Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If that’s what you want, cool. Yet your trauma with your ex playing mind games and manipulation sounds like a bad mixture. Can you truthfully say you are emotionally intelligent to fukked a chick without thinking of ya ex girl or your mental issues?
Idk I'm torn, I see what you're saying. But I also want to clap some cheeks, it's been a long dry spell since the shyt hit the fan with her back in November
 

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I knew coli nikkas didn’t get no buns. Imma success on my weekend Vegas trip and it’s b-b-but it was bytches on vacay, b-b-but you can’t hack it in LA, b-b-but I been all around the world and it’s the same:mjlol:get tf outta here. It’s more baddies in Vegas than I’ve seen in LA since covid hit. I imagine whatever nobody ass cities y’all come from that be opened up is the same way, the wildebeast bytches is hella out in LA and the baddies be hiding:mjlol:
 

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Lol I cut it off with the hinge joint who said we could study together because she said we weren't hanging out enough together and going out on dates when I told her I was focusing on studying and fixing myself. She took it really hard.

Meanwhile, my ex, who I told the same thing too and want to marry but is talking to a nikka, hits me up because she has a family emergency and before that had a job emergency, and I should say well ask that nikka you talking too about it but I don't and I listen because I'm a simp I guess idk. When we link she lets me hit raw and says she does not let him but she gave him head and didn't give me and says dumb shyt like yall act alike and I wish I could combine yall both.

Told her don't ever tell me no dumb shyt like that again and banged it on her. And saying "valentines day will be the true d day if he asks her out"


Meanwhile one of my close female friends who I haven't spoken two in 2 years who cried in Shake Shack because I dated my ex and not her, just randomly started texting me again.

Swear sometimes I wanna just put my shyt on dnd for 5 months but then I get horny like a cartoon wolf in a suit

And mf's wonder why I booked a psychiatrist this week
 

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Lol I cut it off with the hinge joint who said we could study together because she said we weren't hanging out enough together and going out on dates when I told her I was focusing on studying and fixing myself. She took it really hard.

Meanwhile, my ex, who I told the same thing too and want to marry but is talking to a nikka, hits me up because she has a family emergency and before that had a job emergency, and I should say well ask that nikka you talking too about it but I don't and I listen because I'm a simp I guess idk. When we link she lets me hit raw and says she does not let him but she gave him head and didn't give me and says dumb shyt like yall act alike and I wish I could combine yall both.

Told her don't ever tell me no dumb shyt like that again and banged it on her. And saying "valentines day will be the true d day if he asks her out"


Meanwhile one of my close female friends who I haven't spoken two in 2 years who cried in Shake Shack because I dated my ex and not her, just randomly started texting me again.

Swear sometimes I wanna just put my shyt on dnd for 5 months but then I get horny like a cartoon wolf in a suit

And mf's wonder why I booked a psychiatrist this week

 

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I’m not the definitive playboy or esquire. I have my own personal shortcomings/issues with women that I have improved and strive to improve. This thread is a safe space for like-minded men to drop any knowledge they have on how to deal with women in order to develop healthy relationships, whether sexual or romantic.

With that being said, @Boxing&Jesus what the literal fukk is wrong with you? Like, no funny shyt what rotation did the gears in your brain make for you to make those two mind boggling decisions?
 
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Lol I cut it off with the hinge joint who said we could study together because she said we weren't hanging out enough together and going out on dates when I told her I was focusing on studying and fixing myself. She took it really hard.

Meanwhile, my ex, who I told the same thing too and want to marry but is talking to a nikka, hits me up because she has a family emergency and before that had a job emergency, and I should say well ask that nikka you talking too about it but I don't and I listen because I'm a simp I guess idk. When we link she lets me hit raw and says she does not let him but she gave him head and didn't give me and says dumb shyt like yall act alike and I wish I could combine yall both.

Told her don't ever tell me no dumb shyt like that again and banged it on her. And saying "valentines day will be the true d day if he asks her out"


Meanwhile one of my close female friends who I haven't spoken two in 2 years who cried in Shake Shack because I dated my ex and not her, just randomly started texting me again.

Swear sometimes I wanna just put my shyt on dnd for 5 months but then I get horny like a cartoon wolf in a suit

And mf's wonder why I booked a psychiatrist this week

:scust::mjtf: Bro you really need to completely cut your Ex off.

How you cutting off a potential future partner but still entertaining this bird? :dahell:
Honestly bro your just going to keep hurting yourself linking her when she sees fit.

I been following your story, and to be honest it just sounds like she's keeping you around until the other guy really decides to take her serious.
I'm not even sure why you want her back, but she isn't going to want you back if she literally still has access to you without being with you.
She's getting the best of both worlds now.

She is allowed to explore and experience new people while still having the familiar face around and your facilitating it :snoop:
 

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Lol I cut it off with the hinge joint who said we could study together because she said we weren't hanging out enough together and going out on dates when I told her I was focusing on studying and fixing myself. She took it really hard.

Meanwhile, my ex, who I told the same thing too and want to marry but is talking to a nikka, hits me up because she has a family emergency and before that had a job emergency, and I should say well ask that nikka you talking too about it but I don't and I listen because I'm a simp I guess idk. When we link she lets me hit raw and says she does not let him but she gave him head and didn't give me and says dumb shyt like yall act alike and I wish I could combine yall both.

Told her don't ever tell me no dumb shyt like that again and banged it on her. And saying "valentines day will be the true d day if he asks her out"


Meanwhile one of my close female friends who I haven't spoken two in 2 years who cried in Shake Shack because I dated my ex and not her, just randomly started texting me again.

Swear sometimes I wanna just put my shyt on dnd for 5 months but then I get horny like a cartoon wolf in a suit

And mf's wonder why I booked a psychiatrist this week

LOL she probably hitting both of yall raw.

Your rants these days sounds like you are just competing with this other dude for your ex heart *Her amusement*. We keep telling you to cut the chick off. One of yall two dumb nikkas is gonna get the hoe pregnant and not know who baby it is.
 

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LOL she probably hitting both of yall raw.

Your rants these days sounds like you are just competing with this other dude for your ex heart *Her amusement*. We keep telling you to cut the chick off. One of yall two dumb nikkas is gonna get the hoe pregnant and not know who baby it is.

at this point church cant even save breh lol

life gonna teach him somethinf soon
 

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I’m not the definitive playboy or esquire. I have my own personal shortcomings/issues with women that I have improved and strive to improve. This thread is a safe space for like-minded men to drop any knowledge they have on how to deal with women in order to develop healthy relationships, whether sexual or romantic.

With that being said, @Boxing&Jesus what the literal fukk is wrong with you? Like, no funny shyt what rotation did the gears in your brain make for you to make those two mind boggling decisions?


Definitely some unresolved trauma and abandonment issues going on, this will be my third time seeking some type of therapy this time in the psychiatrist form instead of regular therapist. No excuse though
 

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I appreciate all the gems and replies being stated, I need this. And I cut off the hinge joint because although she has many good qualities, she still was wanting to go on dates and talking about her brother told her about this restaurant called Fogo de Chao etc and we don't hang out enough and she wants to know boundaries, when I told her from the jump I'm focusing on myself that just made her like me more.

As far as my ex yea imma fall back. When she first decided to speak to the guy I took it really hard and she would just check in on my mental health etc. Fast forward she's telling me to come over. Craziest thing that happened was the pastor invited me to dinner at his house that I never been to and turns out he lives around the corner form her. He is preaching to me abstinence until marriage and to focus on myself until I can get into that place I need to be.

With her, she keeps saying me and the guy are similar and we would probably be friends, etc I told her stop saying that shyt and to not compare me and everything.

My biggest thing was they both made more than me and I was complacent in my early 20's I know one day I want a family, kids and the whole thing but I have to work on my savings, mental and my career and maturity

Feeling like I need to just go monk and grind mode and no women at all for this year
 
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This ain't about me per se but I need my City Boys to tap in and school me if I'm bugging or the game has changed and I'm just :flabbynsick:

I was recently catching up with this cat I used to work with yearsss ago. Back in those days we were young and used to be outside :demonic::steviej:but he's not really the type of person I'd hang with at this stage in my life.

In any event we spoke recently and he was telling me how he started talking to a chick maybe a month ago. They kicked it twice and he says she's pretty laid back and has a good career and he likes her:ld: Then he goes on to say "oh yeah, I been shooting her club up :steviej: I think she might actually be pregnant :banderas:"

I don't know if I'm just the Washed Lord but when did nikkas start purposely (or just not caring) knocking up chicks they barely know? :wtf: Not to mention I'm not sure this chick even lives in the same city as him :dahell: Granted this cat is 40 but I'm a little lost how this works but also how cats at that age are still with the shyts :ld:
 
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