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I need some advice . How do you guys feel about ur s/o goin to the club and grinding on other guys . serious question . i need guidance


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I would let my girl go to clubs and dance....At the end of the day it's just dancing. You start setting those rules on your girl and she wants to cheat....I see it all the time. Be secure and let her have her fun.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean a girl can't have her fun and hit the club and dance.

As men we have our habits that girls don't like too. ie: going to strip clubs......Can you imagine if you girl told you, you couldn't go to the strip club for your homie's bachelor party because you're in a relationship? Or you just can't go one night with all your single friends........This is one of those things you have to concede. Sometimes you just have to trust that your significant other isn't cheating. If you catch wind she is, throw her in the bushes but these small issues like this, don't sweat it.
 

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I would let my girl go to clubs and dance....At the end of the day it's just dancing. You start setting those rules on your girl and she wants to cheat....I see it all the time. Be secure and let her have her fun.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean a girl can't have her fun and hit the club and dance.

As men we have our habits that girls don't like too. ie: going to strip clubs......Can you imagine if you girl told you, you couldn't go to the strip club for your homie's bachelor party because you're in a relationship? Or you just can't go one night with all your single friends........This is one of those things you have to concede. Sometimes you just have to trust that your significant other isn't cheating. If you catch wind she is, throw her in the bushes but these small issues like this, don't sweat it.

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I would let my girl go to clubs and dance....At the end of the day it's just dancing. You start setting those rules on your girl and she wants to cheat....I see it all the time. Be secure and let her have her fun.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean a girl can't have her fun and hit the club and dance.

As men we have our habits that girls don't like too. ie: going to strip clubs......Can you imagine if you girl told you, you couldn't go to the strip club for your homie's bachelor party because you're in a relationship? Or you just can't go one night with all your single friends........This is one of those things you have to concede. Sometimes you just have to trust that your significant other isn't cheating. If you catch wind she is, throw her in the bushes but these small issues like this, don't sweat it.



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At the end of the day, it's a matter of what you're comfortable with and what works for your relationship. I've dated girls who've gone to the club a lot as well as girls who hate going to the club, I don't think it's necessarily affected our relationship.....Honestly it's never been a problem in any of my relationships.....but I noticed that when you try to tell girls what they can't do in a relationship with you, it pushes them to do it.

I'm Dj and get hoes just for showing up to work.....I'm not worried about her grinding on some nikka.


If you're not comfortable with a joint going to the club all the time, save yourself the trouble and don't date her. I'm not really a club dude myself, I just happen to like music but yeah find someone you're compatible with.
 

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If a woman is watching stuff like Bad Girl's Club and Sex and the City, I'll say you have to watch out because it gives you an indication into the sort of things that attract her. But then again, it's tough because so many women like those trash shows.
 

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I would let my girl go to clubs and dance....At the end of the day it's just dancing. You start setting those rules on your girl and she wants to cheat....I see it all the time. Be secure and let her have her fun.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean a girl can't have her fun and hit the club and dance.

As men we have our habits that girls don't like too. ie: going to strip clubs......Can you imagine if you girl told you, you couldn't go to the strip club for your homie's bachelor party because you're in a relationship? Or you just can't go one night with all your single friends........This is one of those things you have to concede. Sometimes you just have to trust that your significant other isn't cheating. If you catch wind she is, throw her in the bushes but these small issues like this, don't sweat it.


^^^^^this. You shouldn't completely try to lock a chick down. When dudes start tryna do that, femaes tend to rebel
 

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If a woman is watching stuff like Bad Girl's Club and Sex and the City, I'll say you have to watch out because it gives you an indication into the sort of things that attract her. But then again, it's tough because so many women like those trash shows.

Thats the thing....but women love drama.Back in the day a woman could watch a drama filled show such as a soap opera and stll function. These women these days let the drama consume them.
 

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^^^^^this. You shouldn't completely try to lock a chick down. When dudes start tryna do that, femaes tend to rebel

Jay-Z said it best on Hey Papi

She used to love you, but she feeling different today
You used to smother her. Look at your honey slipping away
Consorting with hustlers, nikkas that be giving her space
She said she feel free when she's around me
I'm letting her do her and, in turn, she's doing me
She on the phone with her friends like, "How cool is he?"


take heed, he was dropping some game
 
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