Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Same shyt I do in LA…security:mjlol:. Vegas rent ain’t shyt, I can have 2 bedroom for $800:ohhh:hoes galore?, no back n forth with the governor/mayor on covid restrictions, say less…


You ever thought about getting an apprenticeship with a Union out in Vegas? They are always building shyt out there . You’re not old, work for a couple years. Save and invest, profit down the line.

Everything falls into place according to your actions. Check out your options, do t paint yourself in a corner
 

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I appreciate all the gems and replies being stated, I need this. And I cut off the hinge joint because although she has many good qualities, she still was wanting to go on dates and talking about her brother told her about this restaurant called Fogo de Chao etc and we don't hang out enough and she wants to know boundaries, when I told her from the jump I'm focusing on myself that just made her like me more.

As far as my ex yea imma fall back. When she first decided to speak to the guy I took it really hard and she would just check in on my mental health etc. Fast forward she's telling me to come over. Craziest thing that happened was the pastor invited me to dinner at his house that I never been to and turns out he lives around the corner form her. He is preaching to me abstinence until marriage and to focus on myself until I can get into that place I need to be.

With her, she keeps saying me and the guy are similar and we would probably be friends, etc I told her stop saying that shyt and to not compare me and everything.

My biggest thing was they both made more than me and I was complacent in my early 20's I know one day I want a family, kids and the whole thing but I have to work on my savings, mental and my career and maturity

Feeling like I need to just go monk and grind mode and no women at all for this year

as a guy with an ex who on the same shyt. Leave her alone, really. She won't leave you alone so you have to leave her alone.
I've been through that with an ex, hell she still here. I don't let her get anywhere close, no text no phone calls, the only time she seeing me is when I post on IG. I don't have time to be listening to her talk for an hour about random shyt going on in her life that I don't have anything to do with. they'll bring up their "new man" like it's casual & try to have you feeling like you in the wrong for saying something about it. Nope. :camby:


Don't worry about these women, worry about yourself.
 

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Tryna drop the player image but its hard when you handsome :mjcry:

im not even a player anymore
 

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You ever thought about getting an apprenticeship with a Union out in Vegas? They are always building shyt out there . You’re not old, work for a couple years. Save and invest, profit down the line.

Everything falls into place according to your actions. Check out your options, do t paint yourself in a corner
Stop wasting your time on that bum ass nikka. Dude is a colossal failure in life.
 

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Has anyone ever suffered from emotional trauma following an emotionally abusive relationship? I already suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. It got bad last year and I didn't want to be alone. My ex wanted to start up an affair with me while I was going through this but she put me through that shyt. I'm currently back in the hospital because my ulcer is bleeding again. I'll keep you updated. I just feel so alone right now.

You need to develop or step up your support group of friends or certain family. We can only do so much for you here. A lot of what men need, is camaraderie and understanding. A simple hour conversation can go a long way. Don't bother with women, they're useless, you need a proper friend to actually exchange ideas with. Do anything and everything that can add to your repertoire, whether its reading, light walking, etc.
 
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