Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What’s the logic behind a woman breaking up with a guy for cheating, but she end up fukking a new nikka on a regular basis that fukks a bunch of other hoes? :dahell:

A bird doesn't mind being the mistress/side bytch, especially with a lot of the delusional hamstering they go through to believe that said guy is only fukking her. You know how many times I've overheard "he wouldn't do that/he's not like that"....talk to women long enough and they'll tell on themselves, you'll also learn about how ridiculously deluded they are.
 

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Tryna drop the player image but its hard when you handsome :mjcry:

im not even a player anymore

Its fine, dread game is very real, and even more prevalent when you have your shyt together. I'm by no means a pretty boy, but I workout, tall, have long hair and say whatever the fukk I want. I always get the "are you hawaiian/Jason Momoa?" questions, which is basically a bird's way of trying to flirty and revealing her insecurity. She no longer has the trophy mindset, even more so when everyone knows me and has a good time when we talk. She's gonna resent you because of your greatness, which is fine, she knows her place....below you.
 

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You need to develop or step up your support group of friends or certain family. We can only do so much for you here. A lot of what men need, is camaraderie and understanding. A simple hour conversation can go a long way. Don't bother with women, they're useless, you need a proper friend to actually exchange ideas with. Do anything and everything that can add to your repertoire, whether its reading, light walking, etc.
I've been at it for awhile now, I was in the gym and I was talking walks daily. Until my doctor told me i was anemic.
 

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LOL she probably hitting both of yall raw.

Your rants these days sounds like you are just competing with this other dude for your ex heart *Her amusement*. We keep telling you to cut the chick off. One of yall two dumb nikkas is gonna get the hoe pregnant and not know who baby it is.


Yea imma cut her off, shyt sucks but Imma have to do it. She keeps saying she not using me or waiting for the other guy to make moves but also saying she needs to know if the guys are serious by valentines day but also saying she doesn't know cuz how could she and she talking to her ex.

When I hit raw I pull out every time though, we had scares during the relationship but used bc.
 

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Brehs I need some advice.. ya’ll ever deal w a girl that has serious trust issues? What ya’ll do to get over it?

My girl it bad for no reason man I’m in love w her crazy ass & it’s killing us

Also.. is it common for women to be wild emotional etc still in the last months of pregnancy? I thought it was just first trimester


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I don't feed it. She can have all the trust issues she wants, I'm gonna keep fukking her mouth and letting her eat my ass. I don't care what she thinks or what hang-up she has. In every relationship, I'm the rockstar, she's the groupie. She either learns to fall in line and suffocate those issues, or move on. I don't care how well you vibe, trauma and red flags are too much to deal with....and you're not gonna repair something that deep. Try pavlovian tactics or iceing her when she starts. You gotta train her, or else you're enabling behavior that will ruin all your good times.

As for pregnancy...my man, wait till she hits the postpartum depression, had sisters and nieces go through it, another reason to make sure, a bird has friends you can through her to.
 

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Lol how women have all this power when they’re essentially the losers.... in need of a mans guidance/protection. Even these modern day career women aren’t happy about their role and would rather have someone else responsible for their well-being.... how tf are this many men struggling with these brats with a twat???
Truly boggles the mind doesn't it. Womens are like the wind, you can't grasp the wind and never will but you can stand steadfast and channel the wind like a wind turbine.
 

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In a weird situation right now. I've been dating this chick since like right before Halloween. She seemed like real wifey material. Good looking, fit, feminine, NO DEBT and she was about a inch taller than me :blessed:We were getting pretty heated and i was thinking about making her my girl if the vibes stayed the same. She caught the flu in January.

At first I thought she may be lying and trying to slow fade me(i dont think she is evil enough to lie about being seriously sick but who knows with how women move nowadsys). I thought she may be down for a week or 2 but then be back to normal. She wasn't really responding to texts so I decided to give her space. Whenever I do get her to text back she says she appreciates me checking in with her but she still feels like shyt etc. Then one week she finally responds after I check on her and says she's been in the hospital because her flu got worse and didnt have her phone but now shes home.

Next time I check she says she's been in the hospital for 2 weeks now and had complications with the flu and she was planning on coming home soon because she feels a little normal. This made me think she wasn't lying because only a crazy person would lie and keep it going for weeks to make u take the hint. Haven't heard from her after I asked if she got out of the hospital and how she feels about vday on the 18th since she's recovering and I'm going out of town for my brother's bday. I also smashed a new chick this Sat because I haven't seen sick wifey type for a month and am confused on how to proceed.

I'm wondering if I should feel bad even tho we arent committed, should I keep trying or just move on even though i was fukking with her heavy and she seemed like she was fwm too, if she really is sick (im about 90% sure she is now), how she's going to look after being seriously sick and in and out of the hospital for a month.
:francis: sorry for the long post but I've never dealt with a chick to get sick like this
 
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In a weird situation right now. I've been dating this chick since like right before Halloween. She seemed like real wifey material. Good looking, fit, feminine, NO DEBT and she was about a inch taller than me :blessed:We were getting pretty heated and i was thinking about making her my girl if the vibes stayed the same. She caught the flu in January.

At first I thought she may be lying and trying to slow fade me(i dont think she is evil enough to lie about being seriously sick but who knows with how women move nowadsys). She wasn't really responding to texts so I decided to give her space. Whenever I do get her to text back she says she appreciates me checking in with her but she still feels like shyt etc. Then one week she finally responds after I check on her and says she's been in the hospital.

Next time I check she says she's been in the hospital for 2 weeks now and had complications with the flu and she was planning on coming home soon because she feels a little normal. This made me think she wasn't lying because only a crazy person would lie and keep it going for weeks to make u take the hint. Haven't heard from her after I asked if she got out of the hospital and how she feels about vday on the 18th since she's recovering and I'm going out of town for my brother's bday. I also smashed a new chick this Sat because I haven't seen sick wifey type for a month and am confused on how to proceed.

I'm wondering if I should feel bad even tho we arent committed, should I keep trying or just move on even though i was fukking with her heavy and she seemed like she was fwm too, if she really is sick (im about 90% sure she is now), how she's going to look after being seriously sick and in and out of the hospital for a month.
:francis: sorry for the long post but I've never dealt with a chick to get sick like this

get tested for HIV
 

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i actually got a dr appointment tomorrow but why u say that?:francis:

Chick either got Covid or a compromised immune system. If you consider her someone you care about, check in on her just as being a good human, but I'd dead them wifey dreams. Part of vetting is health condition imo
 

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Now it's i don't know if I'm okay coming over after she pushed for it :gucci:

Like the wind brehs, next option it is.
 
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