Been reading this topic for a few days before I decided to finally post. Picked up a few gems through the reading.. So heres my story.
Been talking to this girl since last year February on a social site we flirted a lot but never took it past that till july when we exchanged numbers. Fast forward we talked for a few months didn’t see each other due to the difference in schedules, me chilling with my friends and other chick and her always chilling with her friends every free moment she got but we talked daily had a good connection. I would say we didn’t see each other till one night late September when I was drunk and just sent her my **** pic and she came over 2am. We f***ed that night she came back next weekend we f***ed again. Didn’t see each other for about a month and change cause I was working on this career move. Seen each other 2-3 times in the November and dec and smashed again. We had our first date early jan because I wanted to go to this spot my friends been talking about so I just took her along for the ride. Date was actually great we talked learned a more about each other and just got a chance to vibe.
Problem is there’s been times we was suppose to see each other and it get cancelled because her friend’s always got something they want her to go tag along with so she’ll cancel and go. Spoke about it that felt as if it fell on deaf ears. Now as of late we have nothing to talk about so communication has been low compared to how it use to be. Been a few time’s I’ve logged onto social sites and I see guys writing her flirtatious comments not to say she’s flirting but more she’s entertaining it by responding even if it’s just a “lol”. Already said what I think and feel about it let her tell it she doesn’t consider that flirting. I also feel from what I see that she post’s certain things for attention almost as if her life solely revolves around social network, attention, thirst and the approval of others on these sites. The effort she puts to her friends and social sites would be a hell of an effort towards me and her actually building something. Something else I’ve spoke about. At this point I’m tired of talking especially when nothing is making a difference.
Me- Handsome guy, ambitious, no kids, good place in life and everyone who knows me knows I’m working hard to step into a even better place soon. BMW 650, own place.
Her- Decent face, nice body, unemployed, not in school…
@ this was the same chick that was trying to tell other women to not carry themselves like a ho to have a relationship one day in the break room @ work yet she was doing the exact opposite at the other night. I don't feel bad for her dude though. You don't plan on marrying someone you've been only dating for a month, especially when its on that "we're getting married when he gets himself situated" bullshyt 
