Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

as long as you are respectful you can post in here

 

[Wild self]

Yeah, but look at the kind of girl Rihanna is. This broad is the epitome of the kind of chicks we talk about in this thread: Tatooed up, ratchet, no manners, whoring all over the place, bad attitude etc. Why would I want a decent man to have to deal with that, anyway?

This isn't the same 'pon da replay' Rihanna who came out in the early 2000s who had a decent image and I'm sure she was raised better when she was growing up in Barbados than to act the way she does now. Yeah she's older and people change and what have you, but look at the singers from back in the 90s and earlier who were vastly more talented and didn't have to behave ratchet. Most of the R&B chicks from my generation didn't behave that way....at least in public anyway. From what I know, her home island didn't even want her representing them at one point because of it.

Also, wasn't she the one who started beating Chris Brown in the first place? I always said from day one that both of them were just as guilty as each other, but I assumed they were both simply young and would grow up from their experiences and learn from it, but they are worse now than ever before. I never understood all those manginas who were ready to play the role of Superman when they heard about her altercation with Chris Brown. Everything was "a man shouldn't hit a woman" when that shyt goes both ways. Then you got Drake and Chris literally fighting over her while she giggles it up in the background.

The both of them deserve each other to be honest.

Rhi Rhi is the polar opposite I want from a wife, anyway.

 

[Wild self]

These broads be so stupid sometimes. Almost all the girls I used to be interested in back in high school, atleast the ones who stayed home & didn't go off to college.........all single mothers



How are hoes still getting pregnant in 2013 when condoms, spermicide, birth control pills, birth control patches, the day after pill and abortion procedures are readily available?



shyt's fukking retarded. Just from reading their FB timelines, I can tell they looking for the perfect dude. A grown man, not these little boys who cant handle responsibility smh. No nikka with his shyt together.....college educated, a good career, a good home, attractive, works out, etc......is checking for a washed up broad with 2 kids. We not



I swear, I wished they showed this in high schools along with the Sex Ed videos. Girls be having these babies at 18, thinking its cute then cry foul when dudes dont take them serious afterward. What did you expect?

A lot of the time, it is for financial and "religious" reasons why they get pregnant and leech off of others. shyt like that, is why some of these bird bytches need to get court orders to get their tubes tied.

 

[kevm3]

Something cats have to start demanding from and teaching women is the wifey mentality. Some women out there actually want to step it up and learn how to be a man's wife, but there's no one out there teaching them and there's nothing but contrary information out there. For example, cats will teach women all kinds of scandalous things, but how many men will sit down and explain the purpose of loyalty to a woman? How many cats can paint that long-term vision for a mami? How many can show her why her getting down with the more traditional image of a woman will pay her dividends for the long term?

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[DaRealness]

Come on breh, you must know Rihanna most likely has always been like this. I have been guilty of it myself but we need to learn to step away from the "corporate persona".

I can guarantee you she was definitely a pothead and ratchet before she was 18 and growing up in Barbados.

Not surprised about what you said about Barbados. They are still one of the few countries(although like alot now they are changing) who have been generally patriarch governments. So they would be more inclined to be disgusted by a female not being feminine enough.

A little while after I posted that, I did remember a comment on some site from someone who grew up in the same area as Rihanna's family who actually said she was whoring it up out there and that she was a problem before she became famous. I know people spin ducktales all the time on the net, but this person didn't strike me as a liar....so there you have it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

i cut off communication with 2 females i recently met cause of too much text games and floppin every time..all of sudden im getting a text of " hey how you been"

bytch pls

 

[CrossBones]

I was just about to say something about that too, but beware of the woman who lives from excuse to excuse. those flakey women are the most conniving, and using type. theyre only popping up when they can get something from you, and anyone around her. and thats why theyre flaking so much. all take and little consideration is given. so the excuses are their buffer as to why they couldnt come through on their word. and I mean it runs all the way through - from her communications with you, if she constantly excuses the bad behavior of others, her talking about what happened with her exes, and if excuses are littered throughout her life. it shows you why she is where she is now. those excuses are poor character displays and only reveal a noncommitting, shallow, and misguided person who never takes the responsibilites for their own actions.

I knew a broad a long time ago when I was younger who wanted to have my baby. but I saw early on, that nothing ever added up. she was so deep into excuses, that even a normal call every now and then was her playing games. from the battery being low, to her hitting the mute button every now and then "by accident," to how she tried calling back but I never got it (?), to whatever. just excuses. its all really poor character. no reason to entertain that. it would only gets worse for you. if you play along, its almost like youre caught living her lie.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

This girl i am seeing texts me at least 300(no lie) times a day. Always telling me how other guys hurt her

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

My husband killed himself after we split - The Globe and Mail

I think every guy (young or old) should read the article/story above.

The following paragraph is an extract from said piece... something to consider for your own lives - from a reformed hottie with "entitlement" syndrome.


"We visited the funeral home, then collected the possessions left in the car that Scott had abandoned the afternoon of his death – a painful window into who he had become since our split. The dreamer who had promised me a life of travel and excitement in my 20s had never grown up and accepted realities, as evidenced by pictures of a tropical island and a silver sports car taped to the dashboard."


Surprisingly, nobody caught this.


I'm not a very good writer so my rhetoric on this would be deemed malnourishing to the soul, but to somebody who can sum up the above and include their conclusive thoughts on how the aforementioned paragraph is the culprit to the severance of couple in reference and how a suicide could have been prevented.

But i did want to spare my own forethoughts on this topic regarding heartless/selfish wenches and their quest to fulfil their own lives and creating pathway of destruction for any man that chooses to give his heart, soul and life for her:


At first, I was under the impression that she had resentments because of something like infidelity, money/gambling, etc.

But she gave him the boot because he didn’t live up to her expectations – and that’s what I’m afraid of because I hype the shiit out of myself to my current fling and if I don’t live up to them; she’ll leave me breaigh (I made a reference to the matrix pills over the weekend, as an example of how fun I am and “you ain’t seented nothing yet!” approach. She says that I’m already showing her a great time and that she, “Cannot see what else I can do since I do so much already!”).


When I come across scenarios similar to the ones Reincar posted, it definitely gives you a greater perspective on adult relationships and what to expect/anticipate when you’re married. Women always require that feeling of excitement, the entitlement of being constantly gratified to justify their ho-hum work weeks (this is where a lot of adultery is manifested).

As men, we’re so busy trying to hold a family together, bettering ourselves and when that proverbial fuel runs out – what will happen next? Yes, I understand that a woman who’s down for you should be with you when you’re down – but it takes two, and women ought to understand that.

I am far from being in my best form (well, perhaps maturistically and financially), and always striving to improve myself in other facets of live – which is a great thing).

But if i keep selling here these dreams and only to break them later, will she still be around when i have nothing?

That statistics are against me, and also considering that she's a woman of caucasian descent (she's mixed with a bunch of cac stuff, but predominantly italian)... i know, unfortunately, that my guard must be held and held extremely high because as charming, intelligent, ambitious, nurturing, joke-fathoming and beautiful as she is (inside/out)... i will never know how long this "facade" will last before she does some "Love and Hiphop-esque" ratchetness.

It's a constant struggle, fam.


But as men, it is our civil duty to always keep women on their toes to prevent similar circumstances from happening to us.

With the vast survey of knowledge and "GEMS" as presented to you here by Coli All-Stars (which is so appropriate going into Houston this weekend)... i need to ask of you for a favor and just...


DO YOU!!! (that essentially entails keeping you first, holding on to your dreams and desires and if you in a relationship, make sure she loves you more than you love her; bottom fukkin' line, that's how you keep 'em in check).


As much as i am in love with this woman right now, i don't want to lose sight of the bigger picture; losing everything i worked so hard for (the little i do have) only to be "victimized" by the flipflop, unloyal, eye-wandering, conniving/deceitful mentality of the contemporary mademoiselle.


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[Illuminatos]

 

[sixsixtwo]

Aren’t you sure? | Dalrock

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Its amazing how Valentines Day is being hyped.

 

[Lil' Kartwheel]

Its amazing how Valentines Day is being hyped.

Co-sign to that...in years past, it wasn't as hyped as it is now. It's like you can smell the desperation from the companies that make good money from Valentine's Day.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Co-sign to that...in years past, it wasn't as hyped as it is now. It's like you can smell the desperation from the companies that make good money from Valentine's Day.

Wait until Thurs and the offices are flooded with flowers. Restaurants will be packed this weekeend. Like I tell cats, Valentines Day to women is like their Super Bowl. Everything is catered to them on that day.