Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Valid point but here is the situation. Don't like to get this graphic or even calculated when it comes to sex but here goes!

How would you feel if your girl only had sex with you once in two weeks? Y'all only see each other twice a week usually.

I get she is tired and she works a high stress job but that right there sucks.

Spoiler: I’ll say this

Yeah that’s no bueno if it falls outside what you need.

Dudes won’t want to here this but you gotta have conversations with a woman if are going down a path where y’all are spending a majority of your time together and you aren’t seeing other chicks. I’ll give my girl credit. She flat out asked me what my expectations on sex were. She has a high stress job also.

 

[Reality]

My problem is I least get either girl A or B. How can I get a combo of both lol.

I’ll let you know when I figure that out, lol.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Spoiler: I’ll say this

Yeah that’s no bueno if it falls outside what you need.

Dudes won’t want to here this but you gotta have conversations with a woman if are going down a path where y’all are spending a majority of your time together and you aren’t seeing other chicks. I’ll give my girl credit. She flat out asked me what my expectations on sex were. She has a high stress job also.

also we at a place where walking away = beef
we stick around when we not satisfied only for the world to end to finally break up lol.

There is a difference between bumps that come with relationships and this person simply isn't able to provide me with this thing I need and it isn't really in an answer I can trade off another positive they have for. Some times it's best to bow out early.

 

[The ADD]

also we at a place where walking away = beef
we stick around when we not satisfied only for the world to end to finally break up lol.

There is a difference between bumps that come with relationships and this person simply isn't able to provide me with this thing I need and it isn't really in an answer I can trade off another positive they have for. Some times it's best to bow out early.

Yeah that’s been said a lot in here. Dudes are 6-8 months down the line fed up with things they didn’t like about her from jump and I’m like

 

[Guvnor]

if I understand correctly
1.Yall see each other 2 times a week, and I assume yall smash each time yall see each other assuming she isn't on her cycle (unless you nasty lol).
2.Past two weeks yall see each other but no sex?

Outside of the 2 times a week of actually seeing each other, how much do you all talk? did you notice a change in energy?

Because you all dont see each other much, it could be anything honestly. Thing is if she was smashing someone else she could be doing it on the 5 days you dont see her, so I'm leaning more towards depression from work, or maybe just being tired of the situation as a whole. 90% of women dont like working lol

Lol shyt even the cycle don't stop me sometimes but point 1 is right and she was on her cycle yesterday to give her the benefit of the doubt . Point 2 is wrong, I had sex with her once within a 2 week span.

To be fair we talked the same amount and she called me once every other day. It could be the work thing and she also has family drama in her life too with her mom and aunt beefing.

 

[Guvnor]

Update she texted me asking to talk in person. Kinda don't want to but I'll see what's on her mind

Spoiler: I’ll say this

Yeah that’s no bueno if it falls outside what you need.

Dudes won’t want to here this but you gotta have conversations with a woman if are going down a path where y’all are spending a majority of your time together and you aren’t seeing other chicks. I’ll give my girl credit. She flat out asked me what my expectations on sex were. She has a high stress job also.

Yeah and I only want 1 to 2 times a week at minimum but there are weeks where we have no sex at all. Especially if I don't initiate it.

It got so bad I got me two side pieces lol. I had to get my hands on something.

I’ll let you know when I figure that out, lol.

shyt breh please do. It's like one or the other, you either get the girl who ain't really shyt but sex is off the chain or the good responsible chick who has mediocre sex.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lol shyt even the cycle don't stop me sometimes but point 1 is right and she was on her cycle yesterday to give her the benefit of the doubt . Point 2 is wrong, I had sex with her once within a 2 week span.

To be fair we talked the same amount and she called me once every other day. It could be the work thing and she also has family drama in her life too with her mom and aunt beefing.

with anything in relationships there are always a ton of nuances. Everyone has times they feel down, and if she down you should show support. IMO you'd know in your gut if she is cheating, and then there is a diff between being down and this just is who she is. Only you know what you up against. If you monogamous and no roster, just thug it out till she gets out her rut. But if it really is work, then you gotta ask yourself if you actually want to be with someone who works a stressful job because this is what may come with it.

 

[Hagendas]

Update she texted me asking to talk in person. Kinda don't want to but I'll see what's on her mind


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Sorry breh

 

[CosbyMadeMeSellDrugs]

Brehs I need some advice.. ya’ll ever deal w a girl that has serious trust issues? What ya’ll do to get over it?

My girl it bad for no reason man I’m in love w her crazy ass & it’s killing us

Also.. is it common for women to be wild emotional etc still in the last months of pregnancy? I thought it was just first trimester

 

[Dave24]

Brehs I’m thinking of staying in Vegas permanently all this year or maybe next year. Newsom still got these hoes in LA shooki saw more fine hoes in Vegas than ever in LA, got hella sexual attention, I’m the big 22 now I can’t afford to spend another year of my life withering away in depressing ass dry ass LA when I could be livin my best life in Vegas. I think Vegas might be the key also to reaching my goal of 200 bodies. Anyone that has done similar lemme know whatchall be oni can work a low tier job and live in an entry level apartment anywhere not just in LA for those that will say this endeavor is lame behaviorim not finna waste my prime years

What low tier job are you thinking about getting in Vegas?

 

[Krisrunner2049]

What low tier job are you thinking about getting in Vegas?

Same shyt I do in LA…security. Vegas rent ain’t shyt, I can have 2 bedroom for $800hoes galore?, no back n forth with the governor/mayor on covid restrictions, say less…

 

[Dave24]

Same shyt I do in LA…security. Vegas rent ain’t shyt, I can have 2 bedroom for $800hoes galore?, no back n forth with the governor/mayor on covid restrictions, say less…

How much money would you recommend someone save up before moving to Vegas? Thinking about moving over there.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

How much money would you recommend someone save up before moving to Vegas? Thinking about moving over there.

Good question. Idk cuz I’m tryna make the move too. I’d assume $5k only cuz Vegas cheap compared to LA so my estimate might be a little off

 

[Reality]

Update she texted me asking to talk in person. Kinda don't want to but I'll see what's on her mind


Yeah and I only want 1 to 2 times a week at minimum but there are weeks where we have no sex at all. Especially if I don't initiate it.

It got so bad I got me two side pieces lol. I had to get my hands on something.

shyt breh please do. It's like one or the other, you either get the girl who ain't really shyt but sex is off the chain or the good responsible chick who has mediocre sex.

Man I went about a year w/ medicore, always initiating sex after a 5 year run of getting lucky w/ great sex but the relationship not being what I wanted. Don't settle for whack sex bro...it'll weather you to where you start getting into shyt you don't want to. Cheating, porn, drugs, whatever. Trust me.

The chick I smashed over the weekend was the 1st one in a minute after ending my last relationship. The passion & physical chemistry was more intense than it ever was with the ex, so I gotta hold that L for trying to be the good guy and make it work out of trying to make her wifey. This girl is beautiful, smart, conversation flowed great...but she's also a hard core stoner...maybe even bordering on soft psychological addiction, so it's the same problem.

The two women who had the best sex & relationship prospects combined both got married and had kids immediately after our little run was done, so in retrospect idk how much of that sex was aspirational vs. their true drive.

 

[OmegaK2099]

If that’s what you want, cool. Yet your trauma with your ex playing mind games and manipulation sounds like a bad mixture. Can you truthfully say you are emotionally intelligent to fukked a chick without thinking of ya ex girl or your mental issues?

Idk I'm torn, I see what you're saying. But I also want to clap some cheeks, it's been a long dry spell since the shyt hit the fan with her back in November