The issue is avg dude aint clouted enough or too thirsty for sex that they will hop on any opportunity to be in front of a chick in the hopes of sex. Playing boyfriend for the hopes of sex and not even wanting a relationship lolY'all gotta stop taking these hoes on dates lol. The same girls y'all taking on dates are the same ones telling everyone they ain't never been on a date before.
It's just a waste of time imo. I'm only taking a girl to a sit down restaurant if we've been messing with each other for a minute.
If your logistics are straight they can either pull up to the crib or vice versa. If I don't want at her at my place then I damn sure don't want to be out with her in public.