Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If you talked to her on the phone and it went well why didn't you ask her on a date?

She's invited me to her place 3 times . All were too short notice for me so I was unable to see her .

We agreed to go on a date a couple weeks ago but apparently in one of our calls I 'disrespected' her so she postponed . Bare in mind she told me to come to her yard 2 days after the alleged disrespectful incident happend .
 

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This chick I'm talking to on hinge never wants to contact me first , unless she fell asleep and texts me in the morning to tell me she fell asleep. I haven't texted heard from her since my last text last Monday .

The thing that confuses me is she replies back super quick and a few times we've spent a couple hours on the phone together .so she has no problem in engaging in convo with me :patrice: dunno what's up with this chick .
Sounds like she follows advice from dating gurus who tell women, don't initiate contact, don't sleep with a man before 90 days.........etc.
 

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She's invited me to her place 3 times . All were too short notice for me so I was unable to see her .

We agreed to go on a date a couple weeks ago but apparently in one of our calls I 'disrespected' her so she postponed . Bare in mind she told me to come to her yard 2 days after the alleged disrespectful incident happend .

:skip: Jesus. She trying to catch a nut and you playing on her phone lmaooo
 

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^ pt.2 related to this

tellin’ dudes to not approach women in [insert any public space] was the dumbest piece of advice I’ve heard in my life. Y’all pops crept up on ya moms at the grocery store, disco club, leaving the gas station, church, funeral, hospital, yelled at her across the street — if he was a soldier he spit game overseas.. miss me with the singles mingles & DM’ing only.

Me & my mentor were talkin’ women and he told me back then you made a move because 9/10 you will probably never see her again. When you see shordi on ya timeline, what is the incentive to pursue when you could just DM her?
Facts. For a time a railed against cold approaching, but cause I was digesting mostly cac PUA shyt that centered being a clown. Papa Pimp has been setting me right :lolbron: .

I think everyone is entitled to a shooting their shot once. We're not mindreaders and fortune tellers, so you don't know who will like what you're selling. You owe it to yourself to approach. Twitter Birds and Reddit white knights will tell you to meet at singles meetups and bars, but you meet people where you meet people. You want to make an omelette, you gotta break some eggs. If you don't open your mouth, you ain't getting fed, plain and simple.
 

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This chick I'm talking to on hinge never wants to contact me first , unless she fell asleep and texts me in the morning to tell me she fell asleep. I haven't texted heard from her since my last text last Monday .

The thing that confuses me is she replies back super quick and a few times we've spent a couple hours on the phone together .so she has no problem in engaging in convo with me :patrice: dunno what's up with this chick .
How many times have y’all met?
 
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I know you need tinder passport to go to other countries, but can you do different states? I am determined to go to Miami next year if the world is still in one piece and I want to dip my toe in the water before diving
 

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Wait, both international and other states for free or just the other states?

Also what’s the difference between the two
Sites?

International and domestic are free with Hinge, but you are limited to 8-9 likes for both religions , unlike tinder passport (paid) you get unlimited.

Hinge just has better quality & you can adjust filters to find the type of woman you are looking for. (Paid version, you get more filters)
 
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International and domestic are free with Hinge, but you are limited to 8-9 likes for both religions , unlike tinder passport (paid) you get unlimited.

Hinge just has better quality & you can adjust filters to find the type of woman you are looking for. (Paid version, you get more filters)
Hinge might just be my go to, then.

Is it as tough as I heard tinder is? Like actually getting matches?
 
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