Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

I've noticed it. More black people have moved to my city in the last 2 yrs but I have to say about a few of the black women I see out and about more than a few act real weird.

Literally look right through you. Like you're not there. I smile and nod. Nothing.

I see one black chick who loves round the corner from me. I see her walking her dog. Said hello to her once last year, no reply. 2 weeks later I see her walking with a white guy and the dog.

I will say the ones that are happy to see you. Smile and say how you doing. Always great to see other black people especially as my city is so white and Asian heavy.

Exactly! Just a casual head nod or just a hello or check in. Why can’t they do the bare minimum? Not asking for much.

Then if something happens, they want protection.



Yeah, I guess I gotta screen who’s “for the community” or not.

 

[Ahadi]

Taking this kind of hard for some random chick……

Yeah i guess I expect too much lol and drank too much tequila

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah i guess I expect too much lol and drank too much tequila

get drunk brehs

 

[Rozay Oro]

Is it just me or do different condoms might cheapen sex? Skyn brand is my favorite. I ran out and only had the yellow trojans. Giving backshots last night it just made my dikk feel too sensitive if that makes sense. I could t go fast in fear of busting.

 

[Noriega]

How do I walk that thin line of being persistent/showing interest without being thirsty?

I’m in Milwaukee, she’s in Chicago, I’m down in chi 1-2x out the month to visit family/attend events so I always hit her up to link. Dope ass girl, when we do link, we talk for hours, we made out in my car when I dropped her off last time.

 

[Frieza666]

How do I walk that thin line of being persistent/showing interest without being thirsty?

I’m in Milwaukee, she’s in Chicago, I’m down in chi 1-2x out the month to visit family/attend events so I always hit her up to link. Dope ass girl, when we do link, we talk for hours, we made out in my car when I dropped her off last time.

Milwaukee is a dump so I don’t blame you for outsourcing girls. Just pull up on the Amtrak and hit her up beforehand

 

[DTXwavey_02]

Welp my girl and I ended things today she wants to be friends but I don’t know cause I still have feelings for her. shyt sucks cause she’s been by far the best girl I’ve been with but there was an just issue that we couldn’t get right. I’m done with females for the summer tbh, I have no energy to deal with games and I’m still heartbroken

 

[VertigoKnight]

Welp my girl and I ended things today she wants to be friends but I don’t know cause I still have feelings for her. shyt sucks cause she’s been by far the best girl I’ve been with but there was an just issue that we couldn’t get right. I’m done with females for the summer tbh, I have no energy to deal with games and I’m still heartbroken

Nothing worse than a woman saying she wants to be friends after shes the one who ends things.

That’s just to ease her guilt so she doesn’t feel you hate her. Or still use you for emotional support.

Now there is no need to be nasty to her. But I would say you need some time to yourself so being ‘friends’ at this moment is not going to work for you.

 

[Balla]

Not gonna hold you, getting rejected from a black woman than any other race. You know all I did was say hello make casual conversation and it’s a quick “get the fukk away for me”

Even her Pakistan friend was like “damn relax, like he’s your ppl”

It’s just honestly fukked up, because you go into white establishments and you expect a head nod or some sort of ackwnoledgement from a black woman or black ppl in general and you receive nothing.

Breh from Senegal acted like nothing happened, he wasn’t to be passive. Useless as fukk.

Why are our women lost? Why don’t they respect us or just show common courtesy? Why do I have this fukked up feeling? Like if it was a Indian or white girl. It’s whatever, but a black girl? That shyt just hits different.

I’ve been saying this in the KS thread breh and nikkas couldn’t understand or they didn’t want to.

They are not our women. Not telling you to leave them alone, just don’t care about them like that or think they’re down for you.

It’s crazy to be honest because you won’t know unless they tell you sometimes. I fukked some chicks who later told me they dated non-bm and some said some real c00n shyt too.

I definitely won’t tell you that non-bw are better because they not. Gotta treat all women the same.

To answer your last question about why they act this way? I think it’s self-hate, a lot of bm won’t check them for anything, a lot of people are against bm so they think it’ll be better to join them, etc.

Just don’t care about them breh and realize this, you will be a lot happier.

Be Black and Proud breh.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I’ve been saying this in the KS thread breh and nikkas couldn’t understand or they didn’t want to.

They are not our women. Not telling you to leave them alone, just don’t care about them like that or think they’re down for you.

It’s crazy to be honest because you won’t know unless they tell you sometimes. I fukked some chicks who later told me they dated non-bm and some said some real c00n shyt too.

I definitely won’t tell you that non-bw are better because they not. Gotta treat all women the same.

To answer your last question about why they act this way? I think it’s self-hate, a lot of bm won’t check them for anything, a lot of people are against bm so they think it’ll be better to join them, etc.

Just don’t care about them breh and realize this, you will be a lot happier.

Be Black and Proud breh.

the aftermath of the “Nubian Queen/Sun Goddess/God is a Black Woman” dialogue.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Like let’s be honest, they don’t respect us and they don’t give a fukk. The community is fukked and it doesn’t fukking matter, no matter how much we try to salvage it

It’s over breh lmao. I started to swerve off on the Black Gender War/Manosphere/PBL + Kendra lane. Not only because it’s propaganda, but it does sting to hear the same talking points.

Most BM were taught view them as unquestionable Goddess, so when one rubs you the wrong way it feels like slash to your ego/heart. They’re just like any other woman or human for that matter — prone to mistakes, failures, and fumbles. When you see who they attract, start families with, advocate for.. you begin to realize that’s their ceiling. Just like “not everyone can be a boss”… not every BM/BW deserves or even wants that Nuclear Family marriage unit.

Ya posts sound passionate on the issue, so that means you strongly prefer a melanated woman across that altar. when it’s time. You’ll be straight breh.. when you don’t expect it they’ll be a woman who negates how you feel.. it’ll be up to you if you want to lock her down

For now, simply chalk it up to “unfortunate she was never shown the type of BM I am nor loved by one” and keep it pushing.. because that’s what 90% of the issue stems from.

 

[Max.]

Welp my girl and I ended things today she wants to be friends but I don’t know cause I still have feelings for her. shyt sucks cause she’s been by far the best girl I’ve been with but there was an just issue that we couldn’t get right. I’m done with females for the summer tbh, I have no energy to deal with games and I’m still heartbroken

Lets be friends = Thats the i got some new dikk but if he hits and quits me maybe in 3 weeks ill get back with u line

 

[rabbid]

Is it just me or do different condoms might cheapen sex? Skyn brand is my favorite. I ran out and only had the yellow trojans. Giving backshots last night it just made my dikk feel too sensitive if that makes sense. I could t go fast in fear of busting.

What's the one that has the heated sensation? I think it was Skyn. Shyt damn near put me in a spiral. I agree.

 

[Rozay Oro]

What's the one that has the heated sensation? I think it was Skyn. Shyt damn near put me in a spiral. I agree.

Skyn the dont feel like anything on ones. They thin and latex free, which is mainly why I use them. The girl I lost my virginity to back in the day is allergic to latex.

Idk tf that shyt is though. These ribbed condoms must be for cacs cause I put the shyt on and I don’t see no ribs on it. My shyt just hurt.

 

[Rozay Oro]

First time I miss a bytch while fukking another bytch