelling out your dealbreakers. Penultimately your time won't be valued, and overall her feelings will consistently overrule/invalidate your feelings AND you logic from her perspective. The aforementioned sentence is just a variant of gaslighting.

Be weary indeed, some can hide it better than others but if you give enough rope......

Stay safe fellas
Where we're you a yr ago when i met my bytch ex who ran off :francis:
The ungrateful lil bytch would constantly start fights with me over minor things and then pretend to be victim :pacspit:
I even cut off this Asian bytch I was talking to on the side for her :pacspit:
 
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