Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

You seem to have a solid head on your shoulders when it comes to dealing with men besides that whole light skinned men are soft notion you got going on.

What women got to understand is that if you go hard for your man and he's a decent man, he will go hard for you. Women that cook for their men, be submissive to a decent man, ain't tripping about cleaning, know how to bring up any problems without yelling and screaming, etc., never go without men for long and never have problems keeping men. They will also find that their man will similarly go hard and make sure they are taken care of in the ways a man keeps a woman satisfied... as long as they don't have one of those half-baked leech players they are dealing with.

Thank you. I agree with everything you said. I was raised to take care of/respect my man. He takes care of the bills and I take care of him..Simple logic but some women these days always have their hand out yet give nothing in return. I can't do that him..Not after all that he has done for US as a couple.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

You thought it was cheesy to do something special for your man, huh? That type of thinking is a factor in why chivalry and romance is dead and will never come back. Hell, a paid trip to Paris with your lady isn't cheesy...it's money saved for him, sex/fun all day with you with no distractions and a memory that most of his boys will never get.

I thought the whole idea of Paris for valentines day was cheesy..not the act itself

 

[MikelArteta]

Valentine's day must be hell for single women

or the women stuck with their "a$$hole bf" on valentines day no dinner no card nothing haha

 

[Lil' Kartwheel]

I thought the whole idea of Paris for valentines day was cheesy..not the act itself

I still stand by my earlier statement but had to dap you for explaining your views in your response to Kevm3. Much respect to you and your man for actually doing things with and for each other. As an American that's jaded by society, I rarely see good things like that nowadays.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I still stand by my earlier statement but had to dap you for explaining your views in your response to Kevm3. Much respect to you and your man for actually doing things with and for each other. As an American that's jaded by society, I rarely see good things like that nowadays.

Thank you.

It's a sad state of affairs...Women don't want to take care of their man because they are too busy trying to be overly independent AND "the man" of the relationship at the same time.

 

[kevm3]

Thank you.

It's a sad state of affairs...Women don't want to take care of their man because they are too busy trying to be overly independent AND "the man" of the relationship at the same time.

That's the understanding I try to convey to these women. A lot of them have been brainwashed by neo-feminist trash and constantly get into power struggles with their men... and unknowingly, their subconsciously learned behavior contributes towards driving away the real ones or creating the type of man they detest. It's not offensive to treat your friends well, but why do so many women look at it as detestable to accord their man the proper respect?

If a woman gets into a power struggle with a real man, he'll send her on her way because he doesn't play that and he refuses to give up his authority as a man. On the other hand, if she deals with a man that isn't real, her power struggle will ultimately result in her creating a weak man that is submissive to her and allows himself to be disrespected by her. The end result is that she will look at her own creation with utter disgust and peel off to another man. So many of these women continually go through this cycle over and over and over, creating men they detest or driving away men that would be suitable for them in the long-term... and then they wonder they they are 30 year old, fairly affluent, pretty women who end up as cat ladies that can't hold onto a man.

Women in this day and age have to learn to move out of the way and let a man be a man. The Bible says for a woman to submit to her man. A lot of women find that offensive, but there's nothing offensive about it. The key is finding a man worthy of submitting to. Unfortunately, women have a lot of negative connotations with that word. They seem to think of it as being a sort of slave to a man who is their dictator... What submission really means is humbling yourself and trusting in the guidance and authority of another. When we go to work, we 'submit' to our bosses because we trust they know more than us and have the requisite knowledge to produce wealth, which in turn results in us getting paid. People who utilize the services of a fitness trainer submits to the superior knowledge and instruction of that fitness trainer, which in turn produces superior results for that person's body. Submission isn't looked upon as offensive in these instances, but in the course of a relationship, so many women look at it as offensive to submit to their man. That's because they chose the wrong man in the first place. They were too worried about what he was swinging from his hips than the quality of what was coming out of his lips. A woman needs to be concerned with a man's spirit (morals) and mentality (quality of his thinking) MORE than his 'swag' or the size of his johnson. That's the only way for a woman to find a man that's worthy of submitting to, which will guarantee mutual satisfaction over the long term.

I'll have to delve into this topic of leadership and submission soon.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

That's the understanding I try to convey to these women. A lot of them have been brainwashed by neo-feminist trash and constantly get into power struggles with their men... and unknowingly, their subconsciously learned behavior contributes towards driving away the real ones or creating the type of man they detest. It's not offensive to treat your friends well, but why do so many women look at it as detestable to accord their man the proper respect?

If a woman gets into a power struggle with a real man, he'll send her on her way because he doesn't play that and he refuses to give up his authority as a man. On the other hand, if she deals with a man that isn't real, her power struggle will ultimately result in her creating a weak man that is submissive to her and allows himself to be disrespected by her. The end result is that she will look at her own creation with utter disgust and peel off to another man. So many of these women continually go through this cycle over and over and over, creating men they detest or driving away men that would be suitable for them in the long-term... and then they wonder they they are 30 year old, fairly affluent, pretty women who end up as cat ladies that can't hold onto a man.

Women in this day and age have to learn to move out of the way and let a man be a man. The Bible says for a woman to submit to her man. A lot of women find that offensive, but there's nothing offensive about it. The key is finding a man worthy of submitting to. Unfortunately, women have a lot of negative connotations with that word. They seem to think of it as being a sort of slave to a man who is their dictator... What submission really means is humbling yourself and trusting in the guidance and authority of another. When we go to work, we 'submit' to our bosses because we trust they know more than us and have the requisite knowledge to produce wealth, which in turn results in us getting paid. People who utilize the services of a fitness trainer submits to the superior knowledge and instruction of that fitness trainer, which in turn produces superior results for that person's body. Submission isn't looked upon as offensive in these instances, but in the course of a relationship, so many women look at it as offensive to submit to their man. That's because they chose the wrong man in the first place. They were too worried about what he was swinging from his hips than the quality of what was coming out of his lips. A woman needs to be concerned with a man's spirit (morals) and mentality (quality of his thinking) MORE than his 'swag' or the size of his johnson. That's the only way for a woman to find a man that's worthy of submitting to, which will guarantee mutual satisfaction over the long term.

I'll have to delve into this topic of leadership and submission soon.

I'm interested in reading more on your thoughts of leadership/submission. @ me when you do speak on it.

Morals and mentality are "played" in this day and age. We have become so materialistic and wrapped up in the "now" versus looking into long term. "Swag" only lasts so long and eventually the Johnson stops working...What then?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

To be honest with you, I'm glad for those women that skated on me in my past days when I was coming weak with that simp trash. All of it caused me to really sit back and reanalyze myself and make the necessary adjustments to become a much stronger and savvy man.

Always knew you were a lame simp nikka who got played by chicks tryna mask it up as some nikka with game.

Really explains a lot of your scorn and hurt. Simps never stop being simps internally. They just try to be something they aren't, but it eventually comes out anyway.

Just had to document this post for future reference.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Always knew you were a lame simp nikka who got played by chicks tryna mask it up as some nikka with game.

Really explains a lot of your scorn and hurt. Simps never stop being simps internally. They just try to be something they aren't, but it eventually comes out anyway.

Just had to document this post for future reference.

Ummm, why are you bringing this catty womanly B.S. in this thread breh? Name calling, using woulds like "hurt" and "scorned" is some sucker shyt.... You sound like a female with that shyt ...Let the man give out advice and speak on his experiences maybe some people can/will learn from it. We get it you are the coolest and best looking nicca ever and never made mistakes while dealing with women and we are all lame simps. Now get the fukk out of this thread you too cool for school ass nicca

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Ummm, why are you bringing this catty womanly B.S. in this thread breh? Name calling, using woulds like "hurt" and "scorned" is some sucker shyt.... You sound like a female with that shyt ...Let the man give out advice and speak on his experiences maybe some people can/will learn from it. We get it you are the coolest and best looking nicca ever and never made mistakes while dealing with women and we are all lame simps. Now get the fukk out of this thread you too cool for school ass nicca

This is actually probably the most judgmental/catty/feminine thread on the coli. Y'all call dudes simps/manginas/etc. all the time here. Didn't think you'd have a problem with the vernacular

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Where you going??

Houston breh

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

This is actually probably the most judgmental/catty/feminine thread on the coli. Y'all call dudes simps/manginas/etc. all the time here. Didn't think you'd have a problem with the vernacular

Cool, good point...

The point of this thread is for dudes to come and chop it up, give advice, and share experiences and maybe empower dudes to do better.

You coming in here on some "yall are some simps "...Doesn't bring anything to the topics being discussed. How old are you? You come off like a 12 year old....How about you make a thread on how to deal with women/life and drop some jewels instead of attacking Kev who is simply sharing his experiences and giving out advice. I dont take everything in here as gospel but it is thought provoking and cool to talk about.

Im not trying to attack you but can you please take that shyt somewhere else. I know the coli is all about fukkery, but it would be cool to have a place where people can chop it up without all the BS.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

You'll be okay. Trust me. You'll get over me calling Kev a simp after he called himself one in no time. I truly believe you will.

 

[TRUEST]

this has been bothering me since it happened. how would yall have handled this?

i'm a the library/computer lab. i sat next to a chick that looked alright. she's fucckable. while sitting next to her, i got the vibe this chick is on the prowl cause she kept looking up at every male figure that passed.

she looked my way a couple of times (which i saw from the corner of my eye). eventually i decided i cant let this slide without at least saying something to her. so i asked her what she was working on. she told me she was working on something related to her class. she seemed really interested in talking. but when she didn't ask me anything about me or what i was doing, i just let the conversation end.

keep in mind yall, this a library/computer lab. every conversation is heard by eavesdroppers. so i'm not trying to make a fool out of myself. i've had plenty of chicks be nice and then when u ask them for their number, u get hit with different variations of that burning ether. but then again, i've had other chicks give their number.

anyway, after the convo ended. i kept on doing my thing, she kept on doing hers. only this time, she wasn't looking up anymore at any one that passed , and she wasn't sneaking looks at me. she would do her work and would sporadically pick up her phone to start texting. all the while not glancing at me anymore. so i figured its whatever.

about 25 minutes later, i got tired of sitting by the computer so i just printed up some sh1t i was reading, got up and got the papers i printed, and was fixing to leave. as i was leaving i saw she seemed somewhat unsettled. like i got the vibe she was thinking "is this dude really gonna just up and leave without saying goodbye to me?".

i left without saying anything to her, but as i left, i noticed she looked back at me.

basically the experience left me feeling . cause i feel i coulda hit. the last chick who gave that kinda vibe i ended up fuccking for a while until i decided to sever ties with her. if this had been in a spot that wasn't as crowded or where not a lot of people woulda heard the convo, this woulda gone down quite differently lol.

but what would my colian brothers have done in that situation?

 

[CASHAPP]

Hell yea .... I got MY pre-Valentine, my Valentine, and my After-Valentine .... I'm not the jump off but a bish loves a free meal and gift for doing nothing. I've been getting flowers for a week already. I feel so wanted which is nice.

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