Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Need some knowledgeable opinions on this situation i find myself in

So i'm dating this gorgeous woman for about a year now late 20s, no kids great body, the type i envisioned i could settle down with

...and many aspects of our relationship is good, we get along, we're always laughing, she listens and adjusts to issues that we've had in the past and she holds similar values to mine.. we seems to have the same goals in mind.

...and all that is great apart from one thing... the sex

Sex for the most part is ok to slightly below good but never great. Boring and conservative is the word that i would use. It just seems like she doesn't fully enjoy the act of sex as much (especially compared to other women i've been with) and views it as something thats part of being in a relationship. Best way i can explain it is more of a chore then a hobby

So we discussed it the other day and she basically explain that shes not really into foreplay like that and she can be lazy which she's trying to work on but she does enjoy sex

...Honestly she comes across as the type of women that because she can easily get male attention she's never really needed to put effort into her sex game.

My main concern is if this is whats already happening a year into the relationship this definitely gonna get worse in the future. I done already told her that i wouldn't settle being in a relationship where im only getting sex once a month.

Is she getting hers the majority of time?

 

[Babymama Magnet]

She might not be into sex with you. You don’t bring out her inner freak.

Lazy women aren’t lazy. They just aren’t into you.

A year with bad sexy is crazy.

Not gonna lie, i did think about this.

From what i've divulged from her she's not done anything thats considered freaky or kinky, just good ol regular sex

But we talked about kinkying up the sex

A part of me whats to speak to her exes just to find out if the sex was just as boring (not bad) as it is with me.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Is she getting hers the majority of time?

She gets hers.

Honestly i'm still trying to figure out how her body works when it comes to sex... hell i think she is too

She'll cum but shes out of action straight away... her puZZy is delicate (as she describes)

She says she enjoys the sex alot more now then before but idk... I've never been in this situation before

 

[CP3.]

Need some knowledgeable opinions on this situation i find myself in

So i'm dating this gorgeous woman for about a year now late 20s, no kids great body, the type i envisioned i could settle down with

...and many aspects of our relationship is good, we get along, we're always laughing, she listens and adjusts to issues that we've had in the past and she holds similar values to mine.. we seems to have the same goals in mind.

...and all that is great apart from one thing... the sex

Sex for the most part is ok to slightly below good but never great. Boring and conservative is the word that i would use. It just seems like she doesn't fully enjoy the act of sex as much (especially compared to other women i've been with) and views it as something thats part of being in a relationship. Best way i can explain it is more of a chore then a hobby

So we discussed it the other day and she basically explain that shes not really into foreplay like that and she can be lazy which she's trying to work on but she does enjoy sex

...Honestly she comes across as the type of women that because she can easily get male attention she's never really needed to put effort into her sex game.

My main concern is if this is whats already happening a year into the relationship this definitely gonna get worse in the future. I done already told her that i wouldn't settle being in a relationship where im only getting sex once a month.

This is it. The really, really good looking bytches always have trash sex game, trash at head, trash at flirting, all that shyt.

The 5/10 chubby bytches are the ones that will fukk your brains out and leave you feeling like you went 5 rounds with prime Tyson.

 

[Wargames]

She gets hers.

Honestly i'm still trying to figure out how her body works when it comes to sex... hell i think she is too

She'll cum but shes out of action straight away... her puZZy is delicate (as she describes)

She says she enjoys the sex alot more now then before but idk... I've never been in this situation before

Yeah it’s definitely a situation where her prior boyfriends probably came with little effort because she was pretty. Lesbians have a term for it “pillow princess”. She is just use to laying there on a pillow and being fukked. If she wasn’t your girl I would say bounce because lazy sex ain’t worth the effort.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

You guys ever run into the issue of men (homies, acquaintances, even family members) not formally introducing you to their partner/spouse?


Like, am I posed to break the ice myself?


Shiits so strange.


As a formality of simply being a human being, I always introduced my partner everywhere I went - shyts just quintessential social ettiquette.



This happens to me allll the time. And it's important for me because if i'm talking to you, don't be treating your bytch like a fukkin' irrelevant sidekick.



That shiits rhudebwoy status, brehs.



Like I'm gon' eventually slide up in her DM's and snatch yo chick (i won't ever do that... but if prompted, i will charm the shiiit out of her and have her questioning why the guy she's with is so tame and average - hee hee hee).



When you're seasoned and savory and experienced... the game you can kick without even saying a word is unworldly.




Makes every dude around you insecurr.




And i ain't even packin' much heat, if at all! Super average gang (if anything, slighly above, but nothing impressive. haha).




Nonetheless... these social cues or lack thereof has me feeling a certain way.





I guess when you have the gab of gift and being a people pleaser has its qualms, for sure.





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[Wargames]

You guys ever run into the issue of men (homies, acquaintances, even family members) not formally introducing you to their partner/spouse?


Like, am I posed to break the ice myself?


Shiits so strange.


As a formality of simply being a human being, I always introduced my partner everywhere I went - shyts just quintessential social ettiquette.



This happens to me allll the time. And it's important for me because if i'm talking to you, don't be treating your bytch like a fukkin' irrelevant sidekick.



That shiits rhudebwoy status, brehs.



Like I'm gon' eventually slide up in her DM's and snatch yo chick (i won't ever do that... but if prompted, i will charm the shiiit out of her and have her questioning why the guy she's with is so tame and average - hee hee hee).



When you're seasoned and savory and experienced... the game you can kick without even saying a word is unworldly.




Makes every dude around you insecurr.




And i ain't even packin' much heat, if at all! Super average gang (if anything, slighly above, but nothing impressive. haha).




Nonetheless... these social cues or lack thereof has me feeling a certain way.





I guess when you have the gab of gift and being a people pleaser has its qualms, for sure.





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Are you sure it’s them not introducing you to their girl instead of them not introducing that girl to you? I have ran into homies randomly at venues when I was with women I was only sliding through and didn’t want to make thing seem like it was more than it is by introducing her to my friends.

 

[The ADD]

Are you sure it’s them not introducing you to their girl instead of them not introducing that girl to you? I have ran into homies randomly at venues when I was with women I was only sliding through and didn’t want to make thing seem like it was more than it is by introducing her to my friends.

^^^
Probably a lot less about him and more about what she is to the guy

 

[Frieza666]

My bday is next week and my most recent exes are slowly coming out the woodwork. One took me to arbys for lunch after thrifting yesterday lmao

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

anyone using IG as a dating site? I haven't, not sure how you even go about that? They already got the upper hand when you message random women. Unless you're famous and shyt.

 

[Frieza666]

anyone using IG as a dating site? I haven't, not sure how you even go about that? They already got the upper hand when you message random women. Unless you're famous and shyt.

I do. I said fukk dating apps after it was just paywalls, fatties, catfish, etc. just went back to the og ways of cold approaching & regular social media

 

[Astroslik]

Like clockwork they come back around after you’re not phased that they want to “end” things

 

[internetexplorer]

Need some advice... Got a coworker who's 24, I'm 40, I but look like I'm 30. Anyways, she's beautiful, smart, funny, cool, she's dope! She asked me to go to the club with her and her female cousin a few months ago, and since then, we hang out frequently, and do all the things a couple would do, but our relationship has been completely platonic. Folks at work started questioning her about us being in a relationship, and hating on us being so close, which has caused us to become even closer friends.

The problem that I'm having is that I've grown to love her, and want to be more than friends. Obviously neither of us are in a relationship, but I know that if she were to get a boyfriend, I'd be salty as hell, and would probably stop dealing with her. Should I tell her how I feel?

 

[Astroslik]

Need some advice... Got a coworker who's 24, I'm 40, I but look like I'm 30. Anyways, she's beautiful, smart, funny, cool, she's dope! She asked me to go to the club with her and her female cousin a few months ago, and since then, we hang out frequently, and do all the things a couple would do, but our relationship has been completely platonic. Folks at work started questioning her about us being in a relationship, and hating on us being so close, which has caused us to become even closer friends.

The problem that I'm having is that I've grown to love her, and want to be more than friends. Obviously neither of us are in a relationship, but I know that if she were to get a boyfriend, I'd be salty as hell, and would probably stop dealing with her. Should I tell her how I feel?

You’re in love with her?

 

[Ahadi]

I do. I said fukk dating apps after it was just paywalls, fatties, catfish, etc. just went back to the og ways of cold approaching & regular social media

shytttt I’m about to be in this wave myself. They’re all damaged, boring, catfish, fat, etc.

Rather connect on IG or in real life.