Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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Hinge might just be my go to, then.

Is it as tough as I heard tinder is? Like actually getting matches?

I found it very easy. I got a lot of likes and roses but I was very,very choosy. Plus I live in a city with an abundance of single women.

I prefered to pick from my likes and also comment on chicks profiles that catch my eye. That's where you can find the real diamonds that don't get a lot of attention.
 

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She's invited me to her place 3 times . All were too short notice for me so I was unable to see her .

We agreed to go on a date a couple weeks ago but apparently in one of our calls I 'disrespected' her so she postponed . Bare in mind she told me to come to her yard 2 days after the alleged disrespectful incident happend .

Tbh she sounds like shes playing with you a bit. Short notice to come to her yard? That's a pisstake tbh

Thinking she can demand and you drop everything and come.

If she's really about it ask her when she is next free and you set a date to go see her. No short notice BS you want a day and time and see what she does.

Two things will probably happen. Suddenly she'll be 'busy' or on the day of she'll find some excuse to postpone to another day.
 

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Tbh she sounds like shes playing with you a bit. Short notice to come to her yard? That's a pisstake tbh

Thinking she can demand and you drop everything and come.

If she's really about it ask her when she is next free and you set a date to go see her. No short notice BS you want a day and time and see what she does.

Two things will probably happen. Suddenly she'll be 'busy' or on the day of she'll find some excuse to postpone to another day.

Yh for real . I'm gonna hit her up today and her response will determine whether or not I delete her number after I hang up .
 

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Yh for real . I'm gonna hit her up today and her response will determine whether or not I delete her number after I hang up .
So she’s invited you to her place 3 times and you declined every time but you are mad she doesn’t text you first

Come on guise
 

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You begging to get cheated on lmfao

Most women cheat with coworkers :gucci:


Y'all need to let go of this myth that women who stay at home are more prone to cheat than career women.

Even logically it makes no sense. Yeah, a job will keep a woman busy but then so would hobbies and pet projects. Also, if your woman works, she'll be spending the bulk of her time around other men. 8+ hours every day. More opportunities for "connections" and "sparks", plus measuring you up against her bosses and coworkers.

Plus most women work nowadays so the sample size for stay at home moms ain't that big to begin with. I'm not sure where you guys are finding all of these trifling ass stay at home mothers. :comeon:
 
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So she’s invited you to her place 3 times and you declined every time but you are mad she doesn’t text you first

Come on guise

Short notice. She expects him to drop everything he's doing to go see her. It's bullshyt.
 

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Short notice. She expects him to drop everything he's doing to go see her. It's bullshyt.
There is short notice on getting ass? If it ain’t that important then it don’t seem worth the post about it :manny:

Didn’t reschedule going to her crib but setup a date? I don’t get it.
 

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International and domestic are free with Hinge, but you are limited to 8-9 likes for both religions , unlike tinder passport (paid) you get unlimited.

Hinge just has better quality & you can adjust filters to find the type of woman you are looking for. (Paid version, you get more filters)

Preferred you can like as many

Just a reminder hinge is not in every country like tinder though

Like the only African country hinge is in is South Africa
 

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Every now and then the inner simp in me comes out:beli:


A nikka out here writing long texts and shyt :scust:
 

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So she’s invited you to her place 3 times and you declined every time but you are mad she doesn’t text you first

Come on guise
Not mad at all , there's other chicks who are not playing these games :yeshrug: .

She don't live in my city so the times that she invited me I couldn't just jump up and go see her like that.
 

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Not mad at all , there's other chicks who are not playing these games :yeshrug: .

She don't live in my city so the times that she invited me I couldn't just jump up and go see her like that.

iirc she lives a away aways outside of London.

For me personally that would be a no way. When I lived in London that was dense enough to move around. Having to go outside of it would be a no for me.

Now I live in a Vancouver I’m used to women being no more than 20mins away from where I live.
 

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First one reminds me of my date last weekend.

Really sexy asian chick that I matched with on Hinge. We met up and walked to a nearby park and talked about lots of different stuff that we're both into. She even came back to mine to eat but I couldn't read her. She left mine and we didn't even hug. I was thinking

:patrice:

I was busy for the rest of the weekend. Then on Monday evening she messaged me saying did she upset me or something as I hadn't sent her some recommendations of stuff I was telling her about.

Anyway she rang me and we chatted more and she was upfront and told me she finds me fascinating and attractive and wants to see me again.

So we're meeting tomorrow. Tbh I really like this chick so far and don't feel the need to rush her into bed.

We've both agreed that we don't want to text too much and would rather meet and talk face to face and we've had a few convos about kink and she's on the same wavelength as me in terms of her sexual desires and wants.

We'll see how things go. Optimistically hopeful.

And I cant say that about many women these days.

So its been more than a year since I met this one, 'asian tennis chick' One of the most solid and honest women I’ve met.

I care for her deeply. But we’ve been very honest with one another. And I think that’s why things work between us.

I was on tinder the other day and in the time I was on there I saw women that I’d previously dated or smashed back on there, and its interesting seeing the current version of their profile.

I'm now see a lot of requests for “emotionally available men” Or "I want to start a family soon” or "lets be friends first"

My dating life is currently the easiest its ever been with her, and the other women I see. Just tons of openness and honesty.

Start how I mean things to go on, no lies, no bullshyt, I let you know where I am and you let me know if you’re down or not.
 
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Lol that ain't got nothing to do with physical prime. You not thirsty for pucci anymore
I mean it's both. Back then I had the energy and motivation to drive all night, smash, and go to work the next day like nothing.

Now I need a full night's sleep and if she's too far for a quick drive (more than 15 min at night when there's no traffic mind you), I'll catch her later
 
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