Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I think every guy (young or old) should read the article/story above.

The following paragraph is an extract from said piece... something to consider for your own lives - from a reformed hottie with "entitlement" syndrome.


"We visited the funeral home, then collected the possessions left in the car that Scott had abandoned the afternoon of his death – a painful window into who he had become since our split. The dreamer who had promised me a life of travel and excitement in my 20s had never grown up and accepted realities, as evidenced by pictures of a tropical island and a silver sports car taped to the dashboard."


Surprisingly, nobody caught this.


I'm not a very good writer so my rhetoric on this would be deemed malnourishing to the soul, but to somebody who can sum up the above and include their conclusive thoughts on how the aforementioned paragraph is the culprit to the severance of couple in reference and how a suicide could have been prevented.

But i did want to spare my own forethoughts on this topic regarding heartless/selfish wenches and their quest to fulfil their own lives and creating pathway of destruction for any man that chooses to give his heart, soul and life for her:


At first, I was under the impression that she had resentments because of something like infidelity, money/gambling, etc.

But she gave him the boot because he didn’t live up to her expectations – and that’s what I’m afraid of because I hype the shiit out of myself to my current fling and if I don’t live up to them; she’ll leave me breaigh (I made a reference to the matrix pills over the weekend, as an example of how fun I am and “you ain’t seented nothing yet!” approach. She says that I’m already showing her a great time and that she, “Cannot see what else I can do since I do so much already!”).


When I come across scenarios similar to the ones Reincar posted, it definitely gives you a greater perspective on adult relationships and what to expect/anticipate when you’re married. Women always require that feeling of excitement, the entitlement of being constantly gratified to justify their ho-hum work weeks (this is where a lot of adultery is manifested).

As men, we’re so busy trying to hold a family together, bettering ourselves and when that proverbial fuel runs out – what will happen next? Yes, I understand that a woman who’s down for you should be with you when you’re down – but it takes two, and women ought to understand that.

I am far from being in my best form (well, perhaps maturistically and financially), and always striving to improve myself in other facets of live – which is a great thing).

But if i keep selling here these dreams and only to break them later, will she still be around when i have nothing?

That statistics are against me, and also considering that she's a woman of caucasian descent (she's mixed with a bunch of cac stuff, but predominantly italian)... i know, unfortunately, that my guard must be held and held extremely high because as charming, intelligent, ambitious, nurturing, joke-fathoming and beautiful as she is (inside/out)... i will never know how long this "facade" will last before she does some "Love and Hiphop-esque" ratchetness.

It's a constant struggle, fam.


But as men, it is our civil duty to always keep women on their toes to prevent similar circumstances from happening to us.

With the vast survey of knowledge and "GEMS" as presented to you here by Coli All-Stars (which is so appropriate going into Houston this weekend)... i need to ask of you for a favor and just...


DO YOU!!! (that essentially entails keeping you first, holding on to your dreams and desires and if you in a relationship, make sure she loves you more than you love her; bottom fukkin' line, that's how you keep 'em in check).


As much as i am in love with this woman right now, i don't want to lose sight of the bigger picture; losing everything i worked so hard for (the little i do have) only to be "victimized" by the flipflop, unloyal, eye-wandering, conniving/deceitful mentality of the contemporary mademoiselle.


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[Lil' Kartwheel]

Wait until Thurs and the offices are flooded with flowers. Restaurants will be packed this weekeend. Like I tell cats, Valentines Day to women is like their Super Bowl. Everything is catered to them on that day.

True. Unfortunately, women get multiple "Super Bowls" per year (Valentine's, Mother's Day, Christmas, Birthday). For men, outside of "Birthday"...ain't no such thing as a "Super Bowl" day for men. Father's Day doesn't get the same buzz as Mother's Day. You got plenty fathers out here (who are raising their children) that really don't get shyt for Father's Day outside of some suit/socks/cologne combination. If you're a young father, I can pretty much assume that you've got "Axe" at one time or another. Remember, fathers are not as important in the eyes of "modern society".

At the rate that relations between both genders are going, "Father's Day" will become another "Super Bowl" for women (namely single mothers/divorcees/widows). They even got cards out now for single mothers to get more shine on.

 

[MikelArteta]

True. Unfortunately, women get multiple "Super Bowls" per year (Valentine's, Mother's Day, Christmas, Birthday). For men, outside of "Birthday"...ain't no such thing as a "Super Bowl" day for men. Father's Day doesn't get the same buzz as Mother's Day. You got plenty fathers out here (who are raising their children) that really don't get shyt for Father's Day outside of some suit/socks/cologne combination. If you're a young father, I can pretty much assume that you've got "Axe" at one time or another. Remember, fathers are not as important in the eyes of "modern society".

At the rate that relations between both genders are going, "Father's Day" will become another "Super Bowl" for women (namely single mothers/divorcees/widows). They even got cards out now for single mothers to get more shine on.

hell single moms are taking over fathers day

 

[International Playa]

Valentine's day must be hell for single women

 

[Rocket Scientist]

True. Unfortunately, women get multiple "Super Bowls" per year (Valentine's, Mother's Day, Christmas, Birthday). For men, outside of "Birthday"...ain't no such thing as a "Super Bowl" day for men. Father's Day doesn't get the same buzz as Mother's Day. You got plenty fathers out here (who are raising their children) that really don't get shyt for Father's Day outside of some suit/socks/cologne combination. If you're a young father, I can pretty much assume that you've got "Axe" at one time or another. Remember, fathers are not as important in the eyes of "modern society".

At the rate that relations between both genders are going, "Father's Day" will become another "Super Bowl" for women (namely single mothers/divorcees/widows). They even got cards out now for single mothers to get more shine on.

Like Chris Rock says.... Man gets nothing but big piece of chicken . Women and commercialism go hand in hand.So they can have V Day go to your job on Thurs and watch how many single women all of a sudden "take off"

 

[MAKAVELI25]

yo that shyt is unethical

No offense, breh, but do you know what ethical means?

 

[rapdonttweet]

I'm not a very good writer so my rhetoric on this would be deemed malnourishing to the soul, but to somebody who can sum up the above and include their conclusive thoughts on how the aforementioned paragraph is the culprit to the severance of couple in reference and how a suicide could have been prevented.

Are you using google translate?

 

[kevm3]

To be honest with you, I'm glad for those women that skated on me in my past days when I was coming weak with that simp trash. All of it caused me to really sit back and reanalyze myself and make the necessary adjustments to become a much stronger and savvy man. Sitting around 'waiting up' on a woman and 'being there' for her and being available all the time... letting her lead and call the shots... sharing my emotions... all of that is corny man. Doing my own thing, taking control, being strong and keeping all them emotions and feelings to myself and handling it myself... I can look back on myself with much more pride than in those days I pulled those corny simp moves.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

What do you guys think of a girl who is willing to fly her and her man out to Paris? I live overseas already so it's super cheap...I just thought it was kinda cheesy to "surprise" him with a trip to Paris for V-day.

 

[kevm3]

What do you guys think of a girl who is willing to fly her and her man out to Paris? I live overseas already so it's super cheap...I just thought it was kinda cheesy to "surprise" him with a trip to Paris for V-day.

if you got a decent man, then do it. why would any man with sense look down on his woman doing something positive for him?

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

if you got a decent man, then do it. why would any man with sense look down on his woman doing something positive for him?

True. It's just a "token of appreciation" type of thing. He works hard and deserves a break b4 shipping off to Afghanistan...

 

[kevm3]

True. It's just a "token of appreciation" type of thing. He works hard and deserves a break b4 shipping off to Afghanistan...

You seem to have a solid head on your shoulders when it comes to dealing with men besides that whole light skinned men are soft notion you got going on.

What women got to understand is that if you go hard for your man and he's a decent man, he will go hard for you. Women that cook for their men, be submissive to a decent man, ain't tripping about cleaning, know how to bring up any problems without yelling and screaming, etc., never go without men for long and never have problems keeping men. They will also find that their man will similarly go hard and make sure they are taken care of in the ways a man keeps a woman satisfied... as long as they don't have one of those half-baked leech players they are dealing with.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

waiting for my flight at the airport
Goat feeling everytime

 

[YouLoveMe]

waiting for my flight at the airport
Goat feeling everytime

Where you going??

 

[Lil' Kartwheel]

What do you guys think of a girl who is willing to fly her and her man out to Paris? I live overseas already so it's super cheap...I just thought it was kinda cheesy to "surprise" him with a trip to Paris for V-day.

You thought it was cheesy to do something special for your man, huh? That type of thinking is a factor in why chivalry and romance is dead and will never come back. Hell, a paid trip to Paris with your lady isn't cheesy...it's money saved for him, sex/fun all day with you with no distractions and a memory that most of his boys will never get.